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☆ core aesthetics (lovecore, weirdcore, webcore, etc).

☆ poc aesthetics (of any kind I'm not picky)

☆ quotes/poems/writing excerpts

☆ horror genre

☆ fandoms (the witcher, dcu, mcu, etc).

WHY ARE YOU LONELY: CHOOSE ONE

FAILED TO NURTURE RELATIONSHIPS BORN OUT OF CONVENIENCE ONCE CHANGING CIRCUMSTANCES REQUIRED ACTIVE PARTICIPATION FROM YOU

WATCHED NETFLIX FOR SEVEN HOURS INSTEAD OF SLEEPING BECAUSE YOU HAVE ONCE AGAIN MISTAKEN INERTIA FOR REST

CONFUSED “SELF-CARE” WITH “SELF-INDULGENCE” AGAIN; YOU ARE INCAPABLE OF EXPERIENCING GENUINE REFRESHMENT OR RESTORATION BUT YOU DO SPEND A LOT OF MONEY AT NAIL SALONS

ONCE AGAIN CONFUSED “EMPATHY” FOR “TAKING RESPONSIBILITY” AND INVITED OTHERS TO UNLOAD THEIR EMOTIONAL BURDENS ON YOU WITHOUT FIRST ENSURING RECIPROCITY, WHOOPS

ANTICIPATORILY BLAMED OTHER PEOPLE FOR NOT CALLING YOU WITHOUT ONCE ASKING YOURSELF WHY YOU CAN’T CALL THEM

ASSUMING ANY TIME SPENT TOGETHER THAT YOU HAD TO INITIATE IS SOMEHOW LESS AUTHENTIC THAN REQUESTS FOR TIME SPENT TOGETHER THAT YOU ACCEPT

BELIEVE “PERIODICALLY EXPERIENCING THE HUMAN CONDITION” MEANS SOMETHING IS FUNDAMENTALLY BROKEN WITHIN YOU

CONSTANTLY LIE ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS THEN WONDER WHY YOU FEEL LIKE NO ONE KNOWS YOU

MISTAKENLY BELIEVE THAT NEGATIVE FEELINGS MUST BE MISTAKES EITHER TO BE AVOIDED OR FIXED RATHER THAN EXPERIENCED

DESIRE TO BE FULLY UNDERSTOOD WITHOUT THE CONCOMITANT WILLINGNESS TO FULLY EXPLAIN YOURSELF

BELIEVE TRYING AT SOMETHING A LITTLE BIT SHOULD RESULT IN INSTANT PERFECTION AND FIND YOURSELF HORRIFIED AND ASHAMED OF MAKING REALISTIC PROGRESS

TRY COCONUT OIL

CONVINCED THAT HONESTLY ADMITTING YOUR PROBLEMS WILL DRIVE PEOPLE AWAY BECAUSE NO ONE LIKES COMPLAINING SO INSTEAD YOU OFFER EVERYONE A PISS-POOR SIMULACRUM OF BEING EASY-GOING

STILL JUST WAITING FOR THINGS TO HAPPEN TO YOU INSTEAD OF EXPRESSING YOUR DESIRES ALOUD

THINK YOU’RE BEING PLAYFUL BUT ACTUALLY YOU JUST GET MEAN WHEN YOU DRINK

SPEND ALL YOUR TIME SAYING THINGS LIKE “EITHER’S GOOD” OR “DOESN’T MATTER TO ME” WHEN IN FACT ONLY ONE THING IS GOOD AND IT DOES MATTER TO YOU BUT YOU THINK “NOT EXPRESSING A PREFERENCE” IS THE BEST PERSONALITY TRAIT YOU HAVE TO OFFER OTHERS

PEOPLE ACTUALLY MORE AWARE OF YOUR BARELY-CONCEALED CONTEMPT FOR THEIR CHOICES AND RELATIONSHIPS THAN YOU THINK THEY ARE

NO GOOD REASON, SORRY

-Write the name of your target on an acorn. 

-Shatter it with a damn hammer with all your intent

These spells are inspired by spells from the Harry potter series, I have taken the Key word and from it written a spell or ritual. Some of these are figurative whilst others do similar to the original spell

Lumos - A ritual to ‘light up your world’

You will need:

3 white candles

Incense of your choice (optional)

Moon water

Method:

Light your 3 candles and incense (I suggest mulk or Madagascan Vanilla)

Fill up a bowl with moon water (if you don’t have enough you can mix this with normal water too.

Splash yourself with the water 3 times.

Take a few moments or whatever feels right to think about happiness and what you hope to achieve.

Then slowly blow out each candle whispering “lumos”

Nox - A curse to bring darkness into someones life

You will need:

A white candle

A piece of paper

Red pen

Method:

Write on your piece of paper the victim(s’) name in red pen. Over this draw an X

Fold your paper in half

Quickly light your candle and set the piece of paper alight

Blow out the candle whilst whispering “nox”

Alohomara - Unlock new opportunities

You will need:

Opalite

Green candle

wand

Rose or moon water (in a spray bottle or easy to sprinkle)

Method:

Cast a circle with your wand

Light your green candle placing the opalite in front of it

Sprinkle yourself with some rose or moon water then point you wand

Close your eyes and say “alohomara” whilst giving it a small flick

Accio - Good luck tea

You will need:

Chamomile tea

Mug + spoon

Amethyst

Sugar (optional)

Method:

In cold water, place your (clean amethyst) whilst the kettle is boiling. To make amethyst infused water

Once the kettle is boiled fill a mug with water and your chamomile tea bag

Stir your tea clockwise and add your preferred amount of sugar

Drink up whilst thinking “accio”

Expelliarmus ~ Disarming charm

To protect yourself against curses and therefore disarm those who try

You will need:

A wand

Salt

Method:

Roll your wand in the salt and then sprinkle some on your bedroom window sill

Point your wand straight forward and firmly say “expelliarmus”

Im dying my hair soon and i think its gonna die *pun intended* so i was researching benefits of oils to the hair and thought I’ll share :)

Essential oils are distilled from the plant itself. They have the signature scent of the plant they came from. And they’re highly concentrated. For instance, it takes 220 pounds of lavender flowers to make a single pound of lavender oil.

Carrier oils (such as coconut oil, jojoba oil, almond oil, and olive oil) also come from plants, but they have a more neutral smell. And they’re not necessarily distilled down like essential oils are.

Here are the benefits of some essential and carrier oils:

🌼 Almond oil soothes and moisturizes the scalp.

🌼 Cedarwood oil stimulates the scalp and promotes hair growth.

🌼 Chamomile oil adds shine and softness to hair, and soothes the scalp.

🌼 Clary sage oil promotes hair growth and stimulates the scalp.

🌼 Coconut oil softens hair and increases shine.

🌼 Geranium oil strengthens hair.

🌼 Jojoba oil moisturizes the hair, adds nutrients, and stimulates the scalp.

🌼 Lavender oil deep conditions the hair, keeps it shiny, and helps control dandruff.

🌼 Moroccan argan oil moisturizes, nourishes, and provides antioxidants to hair.

🌼 Rosemary oil stimulates the roots, improves hair growth, and increases circulation in the scalp.

🌼 Sandalwood oil helps with dry ends, and adds fragrance to the hair.

Make sure to always use essential oils with carrier oils!

credit - WebMD Medical Reference

Remember to use these oils sparingly and research them some more before using. If you take all the precautions and experience rash or allergic reactions, stop immediately. Other than that, enjoy your healthy hair! >-<

Glitter makes everything better, including your spells. 

Using glitter when dressing your candles can add an extra kick to all of your spells. It is also a cheap alternative when all you have are white candles and still want to use corresponding colors in your work.

If you’re dressing a taper or coach candle you can simply put the oil on first and roll in the desired glitter. If you’re dressing a novena candle (glass encased) you can sprinkle a bit on top just be careful not to use too much since the top can catch on fire. Glitter and glitter glue can also be used to decorate engraved sigils/words carved onto your candles. Some ideas include:

Gold/Silver: Money work, luck, gambling, job searching

Green: Money, luck, growth in any aspect

Orange: Attraction, opening roads, success

Pink: Happiness, Love (best for new love and spells not focused on sex), friendship

Red: Lust, Passionate love, Courage, Strength 

Yellow: Communication, mental energy, Happiness

Blue: Healing, Water spells

Purple: Power, domination work, crown of success

Black: Substitute for any color, binding, hexing

contrary to most beliefs, you can pull for yes or no questions! here’s a short cheat sheet for when you have a question on whether you should do something ✨

wands

yes, but you’ll have to work for it!

cups

yes, it’ll come to you naturally!

pentacles

this one means it will come with a price...

swords

absolutely not!

major arcana

“good luck” and be careful

side note

Mental clarity bottle

Salt - cleansing

Mint - refreshing

Ginkgo - memory

Lotus incense ash - purity

Sage - cleansing

Juniper - rejuvenating

Clear quartz - clarity

White candle - purity

Cleanse your space well and layer the ingredients in the bottle, focusing on the intent of each one. Now some of these are more personal and can vary for different people, e.g. I used desert sage because it grows wild here. Maybe you hate mint, if so then don't use it. Etc. Put the candle in the bottle and light it any time you need to clear your brain fog or make a tough decision.

I don't have an incantation for this one because I typically don't use them. Instead I use bells (pictured) or some other instrument to raise the energy and bring everything together. In this case I rang the bells over the bottle, focused on their ring, and let the sound gradually fade, then focused on the silence.