Upon the Distinction Between the Ashes of the Various Tobaccos

The only thing "missing" is objectively, they aren't actively developing the specific skill of using their eyes to read words off the page...that undeniably is a useful skill and a benefit you can get from reading, but it's not some inextricable part of the process that makes audiobooks invalid as a way of taking in a story

This is especially a problem in an era where reading-defined-as-a-skill literacy and reading comprehension defined as a skill has gone down drastically.

I don't mind if someone says they listened to a book. I also don't really care if someone says they read a book and they mean "listened to the audiobook". I do care, however, if someone tells me they can read, based on their history of listening to long and complex novels, and I hand them a lease and they don't actually have reading and reading comprehension as classically defined.

We have a literacy crisis and audiobooks fill the gap for a lot of people in terms of the books available, but they do not fill the gap between me and the 98th customer who comes in and tries to use the coke machine that currently has a big sign taped to the front that says "out of order". When we address the literacy crisis, we mention people can't read. And then get hit with a wave of "I read audiobooks!"

No, you do not read audiobooks in the classic sense of the word "read", and that is important, because the skill of that classic "reading" is still essential to going through life, especially if you don't want to get scammed. Reading your lease, your car contracts, your bank information, all of that is important to your well-being but you can't functionally read and comprehend long text, unless it is read aloud to you, usually with inflection to make comprehension easier. That is a problem.

I explained very clearly to the manager my issue with the meat section not having the price tags listed, and they claimed it was only going to be for the meat, since meat is by weight, and the price of each item is printed on the packs of each item.

Sure. That’s how they get their foot in the door. Fast forward not even two weeks, and here we are:

Bar codes. No prices, no item descriptions. No price stickers on the individual items. Heck, not even the name of the item that is SUPPOSED to be there.

No. The only way to see the price is to scan it on your phone app, which is also recording what you looked at recently, as a way of gauging what you might be looking for in the future.

So here’s what we’re gonna do gang:

Every time you go into a store that has implemented these price-less tags:

Take 1-3 items up to the cash register. Ask the cashier for the price, or hit the price check item on the self checkout, which will likely call over the attendant.

Express that you didn’t actually want it, you just couldn’t see on the shelf how much it was.

POLITELY, AND WITH A THANK YOU FOR THE PRICE CONFIRMATION, Give the items to the cashier or attendant to put back.

When they inevitably try to push the app, politely decline. If pressed for why not, say you don’t want to have to carry your phone in-hand the whole time you are shopping in order to see how much things cost. (Not having cell service or data to use the app is NOT a valid excuse, as stores already often have complimentary WiFi AND more stores will provide WiFi rather than give up on this push for surveillance pricing)

If it’s a shelf-stable item, the cashier will have to set it aside, taking up room in their limited operating space, and eventually pass it off to someone to put in a holding area to put back later. If it’s a fridge/freezer item, it might have to get tossed due to food product sale regulations.

In either case, you are making it a pain in the ass for them to have these digital bar codes. Tie up the checkouts. Give the employees more busywork that the company has to pay them to do. Hurt their bottom line having to toss the pint of ice cream you carried around in your cart for 20 minutes before giving it back to the cashier.

As of this morning I was reluctantly looking for jobs because I love my job and don't want to leave it, but see: $10k raise problem solver.

As of noon today this was no longer an issue, because my boss called me with the news that I was getting a $10K merit raise.

I feel like a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders. This is roughly $200 extra per paycheck. Enough to pay off debt faster, rebuild my savings, and spend a weekend a month in Milwaukee getting obscenely laid. The sex I'm going to have on $200 extra per paycheck. You can't even.

You are capable of harm

You have some level of power and agency

Ergo it is your responsibility to communicate your needs and boundaries

If you lie to someone about something being okay when it isn't, that is on you

Something being a trauma response doesn't exempt it from harming your relationships and the other people in them

Enabling your trauma responses will not make them go away, and it is your responsibility to work on yourself for your own wellbeing as well as the people around you

Being A Victim cannot be a pillar of your identity forever, and being victimized does not make you incapable of harming other people (see above)

You are not a mouse in a jean jacket you are an eel with a gun / adult human being who can use your words even if it's Scary

Grace is at the point, once he arrives on Erid, where he is able to understand the language quite fluently and grammatically correct, but he still adores that Rocky uses the repeated word emphasis, and the “statement” “question” structure because it’s what ultimately gave them both the ability to save their homes.

The whole metaverse can no longer be properly viewed without an account and I am definitely not making one just to see your contact info or opening hours.