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I don't know men. I don't. They're constantly puzzling me. The question is not What do women want? It's What the hell is up with men these days?

IDK and I have stopped trying to figure them out. I do, however, know women.

There are certain constants I've noticed in women my age. Certain "truths" if you will.

TRUTH:

If you sleep with a man, you will have feelings for him long after he's gone.

Mark my words. There's something about sex that makes a girl feel wanted, and our brain translates that into thinking and believing that he's boyfriend material - even if he doesn't treat you the way you deserve to be treated.

2nd TRUTH:

Don't kid yourself if you want a second hookup with someone who was supposed to be just a one-time hookup and he's not texting you back when you try to pursue him thereafter. Please GTFO.

Don't be his annoying puppy - undeniably cute, but needy. He doesn't know what to do with this needy girl aka you, and you don't wanna be his bitch.

3rd TRUTH:

When a girl chases a man & he doesn't stop running from her, she'll be running her whole life.

Girls, it only takes a push for a man to know you're into him ("flirt a little, wink a little"). If you text him, and he gives you one-word answers, doesn't follow-up with definite plans, or doesn't text you back after a full 24-hours, then he actively chooses not to see you.

It'd be wise to cease communication with him.

4th TRUTH:

Every man has a physical type. Every woman also has a type, but she is more likely to deviate from her ideal man than he is to deviate away from the type of woman he's immediately attracted to.

Think about it. Most men like blondes or brunnettes, skinny or curvy girls, and this is their one type.

For women, it's different because although we are also picky, we are more likely to fall for a guy's personality first which then translates into physical attractiveneness.

5th TRUTH:

Every potential date remains a "maybe" until proven otherwise.