The "FAFO" Jar
Sometimes you just need to throw a paper with a name or a personified object that represents an asshole into the "FAFO" jar and shake the absolute bejeezus out of it.
*Note* : I never place intentions of harm, and all intention-work and spell-work is protective and defensive; with the simple foundations being to remove that person from my space/life, and send whatever negativity they are trying to bring my way back to them to deal with.
The FAFO jar ingredients - A.K.A. the Return to Sender/Energetic Timeout and F-Off Jar! (Because of a shared living space, I don't like putting my spellwork into my freezer).
Incense Ash: spiritual protection and banishment Salt: protection, cleansing and banishment Cloves: protection and banishment of negativity Cinnamon: protection and potency Red Chilis: removing negative energy and warding Garlic (dried/powdered etc.): protection and banishment Black Pepper: protection and banishing negativity
Iron/steel nails or anything pokey; such as sewing pins: this is to help "make the intentions/spell stick", and also can reinforce the protective properties
Grind all the spices with your tool of choice, spice grinder, mortar and pestle, etc. and mix in the incense ash after (to not contaminate your spice grinder etc. if it is not possible to have one just for spell work, and if you need an easier option for incorporating the ingredients and mortar/pestle method is not possible).
Find a nice sized jar that is shakeable, preferably with a good secure seal. Add the powdered/combined ingredients to it. Then add a paper with the person's name and intentions (i.e. Name, I no longer permit you to direct your negative intentions or harmful behaviour towards me and my home) or an object (such as a smaller jar with things representing the person) into the bigger shakeable jar.
Proceed to then shake it in a spice-filled, "screw-you", tornado-esque manifestation of not tolerating people to treat you like dirt anymore, while setting your intention. Such as that of not allowing their negativity, aggression, etc. to be received by your person, and returning whatever not nice stuff/actions/intentions/energies they are bringing to the table back at them. Because you don't deserve to deal with that. :)
Also side note: be mindful while shaking the jar if you use nails, as it can cause the jar to crack/break if you shake it hard enough.
And as always, make sure to do protection warding and cleansing for yourself before and after shaking the jar, through whatever method you use.
Stay safe, and protect your peace.
