i like to think i am immortal (because I am)

This is what having auditory processing issues is like.

The OBSESSION with identity is so crazy like the view that when you do something it immediately becomes part of your identity and all the parts of you have to click together to become “person who wakes up early” or “person who reads” no you can literally just do something without restructuring your whole performance of personhood around it. I don’t know what to tell you except that you will never be able to have an entirely unfractured view of yourself or that you will be able to rationalize all the complex parts of yourself into the phrase “person who x” like you should just be doing things without performing them. Or aestheticizing them. Just try different things on and keep what works for you. Otherwise you will never learn and grow!

Fresno county just declared June to be “traditional nuclear family month” in a move that I’m sure isn’t targeted at all

They made sure to put mentions in the announcement of a lot of types of non traditional families like single parents and grandparents but not of same sex parents. Hmmmmmm.

"You know what's harder than Getting Better? Living Like That" is just the thesis for my whole shit going on right now honestly. You know what's harder than doing my physical therapy? Hurting All The Time. You know what's harder than addressing my gender dysphoria? Hurting All The Time

I'm Doing The Hard Thing and it's *easier* than how I was living before. If you make yourself feel better you will have more energy to spend on Getting Better. Nice inch nails - the upward spiral. Crawl out of your grave Thursday

dump your partner who wants you to diet

i am well aware of the absolutely fucked up things eating disorders do to people’s brains, and i am sympathetic, but I still think acknowledging publicly that these celebrities are promoting looking emaciated on death’s door is important. Can you imagine being 13 and seeing this shit? Every celebrity event looks like a thinspo board, it’s awful.

People talk about women's bodies far too much; this is true. But that doesn't mean we shouldn't be addressing the elephant in the room of insane weight loss and eds. it isnt fucking normal or healthy

Discord is literally one of the only big social media platforms that doesn't automatically and algorithmically censor visibly and physically disabled people and the userbase still implements it themselves. Your existence is uncomfortable to me and I don't like seeing or hearing about it sorry can you put a warning on that or not talk about it at all on one of the only platforms in which the site setup doesn't automatically treat disabled people that way. Umm I don't like seeing you talk about being disabled can you please put a warning on your body :/// I won't block you I will just personally warn you or directly tell you how your body is graphic and uncomfortable to me. I don't care or even consider how that feels for you or if that might make you uncomfortable or might trigger you I just care about the discomfort of someone without your disability potentially seeing it I dont really care about how it makes you feel. Never fails to irritate me.