Creative. Strategist. FuxWithMeYouKnowIGotIt.

Hey #BOSSMOM. I know you've been waiting all year to take a break from BOSSIN' and let everyone cater to you. I also know, you're still going to be doing the most today because you can't help it. It's the reason why this day is dedicated to you. You don't skip a beat and it's recognized. You're the dopest at whatever your version of motherhood is. Know and believe that! #BOSSMOMNATION has a special treat for you today coming to your email (that's if you went to www.BOSSMOMNation.com and signed up to our emails). Or head over to the blog and check out our Notes to our Mothers and paying homage to where it all started. Love all you ladies of the NATION. Keep doing what you do, how you do it because nobody does it like you! Join BOSSMOM NATION. Motherhood Looks Good on You!

Literally, my day-to-day life. Right now, pizza come through! #HustleSeason #SummerSixteen

It felt necessary to honor #MambaDay. Acknowledge your gift. Practice your craft. Make an impact. Leave a legend. #WinnersCircle

I guess I'm due for a #WCW! Why not my bestie/business partner @bossmom_shah. This is the other woman behind this dynamic brand of #BOSSMOMNATION. I've watched her grow from preschool shenanigans, to adolescent quirks, to teenage drama, to young adult "problems", to loyal wife, to #BOSSMOM of three and of course bomb brand building business partner! That's a hellava growth spurt! Proud to be here... I love you Shah! #KeepGrinding #GetSchmoney #brrrr #WeGotNext #NextIsNow #WinnersCircle

I made it back to the bay after a week and a half in hiding in Atlanta. I'm back and I'm better. Ready to slay and create just for you #BOSSMOM. It's hustle season. The official season for everyone to win and business is booming. You all in or nah? Join the NATION. Shop www.bossmomnation.com.

Meet my babes // Amirah I play the favorite and she's winning. A little healthy competition between my children...why not! Lol. I love them all but this one right here is my sweet sugar. I call her Sugar. She even demands I call her that now. Her name is Arabic for princess and one who speaks. Do you know how amazing it is to see your child grow into the meaning of their name? I spend the majority of my days with her. I had this relationship with my father. I like to think I can give her the love he gave me. An unexplainable feeling I'm remembering and yearning for as an adult. Her company feeds my hustle. I like to think I can be the example my mother set for me. She completes me. #BOSSMOM

Meet my babes // Justice Seven years ago I lived in a home with my husband and son. I needed a female energy besides mine...badly. I don't remember wanting anything as much as I wanted her. I knew she would be she for me. Sounds crazy. Her name was no mistake. Maybe coincidental or a pure example of how strong the universe moves for me. I always wanted a daughter named Justice. Her father name is Justice. It all just fit. She's pure Alpha female. Extremely athletic and a conqueror. All traits of her father. But her looks, all mine. She's my twin. She has my fire. Something I hope she never lets dim. I'll work hard to keep it lit!

Meet my babes // Malik Malik is my first child, he's now 14. He officially turned me into a teenage mother having him at 19. It was a confusing time of my life and most memories of that version of Aliyah are forgotten or buried deep. I had a strong village when it came to raising him. A debt to my grandmother that can never be repaid. Birthing him is a lesson that can never be unlearned and something I didn't even appreciate until my recent years. There's grace in his existence. He's calm. Really calm. For those who know me, obviously an inherited trait. He's smart. Borderline genius. He plays football. A little girl crazy. Nevertheless, fun and a smile sharer. That's my boy, soon to be man.

Summer '16...is this not the season for getting money? Tell me something...where yo boss at? Join the Winner's Circle! We're waiting for you!

Check out what's poppin over at @bossmomnation on IG! #BOSSMOM inspo for days! #Love

#10k! Yes! We finally made it. We don't have followers, we have a community. These members make up our NATION! The love, likes, emails, photos, etc are all appreciated. If you haven't gotten a chance to check us out on Instagram, please follow now @bossmomnation. Take it a step further and go to www.bossmomnation.com to read some great content from mamas like you and sign up for our newsletter to receive your FREE guide to Crushing Goals While Raising Babies! We love and thank you for this moment!

I like to wear my #BOSSMOM tee but sometimes I don't wear my BOSSMOM tee. #BadgeOfHonor. Available to shop now at www.bossmomnation.com

There's something about this NATION! This community of women really be doing it. There's honor in this sisterhood. And it all comes with the badge of motherhood. ❤❤❤ Pick up The Badge of Honor pack from www.bossmomnation.com and show us how you rock your honor of motherhood! Check back all day on @bossmomnation for inspo from the dope mamas of BOSSMOM NATION and how they showed loved to the badges!

The trust is real. There's not much to do about broken trust besides move on and let your energy be used for good elsewhere. You deserve to be happy. #GoodVibesOnly

What's up with the midday sucking the dear life out of me? I believe that good health = good energy! @bossmom_shah and I are unleashing our #SelfImprovementForThisMovement campaign over at @bossmomnation starting on April 1. The kick off will be with #BOSSMOM Trish of @notummymommy 30-day fitness challenge! I just received my meal plan and workout calendar in my email. I cannot wait to do my measurements and get prepared to get it in! I hope some other #BOSSMOMS will be joining in. Follow us on @bossmomnation to get all of before and afters, triumphs, measurements, meals, etc! See you there!

I bet you didn't know (or maybe just didn't realize) I have a 14 year old son. Can I get a little personal guys? Ok, cool. So, last year I made the major decision to uproot my family from Georgia (where I spent the last 15 years of my life) and moved to California for a year to chase my dream, build my brand @bossmomnation and work closely with my bestie and business partner @bossmom_shah. At the time, it felt right. I soon learned the consequence of my selfish decisions. The thing about motherhood: there's no right answer. You do what you think is right. Sometimes shit really works. Sometimes it doesn't. Are you ready? Some things you just lose in the fire. You can't get them back. That's ok because sometimes it's a humbling lesson of growth. My family isn't the same anymore. My husband didn't come to California with me. Talk about strain. When I announced the move, the question of him arose time after time. I painstakingly smiled while giving the best PC answer I could afford to shell out. Nothing was the same. My son dreaded the idea of living in California. I let him move to New York for the year to stay with family on his father's side. I rarely see him outside of FaceTime chats. I'm faced with sadness beyond measure. This airport pickup in this video is my third in person contact with him since July 2015. My baby girls. 4 & 6 at the time. Give me a second. This part makes me want to cry. I separated them from the two most important men in their life! Everyone keeps a smile most of the time. But when it rains, it pours. I recently took a hiatus from social media. Basically, I was depressed. I couldn't even laugh to keep from crying. I didn't want to either. I really felt helpless. I've always prided myself on having control and a plan. This time, my plans buckled. All control was lost. I'm a different girl right now. Can I get a little deep guys? Ok, cool. Man plots. God plans. Simple as that. When the creator and your higher self is ready for transition, your flesh has no honor. Humble is not even the word that can describes how I feel. The humility in my being enlightens me! I think I like who I'm becoming. I'm gracious to be here.