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Alright bitches its BB here!

Some of you have followed me on here for around 10+ years (yes I am an OG) and I have only ever made one, an infamous at that, post. I have never formally introduced myself so I decided to put on my beautiful vintage robe, pour a glass of riesling (I’m a white wine kind of girl), and give y'all a bit of background on me so when I start spitting game to y’all you know it’s coming from a real ass bitch who actually lives that life and has learned from all the amazing Tumblr OG bitches (I'm talking back when it was only the real bitches in the hashtags giving mad game for free, glad they are living their best lives because they have saved/helped so many women like me). So here you go let me introduce myself:

It all started in 2012 when I was, what like 12 or 13? And I downloaded Tumblr thinking I’d get to be further submerged into the fan girl sphere where I could read all the One Direction, Jaden Smith, and Mindless Behavior smut I wanted! Through one of those late night reads I came across, I believe her name was West African Doll, who had a post about this luxury date she was on. I scrolled and saw her photos and WOOOOOW! She was a beautiful dark skin black woman with a beautiful view and yummy food and a killer body! I was in aww! Then I looked at the hashtags and thought “hmmm I thought SB was a candy? I didn’t know it was an actual lifestyle” I spent hours and hours scrolling through the hashtag where all these young, attractive women were being spoiled and had private flights, luxury hotels, and 5 star dinners. And that day I decided that even if it killed me, I would become one of those beautiful women. 

I spent YEARS AND YEARS scrolling through the hashtags, reading all of the recommend books, and compiling it all on my blog, which has served as a sex worker search engine lol! I never really started indulging in the luxury living and being a high maintenance woman because honestly I was scared :( I didn’t think I had it in me, and being so young (I think maybe 16 or 17 when I signed up for seeking arrangements) I was attracting a lot of pedophiles and I was so scared. I realized that those fucking sugar trolls that dragged the fuck out of me for saying young underage women (like myself at the time) should be supported by the sugar community were actually right. I needed to really work on myself, take some etiquette classes and lose that ghetto hood chic voice. I needed to learn how to do my curly hair and make it look bomb! I needed to learn how to dress, and become more confident. I needed to heal my broken heart from that dumbass football jock that broke my heart. I needed to learn how to apply makeup and invest in myself. 

I am now a second year college student, in my early 20s, and living my best life. I am in a loving relationship with a man who is worth over $50 million dollars, he recently purchased me a home so I could move out of my college apartments. He has purchased me my first 2 vehicles, and gifted me a country club membership! I am truly beyond blessed! Thanks to him investing and pouring into me I now have an amazing career as a public figure and travel blogger. 

So now that I have reintroduced myself and told you a bit about me, let me tell you how I am going to use this amazing blog of mines:

-Advice/answering questions

-Giving you real life examples of how to apply your favs advice 

-Leveling up 

-Raw and honest truthful tough love 

-Motivation for those who have been dming and supporting me

What I will not be doing is:

-Leaving the heaven my man has created for me to entertain dusty incels

-Coddling you bad bitches, if I can do it you can do it

-Doing the work for you and spoon feeding you

I have spent over a decade becoming the bad bitch that I am, and I want to share that with you. But I am not your mother and I am not going to be holding your hand. Many OGs have left Tumblr because they are tired of answering the same questions over and over again by lazy chics who don’t want to do basic research. They would much prefer to live their luxury lives and be wined and dined. I don’t blame them! If you’re not willing to do the work (and y'all got it good Tumblr has a search bar now lol) then this high value life isn’t for you!