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AI tool use is becoming mandatory for more and more roles at my company, unfortunately including mine, so I've spent the last week or so undergoing training courses and practice exercises for Claude Cowork, and here is my conclusion:
Congratulations, you made a computer that cannot successfully count to ten.
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I take it the answer "because it costs you more money to pay Claude to do work that you then have to pay me to fix than it costs you to pay me to do the work right the first time, and that would still be true even if my fixing it took less time than my doing it right the first time" is too likely to get them to decide not to pay you at all
#one of my friends is at a workplace like this#and uses their credits to ask it a series of increasingly unhinged TTRPG scenarios#while doing their regular work like normal
By the way, if it wasn't clear from my pinned post, my blog is more focused on Palestinian fundraisers, verifying their legitimacy, and identifying the occasional scammer to make sure they cannot get away with stealing money that was meant for genocide survivors. Most often the scam ends up being faced by a Palestinian family who trusted someone who turned out to be dishonest and kept the money raised for themselves rather than giving it over to the family. Whenever this happens I make updates and tell everyone to immediately request a refund. Please make sure to keep any receipt emails for donations in case the individual privates the fundraiser so you can't publicly find it and request a refund from there. I haven't ended up in this situation myself but I believe you should be able to request a refund if you have access to the information that identifies the fundraiser itself, even if the fundraiser is privated by the 'host'.
If you're looking for information on other types of scams or phishing incidents that are going around on tumblr and other platforms, I recommend following @kyra45 who covers a wide variety of scams, known scammers, and their MO.
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i get so emotional every time i think about fanfic culture. it's just so beautiful that people are writing and anonymously posting these thousand-word stories about characters we all love and not even getting any money or public fame from it. it's literally just for the love of the game.
shout out to everyone who participates in fanfic culture, be it reading or writing fanfics. you are contributing to such a lovely thing <3
Fanfic is as old as writing, if not older. A HUGE body of work in Ancient Greek was literally just Homeric fanfiction. And Homer himself may have been working off older stories, making it fic of fics.
The most primal human urge upon hearing any story is to write fic about it.
The United States has the largest carceral population in the world. Legislation designed to feed the prison state has produced detrimental outcomes for former prisoners; 70% of returning citizens go back to prison after returning to civilian life. The Return Citizen Support Group in New Jersey has constructed a community that utilizes parallel structures of mutual aid to support formerly incarcerated civilians in their journeys beyond prison. Importantly, this objective was born out of necessity. In modern America, the state and private sector only work to isolate individuals and kneecap their ability to move forward āĀ demonstrating that rehabilitation and strength is cultivated not within the system, but outside of it.Ā
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Theyāre not just censoring the news. Theyāre censoring your feed (WE KNOW THIS). New internal documents obtained by The Intercept @theintercept show Israel pressured Meta to scrub Facebook and Instagram of war content, and Meta keeps saying yes.
What Israel asked Meta to bury:
š Posts supporting Iran or opposing the war
š Images of Iranian missile impacts inside Israel
š Posts mourning Khamenei after his US-Israeli assassination
š Outrage over Ben-Gvir storming Al-Aqsa
š A blanket ban on any war-damage imagery - exporting Israelās domestic censorship to billions of users worldwide And Meta complies. The vast majority of the time.
š 92% of Israeli takedown requests granted in 2023
In 2006, I was berated for questioning Barack Obamaās progressivism. 20 years later, he proved me right.
By David Sirota
Itās the 20-year anniversary of my profile of Barack Obama, originally published inĀ The Nation. I spent a day with the then-junior senator and wrote an article that generated the most feedback of any Iāve ever written in my whole life.
The piece drew a lot of blowback because it was a rare critical look at a rising star who was then ā as now ā enjoying fawning media coverage. The piece zeroed in on how Obama was mixing populist rhetoric with a penchant for deferring to the establishment.Ā
Looking back, the article now seems to have predicted much of what was to come from Obama ā bailouts for bankers who were throwing families out of their homes, watered down Wall Street regulations, and incremental health care reforms that enriched insurance companies while excluding a promised public option. Not surprisingly, the part of my article where Obama tried to justify reversing his support for single-payer health care ended up repeatedly resurfacing years later as the Affordable Care Actās shortcomings became ever-more apparent.
The article came out around the same time in the political cycle that weāre living through now ā like today, it was the second term of a disastrous Republican presidency, and voters were hungry for change.Ā
On the pieceās 20-year anniversary, weāre republishing it not because Obama and his new presidential center have been so prominent in the news, but because we hope it provides useful context for voters once again trying to evaluate what qualities and political posture they want in prospective Democratic presidential nominees.
Read it below ~~Ā
Itās not every day that God calls your cell phone. But thatās exactly what happened to me on an overcast afternoon last November. āIs this David?ā asked the deep, vaguely familiar voice on the other end. When I told him it was, he said, āThis is Barack Obama.ā Thinking it was a good friend playing a joke, I said I didnāt believe him. But no, the voice insisted with a laugh, it was Illinois Senator Barack Obama, otherwise known in cult-of-personality political circles as a deity, a rising Democratic star or, as George W. Bush recently called him, āthe pope.ā
Obama was calling because he was bothered that I had written a few blog posts questioning positions heād taken that appeared to belie his progressive image, most prominently his vote for a corporate-written āreformā of class-action lawsuits, his refusal to frontally challenge the Iraq War after running as an antiwar candidate and his vote to confirm Condoleezza Rice as Secretary of State. One by one, Obama methodically answered each criticism. And when the call ended with his telling me he was committed to working with progressives, I was perplexed. Obama certainly talks a great gameābut then, so have many false prophets over the years. I requested a formal interview, and to my surprise, Obama readily agreed. By the end of a day in Washington with him, I had the answers to two key questions: What can progressives expect from Barack Obama, and what does he really aspire to be?
I first met the Illinois senator in his Capitol Hill office, where he introduced me to his staff, all of whom seemed totally at ease with him. Unlike in many Congressional offices, there was no overuse of the words āsenatorā or āyes, sir.ā In separate conversations I had with many staffers, he was referred to as just āBarack.ā I was given a packet documenting Obamaās accomplishments since his 2004 election, and it was hard not to be simultaneously impressed and underwhelmed. Given that heās one of the most junior members of the Senate, his successful efforts to secure additional funding for veteransā medical care and energy development in Illinois are no small feats. But considering that heās one of the most famous politicians in America, the accomplishments are fairly mundane.
āThatās the constraints of being in the minority,ā Obama said, when asked why he hadnāt used his media megaphone to push for more systemic changes. Then he adopted a signature Obama move: downplaying expectations. āWhat has probably been strategic was in the first year, my thinking was not to do a lot of message bills, in part because Iāve got a lot of colleagues here who do message bills,ā he said. āA lot of what I think is interpreted as caution is just a function of my institutional role as a freshman in the minority party and the limits that places on me in terms of being able to move legislation out of committee.ā
In a speech later that day, this theme came out again as he told the audience, āRemember, Iāve got a lot of cloutāI went from 99th to 98th in seniority this year.ā His sarcastic point has some meritābut only some. After all, legislation is just one measure of success. Another is how big an impact a politician has on the public debate. Most members of Congress have to scratch and claw to get attention even on pressing issues. Obama, by contrast, can put whateverās on his mind on the front page of major newspapers. Does he want a public image as a low-key legislative technocrat with a nice packet of accomplishments? Or does he want to be someone who uses the Senate platform to move the national political debate?
Obama carefully answered the question about how he wants to define himself: āThe amount of publicity I have receivedā¦means that Iāve got to be more sensitive in some ways to not step on my colleagues.ā For those who see him as a bold challenger of the system, this may be disappointing. After all, it oozes deference to the Senate clubbiness that has killed many a populist cause. And Obama has defended that club from outside pressure not only in his rhetoric but in his actions. For instance, last year he posted a long article on the blog Daily Kos criticizing attacks against lawmakers who voted for right-wing Supreme Court nominee John Robertsāeven though Obama himself voted against Roberts. And in January Obama publicly criticized a fledgling effort to filibuster nominee Samuel Alito. Obama actually voted for the filibuster, but his statements helped take the steam out of that effort.
True, Obama did show a rare flash of defiance when he unsuccessfully pushed legislation this year to create an Office of Public Integrity, which would have enforced anti-corruption laws. But that kind of power-challenging move, which was met with strong resistance from both parties, was an exception. At the same time that he was ruffling feathers with that bill, he was one of the many Democratic senators who fled from Russell Feingoldās motion to censure Bush over the White Houseās refusal to seek court orders for domestic wiretapping. Though polls showed that roughly half of Americans supported censure, it was shunned by the Senate club as too confrontational, and Obama seemed to agree.
Thatās the key word in trying to figure out Obama: He seems like everything to everybody, which is not necessarily his fault. Much of the media coverage of Obama has been personality focused, as the story of the son of a Kenyan and a Kansan, the third African-American senator since Reconstruction. Because the media have not looked as closely at his political positions, Obama has taken on the quality of a blank screen on which people can project whatever they like. But he hasnāt discouraged this. A masterful politician, Obama has a Bill Clinton-esque talent for maximizing that screen and appearing comfortable in almost any setting. And, like Clinton, Obama has an impressive control of the issues and a mesmerizing ability to connect with people.
Many progressives wonder whether Obama will show that an outsider can force real change in government, or that the Senate club has become so insulated that Mr. Smith can no longer go to Washington. But that question brings another one: whether Obama wants to challenge the club in the first place. āThereās no doubt that I will be staking out more public positions on more issues as time goes on,ā Obama said cryptically. Does that mean he is going to be more confrontational? āThe question is not whether you end up being confrontational,ā he said in a tone that made clear he had been pondering that idea long before I brought it up. āThe question is, Do you let confrontations arise as a consequence of your putting forward a positive vision of what needs to happen and letting the confrontation organically emerge, or do you go out of your way for it?ā
By almost all measures, Obama has been a solid liberal, both in his early career as a community organizer and then as a local politician. In the Illinois State Senate he supported increased funding for healthcare and education and wrote bills to publicly finance judicial campaigns and create a state earned-income tax credit. His charisma, intellect and ability to build bipartisan coalitions were evident early in his career, fueling progressivesā high hopes for him. In the US Senate, for the most part he has stuck with his party on key votes when so-called moderates didnāt. For example, Obama voted against the corporate-written Central American Free Trade Agreement. And he was particularly outspoken after Hurricane Katrina, leading the charge among lawmakers demanding answers about the governmentās failure to protect New Orleans.
But while Obama has a solid liberal record, many believe there is a difference between a liberal and a true progressive. For example, his signature legislation today is his āhealthcare for hybridsā proposal, which would give away hundreds of millions to auto companies to relieve them of some of the costs of paying for retireesā healthcare. In exchange, the companies would produce more fuel-efficient vehicles. The goals are unassailable, but the policy reflects the liberal carrot of appeasing a powerful industry rather than the progressive stick of forcing that industry to shape up by simply mandating higher fuel-efficiency standards.
The occasions when Obama has broken with his party indicate similar inclinations. Just one month into his term, the former civil rights lawyer defied the Democrats and voted for the class-action āreformā bill. Opposed by most major civil rights and consumer watchdog groups, this Big Business-backed legislation was sold to the public as a way to stop āfrivolousā lawsuits. But everyone in Washington knew the billās real objective was to protect corporate abusers. A few weeks later, though he voted against the credit-card-industry-written bankruptcy bill, Obama also voted against an amendment that would have capped credit-card interest rates at a whopping 30 percent (he defends his vote by claiming the amendment was poorly written).
Then there is the Iraq War. Obama says that during his 2004 election campaign he āloudly and vigorouslyā opposed the war. As The New Yorker noted, āmany had been drawn initially by Obamaās early opposition to the invasion.ā But āwhen his speech at the antiwar rally in 2002 was quietly removed from his campaign Web site,ā the magazine reported, āactivists found that to be an ominous signāāone that foreshadowed Obamaās first months in the Senate. Indeed, through much of 2005, Obama said little about Iraq, displaying a noticeable deference to Washingtonās bipartisan foreign policy elite, which had pushed the war. One of Obamaās first votes as a senator was to confirm Condoleezza Rice as Secretary of State despite her integral role in pushing the now-debunked propaganda about Iraqās WMD.
In November Obamaās reticence on the war ended. Five days after hawkish Democratic Representative Jack Murtha famously called for a withdrawal, Obama gave a speech calling for a drawdown of troops in 2006. āThose of us in Washington have fallen behind the debate that is taking place across America on Iraq,ā he said. But then he retreated. On Meet the Press in January Obama regurgitated catchphrases often employed by neoconservatives to caricature those demanding a timetable for withdrawal. āIt would not be responsible for us to unilaterally and precipitously draw troops down,ā he said. Then, as polls showed support for the war further eroding, Obama tacked again, giving a speech in May attacking the war and mocking the āidea that somehow if you say the words āplan for victoryā and āstay the courseā over and over and over and over againā¦that somehow people are not going to notice the 2,400 flag-draped coffins that have arrived at the Dover Air Force Base.ā
Another area of retreat and equivocation for Obama is his role in party politics. He had previously said he didnāt āwant to be the kingmaker,ā because āitās never been sort of a role that Iāve aspired to in politics.ā Yet Obama forcefully intervened in a suburban Chicago Congressional primary on behalf of Iraq veteran Tammy Duckworth, the candidate handpicked by Democratic power brokers, against grassroots contender Christine Cegelis, who in 2004 garnered an astonishing 44 percent against GOP incumbent Henry Hyde and who almost beat Duckworth. Wasnāt this the very kingmaking role heād said he didnāt want to be a part of? Obama said only, āThere are going to be strategic questions about who do I think is best equipped to win the general elections.ā One senior Congressional aide said, āObama showed himself to be the pure political hack he is. Here you have a guy whose own success was predicated on winning primaries against party-backed candidates now using his enormous political capital to go to bat for the same party machines he says he doesnāt want to be a tool of.ā
Although Obama said such high-profile primary endorsements were rare, a similar controversy arose a few weeks later. Just as Ned Lamontās antiwar primary campaign against prowar Connecticut Senator Joe Lieberman was gaining momentum, Obama traveled to the state to endorse Lieberman. Like the Duckworth endorsement, Obamaās move was timed to derail an insurgent, grassroots candidate. To progressives this may seem surprising, given Obamaās progressive image. But remember, according to the New York Times it is Liebermanāone of the most conservative, prowar Democrats in Washingtonāwho is āObamaās mentor in the Senate as part of a program in which freshman senators are paired with incumbents.ā
At the end of a long day, we sat down in Obamaās Capitol Hill office. It was time to talk specifics, so I asked him to explain his āhealthcare for hybridsā auto-industry proposal. Why not simply push to strengthen fuel-efficiency mandates?
āThere is a difference between an opinion writer or thinker and a legislator,ā he said, making sure to note that he is also a co-sponsor of bills that would mandate better fuel efficiency. āI a lot of times donāt get an opportunity to frame legislation in ways that I would exactly prefer. I have to take into account what is possible within the constraints of the institution.ā Fuel-efficiency standards, he said, provided a good example of what he was talking about. Michigan Democrats āCarl Levin and Debbie Stabenow are as progressive a set of senators as you can hope to find,ā he continued. āBut if you have a conversation with them about standards, they are adamantly opposed. Thatās something that Iāve got to take into account if Iām going to be able to actually get something accomplished.ā
This theme had been reiterated all day: Obama is all about the art of the possible within the system. āThis is a classic conflict within the left: Are you a revolutionary or are you a reformist?ā Obama said. āI am less concerned with the labels that are placed on me in terms of what kind of leader I am, and I am more interested in resultsā¦. I think within the institutional structures we have, we can significantly improve the life chances of ordinary Americans.ā I asked him to give me some specific examples of what he meant. Is a proposal to convert Americaās healthcare system to one in which the government is the single payer for all services revolutionary or reformist? āAnything that Canada does canāt be entirely revolutionaryāitās Canada,ā Obama joked. āWhen I drive through Toronto, it doesnāt look like a bunch of Maoists.ā Even so, Obama said that although he āwould not shy away from a debate about single-payer,ā right now he is ānot convinced that it is the best way to achieve universal healthcare.ā
Obama has a remarkable ability to convince you that his positions are motivated purely by principles, not tactical considerations. This skill is so subtle and impressive, it resembles Luke Skywalkerās mastery of the Force. Itās a powerful tool for a Democratic Party that often emanates calculation rather than conviction. āI donāt think in ideological terms. I never have,ā Obama said, continuing on the healthcare theme. āEverybody who supports single-payer healthcare says, āLook at all this money we would be saving from insurance and paperwork.ā That represents 1 million, 2 million, 3 million jobs of people who are working at Blue Cross Blue Shield or Kaiser or other places. What are we doing with them? Where are we employing them?ā
Shifting back to how he sees himself in the Senate, Obama seemed to amend his previous statement about what kind of leadership progressives can expect from him. āI am agnostic in terms of the models that solve these problems,ā he said. āIf the only way to solve a problem is structural, institutional change, then I will be for structural, institutional change. If I think we can achieve those same goals within the existing institutions, then I am going to try to do that, because I think itās going to be easier to do and less disruptive and less costly and less painfulā¦. I think everybody in this country should have basic healthcare. And what Iām trying to figure out is how to get from here to there.ā He went on to tell me about his support for other structural changes such as public financing of elections, forcing broadcasters to offer free airtime for candidates, adding strong labor protections to trade pacts and major efforts to create a more just tax system.
Obama is telling the truthāheās not opposed to structural changes at all. However, he appears to be interested in fighting only for those changes that fit within the existing boundaries of whatās considered mainstream in Washington, instead of using his platform to redefine those boundaries. This posture comes even as polls consistently show that Washingtonās definition of mainstream is divorced from the rest of the countryās (for example, politiciansā refusal to debate the war even as polls show that Americans want the troops home).
Obamaās deference to these boundaries was hammered home to me when our discussion touched on the late Senator Paul Wellstone. Obama said the progressive champion was āmagnificent.ā He also gently but dismissively labeled Wellstone as merely a āgadfly,ā in a tone laced with contempt for the senator who, for instance, almost single-handedly prevented passage of the bankruptcy bill for years over the objections of both parties. This clarified Obamaās support for the Hamilton Project, an organization formed by Citigroup chair Robert Rubin and other Wall Street Democrats to fight back against growing populist outrage within the party. And I understood why Beltway publications and think tanks have heaped praise on Obama and want him to run for President. Itās because he has shown a rare ability to mix charisma and deference to the establishment.
Barack Obama makes a convincing case that he is not overly motivated by political machinations. Many have accused him of Hillary Clinton-style positioning for a potential presidential run. But that kind of calculation does not appear to be in play, at least not right nowāand Obama chafes when anyone implies the opposite. āYou should always assume that when I cast a vote or make a statement it is because it is what I believe in,ā he said. āThe thing that bothers me is the assumption that if I make a judgment thatās different from yours, then it must mean I am less progressive or my goals are different, meaning I must be not really committed to helping people but rather I am trying to triangulate or drift toward the DLC [Democratic Leadership Council].ā
Still, thereās no question that his passions are confined by intense caution. Joan Claybrook, president of the consumer watchdog group Public Citizen, tells the story of how, after Obama voted for the class-action bill, he attended a meeting of public-interest groups. āWe were worried about what his vote indicated about him for the future,ā she said. āAnd he told us, āSometimes you have to trim your sails.ā And I asked myself, Trim your sails for what? You just got elected by a wide margināwhat are you trimming your sails for?ā
Obama will often be a reliable liberal vote, and he can give one hell of a speech. But we should believe him when he downplays our expectations. He says heās āa work in progress,ā but heās in an institution that tends to stifle greatness. As comic Jon Stewart said, āEverybody thought Barack Obama was going to [inspire people] when he came to Washington, but, you know, the Senate seems like the place where smart people go to die.ā
I want to talk about Qui-Gon. Iāve always loved Qui-Gon but watching TPM the other day, his ruthlessness, his determination to do the right thing even at the cost to others, really hit me. He cares and cares hard but also gets blindsided by his care. He threatens. Heās a hard man. I donāt think Iāve appreciated how firm he is before when dealing with those who stand in his way or who are thwarting his goals. (And totally off topic but I forgot that he literally elbows and punches Darth Maul during their fight like⦠who taught you to fight dirty, sir?)
I know George hadnāt devised Dooku when he wrote Phantom but omg I see so many of what I think are Dooku traits in Jinn and I want to gnaw on this⦠It is the same brand of āan intense sense of justiceā that pushes Dooku to leave the Jedi due to the tarnish of the corrupt Republic as it is that makes Jinn free a slave child, through an elaborate and dangerous plot, from a system ruled by a Star Wars āmafiosaā, that the Republic cannot or will not touch. What a pair of rebels. I love them.
When it comes to the connection between Buddhism and the Jedi teachings on not forming attachments in Lucas' Star Wars, I see that many fans - whether they identify as "pro Jedi" or "anti Jedi" - are confused about what "attachment" supposed to be mean in Buddhism.
āAnti-Jediā fans try to excuse and legitimize their misinterpretation of the Jedi teaching by arguing, "attachment" has a very specific meaning in Buddhism, so once non-attachment is ātaken out of its Buddhist context,ā for the average English-speaking Star Wars fan, it can only be interpreted as ānon-love.ā By contrast, many āPro-Jediā fans have a tendency to simply stop at ārespecting the Buddhist inspirationā of Lucasā Jedi doctrine, and insist, what itĀ reallyĀ meansĀ is clinginess and obsession (implying, Anakin was like Joe Goldberg from You.)
Both kinds of fans are mistaken. When they hear that in Buddhist philosophy non-attachment does not mean the absence of love or connection, rather, it connotes clinging, grasping and the inability to let go, they're quickly conclude that the kind of attachment the Buddha warns against has nothing to do with their ānormal attachmentsā or ānormal love.ā
This is not so.
Buddhist teachings highlight a simple fact of life we all know at some level but we donāt wish to face with: whatever we think we have, we can never truly have it. No matter how deeply we want toĀ haveĀ a mother, a spouse, or anyone we love, who makes us feel good, we can never trulyĀ haveāāāor own or possessāāāthem. Everything changes; nothing lasts forever. All that brings us happiness must eventually pass beyond our reach. Any kind of love that resists thisāāāany kind of love that has the element of the desire for someone or something to stay in our lives, to stay as they are, to not to changeāāāis an attachment, a grasping, a clinging a Buddhist must cease. The Buddha taught that attachment is the cause of our suffering: all reality is impermanent, yet we want the things we like or love to be permanent.
āIn our society,ā the Jetsunma Tenzin Palmo, born Diane Perry, writes in her book, The Heroic Heart, āwe believe that the more we are attached, the more loving we are. But it is simply not true. Attachment is tricky, but basically it means āI want you to make me happy and to make me feel good.ā Conversely love says, āI want you to be happy and to make you feel good.ā It doesnāt say anything about me⦠The important thing is that love allows us to hold things gently instead of grasping tightly. It is an important difference.ā She explains, āThe test of whether we are attached or not is how we feel if we lose something or someone we love. Are we holding on with both hands or are willing to let go? Inwardly, we need to be able to let go. Itās only when we grasp tightly that we have a problem.āĀ
āAttachmentā is a sticky word. In its literal sense, it refers to a tie or a fastening. Figuratively, it denotes an emotional fastening. When gentle, itās seen as love, liking, or connection; when strong, itās seen as clinging. Here, we encounter the first, basic problem: what exactly do we mean by āloveā? Tenzin PalmoĀ observes: āIn English, āloveā is a very multifaceted word. Itās very misused, as we all know. We say, āI love my parents, I love my children, I love my partner, I love ice-cream, I love walks in the country, I love television, I love football, I love to meditateā¦ā All these words for love have very different connotations. We are talking about very different emotions: romantic love, altruistic love, mere pleasure, etc.ā AttachmentĀ a kind of love, but what kind of love is it? In simple terms, attachment is a kind of love that says, āyou make me happy, so I care for you, I want to be close to you, I donāt want to be without you.ā The English wordĀ attachmentĀ refers to the feeling that you like or love someone or something and that you would be unhappy without them ā a feeling of affection or fondness that is characterized by a resistance to be without the person or the thing you like or love. Whenever feelings of loving or liking have the shadow of the fear of loss, weāre talking about attachment.
Batja Mesquita, the social psychologist and affective scientist who studied how the concept of āloveā is tailored to interactions and relationships in particular cultural contexts,Ā pointed outĀ that in the Western/Westernized world, āfor the most part love is felt for people who offer something we want, need or like; who are psychologically or physically attractive; and who need, love or appreciate us back.ā In this context, āLove means giving attention to your loved oneāāāsometimes at the expense of attention for other thingsāāāwanting to be close to them, expressing your positive feelings for them, to hug, hold, cuddle, touch, pet (if it is an animal), kiss, and, in case of romantic relationship, have sex with them.ā Love āsingles out and elevates one particular individualā and itās ultimately built around the goal of āto be united in mutual admiration, attraction, or longing.ā It should be easy to see, why, in this cultural landscape, the notion of not having attachments is so often and so quickly equated as not loving family, friends, pets, possessions, and decried as unhealthy, even malicious. After all, many people insist, whatĀ isĀ love if not attachment? āI think itās fair to say that Americans have some unhealthy concepts around the ideas of love and relationshipsāĀ saysĀ Alex Kakuyo, Buddhist teacher and a former marine āFor us, love is attachment-based, almost to the point of obsession.ā
The real difference between Buddhists and non-Buddhists is that a Buddhist would recognize the difference between the feelings and relationships lumped into the board category of ālove,ā and identify attachment - the kind of love thatās characterized by a desire for the things and people we love to not to leave our lives - as grasping and clinging, an unrealistic and self-centered desire for coming and passing things to stay as they are so they can keep us happy.
Yoda:Ā Careful you must be when sensing the future, Anakin. The fear of loss is a path to the dark side.
Anakin Skywalker:Ā I won't let those visions come true, Master Yoda.
Yoda:Ā Death is a natural part of life. Rejoice for those around you who transform into the Force. Mourn them, do not. Miss them, do not. Attachment leads to jealousy. The shadow of greed that is.Ā
Anakin Skywalker:Ā What must I do, Master Yoda?
Yoda:Ā Train yourself to let go ... of everything you fear to lose.
Lucas really was extremely explicit and clear. Entire thesis of the saga right there.
Love that scene so much. The slatted window is forever imprinted on my mind.
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June 5, 2026 - When Israeli diplomat Waleed Gadban attempted to deliver his speech at the UN International Labour Organization conference, he was disrupted by government labor ministers, union representatives and even some employer's organisation representatives, from many different countries, banging their tables to show their disapproval of Israel even being included in the conference. Some of the delegations even stood up to display the Palestinian flag during the protest..
The Israeli was unable to deliver his speech, showing how much the reputation of Israel has been destroyed, even among diplomats, and how important it is to fight for internationalism in our unions and political organizations. Cooperation with Israel must be opposed everywhere, on all levels. [video]
Why is it that every time I google something like "Are olives poisonous to cats" the top results are always like "Fun fact: Cats are carnivores! This means that they eat meat. There is no reason to include olives in a cat's diet. You should feed your cat cat food, which is dry or wet food especially designed for cats. You can purchase this at a store." like is there a single person alive on the planet who's googled "Are blueberry muffins safe for cats" because they're planning on switching their cat to a muffin-only diet??? No, I'm asking because the little bastard somehow popped open the packet while I was putting away the groceries and dragged one under the couch before I could react and now I need to know if I should call the after-hours vet. "Cats should not eat spaghetti." NO SHIT, SHERLOCK!!!! "Try to keep human food away from cats." i live in a studio apartment with a completely silent and permanently hungry apex predator who has the intelligence of a toddler and the desperate Machiavellian cunning of a creature who spent his formative months on the streets. He can already open doors and he is this š close to learning how to open the microwave. He is stronger than me and covered in knives. So im gonna do my best but for the moment i just need you to tell me whether this yoghurt is going to kill my son y/n
I've been using the pet poison hotline's poison list cause it has a search function. It also tells you whether something is mildly, moderately, or severely toxic which can be very handy! It doesn't contain like everything but it might be a good place to start, it also includes plants for fellow houseplant lovers <3
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For plants specifically, thereās also a wildly detailed set of posts and listings about toxicity on the old, wonderful, Plants Are the Strangest People blog