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A = Affection (How affectionate are they? How do they show affection?)

Whitaker is very affectionate. He's very gooey and loves a lot of PDA when you guys aren't at work. He'll do an arm around your shoulders, hand in your back pocket. If he's getting brave - he'll pull you by your belt loops.

B = Best friend (What would they be like as a best friend? How would the friendship start?)

Whitaker is a great best friend. I feel like you and him are both from remote towns in the midwest (or PNW), and you guys bond over what it was like growing up walking to the gas station for candy - or getting a hand me down car and cruising around town on 25 cents worth of gas. Compelling stuff to be honest.

C = Cuddles (Do they like to cuddle? How would they cuddle?)

Whitaker is a big cuddler. I feel like he gets a bit wild with it too. At his worst, he's a koala with you, and he falls asleep - which makes him a heavy koala.

As the fourth son, he wasn't held a lot as a child - his Mama was too tired at that point, so he's always sought validation elsewhere. Oxytocin hits like a drug for him.

D = Domestic (Do they want to settle down? How are they at cooking and cleaning?)

Whitaker is very much a wife guy. Or husband guy. Now that he's in the big city he's learning some things - but he's definitely a PARTNER guy. Being the youngest in a big house, he's an ace at cooking and cleaning, especially on Sunday (cleaning day/ God's day/ midwesterners know)

E = Ending (If they had to break up with their partner, how would they do it?)

Whitaker is typically the dumpee, never the dumper. As a midwestern boy, he'll probably be unhappily married to someone for thirty years before they leave him for someone younger, it's just the nature of the DNA out there.

F = Fiance(e) (How do they feel about commitment? How quick would they want to get married?)

WIFE GUY! POSSIBLE HUSBAND GUY! Whitaker was raised to commit. He was fully ready to commit to God, but medicine and an older DILF put him on his true path. I feel like you and Whitaker move fast - but with a purpose.

G = Gentle (How gentle are they, both physically and emotionally?)

He's like a little ladybug. He is gentle in his heart, emotionally and physically, because he hopes for it in return. Whitaker walks around with his entire organ system on his sleeve, hoping for the best, and it makes you crazy.

H = Hugs (Do they like hugs? How often do they do it? What are their hugs like?)

Whitaker loves hugs because it's like cuddling standing up. He'll hug you good morning, goodbye, hello, etc. His hugs are soft and gooey and you can feel his heart beat faster through his shirt. 10/10

I = I love you (How fast do they say the L-word?)

Dennis will drop it on a random Tuesday afternoon, while picking you up for your second date. He says it in a way where you know he means it fully, and it's not a threat or expectation (see LOVE STORY on HULU).

J = Jealousy (How jealous do they get? What do they do when they’re jealous?)

Dennis doesn't really get jealous. He knows how great you are, and he knows that everyone wants to talk to you. That can grind on him a little bit, to have a S/O that's so much cooler and sexier and better than him, but it doesn't last long because he loves you. He's got a confidence in himself, and in you, that makes your opps jealous.

K = Kisses (What are their kisses like? Where do they like to kiss you? Where do they like to be kissed?)

Dr. Whitaker kisses like he's cotton candy. It's light, fluffy, and you can have 10 cones of it at a moment's notice. He kisses you on your nose, because it makes you laugh. He'll fold if you kiss him on the cheek. The two of you are very cherry-cola vintage pinterest, if that makes sense.

L = Little ones (How are they around children?)

Whitaker has no qualms about kids, to the point where he doesn't have any kind of opinion. They're just around, and he knows how to handle them. Coming from a big family, his eldest brother was married with kids before he was out of high school, so kids are cool - but ultimately another thing on his list to handle.

M = Morning (How are mornings spent with them?)

On a proper farm, Dennis was getting up at 3-5am to help with chores, so I feel like that's just his internal clock. He'll probably switch to the night shift eventually, but it's nice to have breakfast ready while you wake up and get ready at your own pace. If you work with him, you get to have breakfast when you crash after a night shift.

N = Night (How are nights spent with them?)

Dennis crashes hard at your place. There's only been a handful of times where he's gotten a bit cranky trying to get through the door/ get his scrubs off/ get sanitized/ get into bed. All he really needs at the door is a little snack (maybe a kiss), and maybe some assistance getting into the shower (14 hours is a long day).

Dennis is a stickler for germs, so he doesn't let you touch the clothes/scrubs that he's shrugged off into the laundry hamper he keeps by the door.

O = Open (When would they start revealing things about themselves? Do they say everything all at once or wait a while to reveal things slowly?)

Whitaker will tell you anything if you know what to ask. "A straight question deserves a straight answer", as his grandma used to say. This does leave room to dodge things he doesn't want to reveal, but you don't let him off the hook.

P = Patience (How easily angered are they?)

Whitaker will never get angry in a way that you're used to. He's like his father in his own quiet rage. Dennis Whitaker Sr. is the type to shut down the whole house with his silence, grabbing a PBR, and drinking it in his Lazee boy and watching the baseball game. Dennis never found out what would happen if he made a noise during his father's quiet time, any he never will.

Q = Quizzes (How much would they remember about you? Do they remember every little detail you mention in passing, or do they kind of forget everything?)

Dennis is the type to make actual flashcards on quizlet to remember things about you, same as he did in medical school. It's geeky, but you're just as important to him as medicine - and he lets you know it.

R = Remember (What is their favorite moment in your relationship?)

His favorite moment was when you hit him with the UUFFF-DA getting out of your chair in the breakroom. He made a noise because he hasn't heard that kind of slang in literal years. You turned your head back towards him and he just hit you with the 🥹

S = Security (How protective are they? How would they protect you? How would they like to be protected?)

Whitaker is substantially protective. With the way he was raised, I feel like he's the type to open doors for you (germs), and walk between you and the street. He's also a lurker if you guys are ever at the grocery store, because people tend to bug you when the two of you are out together.

Whitaker is kind of a worm, and I feel like as a youngest farm boy, he's never really been protected before. Just stop him from walking into traffic on accident. Sometimes he still thinks he's on the prairie.

T = Try (How much effort would they put into dates, anniversaries, gifts, everyday tasks?)

He's all about dates, anniversaries, gifts, and everyday tasks. Gifts are his only weak spot, because all he's got is like 5$ for candy that you like at the WALGREENS near the hospital. He'll change that eventually. His Mama really raised him up to be the best person to live with (even if she thought he wouldn't go to the big city).

U = Ugly (What would be some bad habits of theirs?)

He thinks he has to do it all himself (no one else can do it).

Whitaker thinks he's responsible for everything (all his fault).

Dennis is still the little boy avoiding creaky floorboards so his Dad doesn't have to get out of his chair, and he's trying not to act like he's the last son standing anymore.

V = Vanity (How concerned are they with their looks?)

Dennis likes how he looks - he got a swaggy little mullet for season 2. Controlling his hair is new, because his mama used to put a bowl over his head and trim it in the backyard. She said it would line the bird's nest for the babies come spring. He's never had creative control before and I could see him getting more funky in the future.

W = Whole (Would they feel incomplete without you?)

The two of you moved so quickly, I feel like he'd need a good 8-10 weeks to recover from you dumping him. He'll never say it though. It's just how things are on the farm (his mind), you live, you die, you get eaten (like his heart). Circle of life - it goes on, there's still work to do even if you're miserable and missing a limb.

X = Xtra (A random headcanon for them.)

I feel like you and Santos make Dennis bleach his mullet at least one time. He just found out that Billy Idol is a real person and not just the guy on the anti-satan pamphlets he used to get at his local church. He doesn't like the bleached look on himself - so you and Santos end up going silver-grey over the top.

Y = Yuck (What are some things they wouldn’t like, either in general or in a partner?)

He's not a fan of the meanies. Like you can't be genuinely cruel. You can't be lazy either - his person needs long-term goals and desires / a strong work ethic. Someone inconsiderate would be a non-starter too. Being a Nebraskan - he needs someone practical above all.

He can handle a baddie (GN) as long as the baddie is kind, and has a work ethic, isn't wasteful or harmful to others.

Z = Zzz (What is a sleep habits of theirs?)

A = Affection (How affectionate are they? How do they show affection?)

Robby's similar to Abbot in the sense that he is affectionate if you know what to look for. You're getting all of his coats and hoodies to wear. You're getting reminders to eat and drink throughout the shift. You're getting physically redirected to where he needs you to be (Whitaker s1). You're getting reminded that everything will be fine.

B = Best friend (What would they be like as a best friend? How would the friendship start?)

Robby's a solid best friend. I feel like he doesn't know what to do because the closest friend he's had, he's worked with for 20+ years. He didn't think he'd make a friend again until he met you. You're not really *friends* per se, but you impress him, constantly. You're his favorite nurse from Peds and he asks for you all the time.

C = Cuddles (Do they like to cuddle? How would they cuddle?)

Robby takes a minute to get comfortable with cuddling. He's been flying solo bachelor style for a solid 5-6 years now, and he's pretty set in his ways. I feel like he's not opposed to it, but you have to physically pin him down, make him wind down, and place his hands on your body (that's the part he likes).

D = Domestic (Do they want to settle down? How are they at cooking and cleaning?)

He's pretty certain that ship has sailed. He can't say he didn't try though. As a career bachelor, he's pretty okay at cooking and cleaning. Is it only things he likes? Yes. Can he learn through the power of neuroplasticity? Yeah.

E = Ending (If they had to break up with their partner, how would they do it?)

Robby would know it has to happen - he's too old, he's holding you back. So he'd say some pure, unforgivable things to push you out, to make you look at him differently. It was bound to end eventually, he just had to make it happen manually.

F = Fiance(e) (How do they feel about commitment? How quick would they want to get married?)

I feel like he doesn't have an issue with it. He's even gotten close once or twice. As a fifty-something man with PTSD, I feel like you're not getting a ring until you're knocked up, or he goes to therapy. Whichever comes first, and if both happens, that's good too.

G = Gentle (How gentle are they, both physically and emotionally?)

Robby is a walking contradiction. It's not like he's rough per se, but he's definitely learning how to treat you and how you like to be treated. You know there's a softie in there somewhere, he's just hiding (and you're right).

H = Hugs (Do they like hugs? How often do they do it? What are their hugs like?)

Dr. Robinavitch doesn't hug often, but when he does, it's a little stiff. It takes a full 60 seconds to get him to relax, and then his heart twists and water rushes out of his eyes. Super fucked up, can't let that happen again!

It will happen again.

I = I love you (How fast do they say the L-word?)

Robby doesn't say it until it's almost too late. He's currently trying to 'let you go', and you call him out for cowardly behavior. He's wasted at the bar across the street, trying to say some unforgivable nonsense, and it just kind of pops out. Abbot is next to him, trying to keep him on a leash, but it's not working.

I'd say this is at least 6 months in.

J = Jealousy (How jealous do they get? What do they do when they’re jealous?)

Robby is such a jealous bitch. He's sharp, watching everyone watch you. You guys go to the grocery store together, and he steps away. He watches the creeps line up to bother you. He hates it. Your light makes moths gather and he's somehow still a small child that crushes moths just to turn them back into dust (he's since learned they're important to the ecosystem ofc, but he still doesn't enjoy em).

He gets short and snippy when he feels jealous, and you have to go put him in the corner on a time out, because what the fuck? Does he really think there's anyone else you want?

K = Kisses (What are their kisses like? Where do they like to kiss you? Where do they like to be kissed?)

Possessive and breathtaking come to mind. He'll kiss you everywhere and anywhere. Robby is the king of hickies in the worst possible places. He's a biter too, watch out for that.

L = Little ones (How are they around children?)

Robby loves kids. Of course we see this with his pseudo-stepson, and BabyJaneDoe, but he thinks they're fascinating. And he's so good with them, he's got that stoic-calm quality that really helps an upset toddler feel better about getting a needle in the arm. If he ever wanted to pack it in with the ED, he would do family medicine for sure.

M = Morning (How are mornings spent with them?)

Mornings with Robby start early, you guys are both on day shift, so he makes sure you eat, and you guys commute in together. It's very sweet actually, how he drops you at the hospital entrance with coffee money, and a kiss on the cheek as you go up to Pediatrics/NICU. You don't see him for hours (boo), but it's good to know he's close.

N = Night (How are nights spent with them?)

He's similar to Dr. Langdon in the fact that once you pry him off the rooftop, you basically go home and don't leave until you're due at work again. You're both turtles retreating back into your shells, but the shell is *SO* nice. There are expensive blankets and takeout and hanky panky within the shell, don't call him.

O = Open (When would they start revealing things about themselves? Do they say everything all at once or wait a while to reveal things slowly?)

Robby sprinkles anecdotes in occasionally. He usually gets all dramatic calling it "the 1900s" like Dr. Abbot. He doesn't ever say anything at work, it's always at home, on that ridiculously expensive couch he bought for you, and after one and a half drinks.

P = Patience (How easily angered are they?)

Dr. Robby is losing his grip. It's been happening since COVID. His patience is all but gone, his ability forgive is shot. He doesn't allow other people what he doesn't allow himself, and as we can see in the show - it's a struggle.

Q = Quizzes (How much would they remember about you? Do they remember every little detail you mention in passing, or do they kind of forget everything?)

Robby is good for remembering details. He knows where you get your hair done, pedicure done, he's even called the name of your salon to pay for your service ahead of time. You told him the name once about a year ago - and he's got it on lock. He follows whatever gossip you've got for him too, avidly.

R = Remember (What is their favorite moment in your relationship?)

It's a small thing, but you had a feeling in the middle of your shift, so you popped down on a break to come see him. The little visit only took about five minutes, you made him step away during a quiet moment in the ED, and just checked in with peepaw for a minute. His favorite part though, was sending you back up in the elevator to pedes. The light in the elevator caught your hair, and it made you look like heaven.

S = Security (How protective are they? How would they protect you? How would they like to be protected?)

You're grateful you don't work in Robby's department. He's on you like a shadow. The ED is basically a walk-in clinic for the general public, so it's a bit rough. It's Pittsburgh. It's the PITT in Pittsburgh, it's a dark place to be.

He's a lurker, kind of like Abbot, and whenever someone toddler's creepy Dad tries to get handsy with you - he's there. Whenever someone grabs your arm in the hallway - he's there. He's like a dog with a bone, you're his beloved, and he's going to be there no matter what.

I think Robby is a bit of a masochist where he doesn't think he deserves to be protected. Is it guilt? Is it burnout? JFC he's fucking annoying the way he'll walk headfirst into conflict with no regard for his own well-being.

T = Try (How much effort would they put into dates, anniversaries, gifts, everyday tasks?)

He doesn’t strike me as a hyper-planner the way Abbot and Langdon might be. I feel like Robby lives and breathes medicine, so it's very likely he doesn't know what day it is.

He'll plan the fuck out of a date though. He'll even plan your anniversary. It's about seven to ten days after the actual date, but it *is* happening so you don't mind too much.

Gifts are great though. Robby is an A+ gift giver, and he never has a reason other than he 'felt like it', which makes it even better.

U = Ugly (What would be some bad habits of theirs?)

The way he lashes out when he's hurt.

The way he's a bit sexist.

The way he doesn't forgive others, because he can't forgive himself.

V = Vanity (How concerned are they with their looks?)

Robby forgets he has a face most days. He and Jack are similar in this respect. It's all work work work, and then, shower, home, sleep.

W = Whole (Would they feel incomplete without you?)

Getting 'in' Robby's life was so difficult because he's inevitably going to lose you. It might actually kill him this time.

X = Xtra (A random head canon for them.)

You had a hard time in pediatrics/NICU on a double shift, and Robby zipped you into his hoodie with him to make you smile.

It's corny, it made you feel like a little kid, but it put a smile on your face and that was perfectly fine with him.

Y = Yuck (What are some things they wouldn’t like, either in general or in a partner?)

Robby needs someone with brains first and foremost. I'm thinking maybe he wouldn't rock with a 'ditz/bimbo' type, especially someone who's sharp and playing dumb. Live in your power, your insecurity is a weakness that puts him off. *

*once again, he's being unforgivable to others because he can't accept weakness/flaws within himself.

Z = Zzz (What is a sleep habits of theirs?)

A = Aftercare (what they’re like after sex)

Frank is a doctor, and you're getting quizzed. It's kind of like talking you through it, but he's a really cute pest. You're winding down and that really cute mug is in your face kissing you and telling you what a good girl you were for him (and asking what felt best).

B = Body part (their favorite body part of theirs and also their partner’s)

Frank is a big fan of ass. I can't explain it but he's just got a passion. He'll smack any ass, just to watch it bounce. He'll rest his hand there to squeeze occasionally.

He's really enjoying his hair lately. You put your hands there a lot, tug, and he just melts into you.

C = Cum (anything to do with cum, basically)

Dr. Langdon is currently playing appointment-tag with a vasectomy. Whenever he tries to schedule it, something comes up! Until then, it's a condom and he's putting it to work.

D = Dirty secret (pretty self-explanatory, a dirty secret of theirs)

I can't explain it, but I feel like Frank Langdon has been pegged before. There's no way to reason this, maybe it's his haircut, but he's 100% down to be pegged. And you KNOW, and he can't STAND IT.

E = Experience (how experienced are they? do they know what they’re doing?)

He's been around the block a few times, but obviously calmed down since being married (and un-married too). He knows what he's doing - he's a medical professional.

F = Favorite position (this goes without saying)

It's pretty straightforward, but he likes you flat on your back, and your legs over his shoulders. It's his favorite thing, being able to watch you squirm while folding you in half.

G = Goofy (are they more serious in the moment? are they humorous? etc.)

Frank is a bit more introspective lately. I feel like he's the type to crack a joke while he's inside you, and then the opening of "Sound of Silence" starts playing in his head, in regards to how lucky he is. You need to put him on Prozac.

H = Hair (how well-groomed are they? does the carpet match the drapes? etc.)

In rehab, he kind of fell off with his self-care. But now that he's back at/in the PITT, he's clipped back, as careful and controlled as ever.

I = Intimacy (how are they during the moment? the romantic aspect)

Dr. Langdon can get a bit fast and hard, but once the two of you start getting more safe with each other, and trying more positions - things are much more romantic. You guys are opening up to each other (literally and figuratively).

J = Jack off (masturbation headcanon)

I feel like in rehab, he needed something to do other than barbiturates, so he's jacking off more than he ever has before.

K = Kink (one or more of their kinks)

Frank lives, laughs, loves having his hand around your neck. Not to squeeze, necessarily, but to feel your pulse flutter with his mouth on yours. He's making your heart race, nobody else!

If you need Frank to finish quickly though, just give him a slap, or maybe yank his hair. Frank absolutely loves being manhandled by you.

L = Location (favorite places to do the do)

Anywhere, anytime, wherever. He's not above a call-room session, or anything in either of your cars. There's nothing he won't do that you're on board with.

M = Motivation (what turns them on, gets them going)

I feel like he smells you. Just your natural skin, and gets hard. I feel like a breeze hits him correctly, and you're right next to him, hair perfume in, and he'll get hard. I feel like if you stand next to him, he'll get hard. Bless him, he can be needy.

N = No (something they wouldn’t do, turn offs)

He's not one for impact play on you. I feel like he's not one for harsh names/ degradation in the bedroom with you. You can do whatever with him though. He's lucky to be there, and that you want him, as himself.

O = Oral (preference in giving or receiving, skill, etc.)

Frank is a huuuuge fan of pussy on his face. You sit on his face more than you've ever sat on anyone's ever. This being said, he's never been blown the way that you have. You almost compete with him just with how much you seem to be enjoying yourself down there. It's a narrow margin, but receiving just barely wins.

P = Pace (are they fast and rough? slow and sensual? etc.)

He's initially more fast and rough. It's his initial anxiety with being someone who's not his ex-wife. Like you'll leave him, like you'll end whatever 'arrangement' this is with him. Once he's convinced you're not going anywhere, things change.

Q = Quickie (their opinions on quickies, how often, etc.)

He's down for a quickie. He'll do a quickie whenever whatever. You shoot him a specific look, and he'll start levitating he's so excited.

R = Risk (are they game to experiment? do they take risks? etc.)

As previously stated, he'll do whatever you want forever. Nothing is off the table, if you want it, he'll research the risks, and then you guys can get after it.

S = Stamina (how many rounds can they go for? how long do they last?)

I feel like Frank needs to recalibrate after rehab. His stamina is way down, what with all he's been through. He needs to work back up to what he once had, and until then, you'll be on his tongue, or on his hands.

T = Toys (do they own toys? do they use them? on a partner or themselves?)

Frank doesn't really own a lot of toys. His ex took her collection in the divorce (which is fine), but if you happen to have any - he knows what to do with them.

U = Unfair (how much they like to tease)

Maybe this will change, but with the year he's had, Frank is not much of a tease. It's do or die, it's yes or no/ later.

V = Volume (how loud they are, what sounds they make, etc.)

Frank is loud as shit. It makes the 'quickies' a little more dangerous, but you can't convince me that this man is able to shut up when he's lost in you. He's a moaner, he's a heavy breather, he's whining. He needs you to put your underwear in his mouth to shut him up.

W = Wild card (a random head canon for the character)

Frank Langdon didn't know he liked having his hair pulled until you yanked the fuck out of it. Did you mean to do this on purpose? No, it was more of a reflex. But he'll remember that evil look on your face when you pulled back from him, reacting to the sound he made. It's etched into his mind forever.

X = X-ray (let’s see what’s going on under those clothes)

As I said Abbot doesn't have a comical cartoon dick, I think Frank might actually be there. I can't prove it, but he's thick too. Annoyingly so. You weren't intimidated, but you saw it as a challenge, and he's all the more obsessed with you for it.

Y = Yearning (how high is their sex drive?)

High high high high high. It's sooo high girl watch out. It's a clingy ass man, who needs you.

Z = Zzz (how quickly they fall asleep afterwards)

A = Affection (How affectionate are they? How do they show affection?)

Frank is best described as deliberate in his affection. He's about making you feel special. He's the type of person to have deliberate, specific date nights to take you out and show you off. Frank strikes me as the direct type, so if you make a good call at work - he'll tell you in the moment.

B = Best friend (What would they be like as a best friend? How would the friendship start?)

Frank would be pretty good as a best friend. He strikes me as something of a yapper, so you two typically are able to take lunch breaks together and bitch. The friendship would start with you as his protégé, and escalate when the two of you realize you 'get' each other. It's a rare thing to find, and it feels like magic.

C = Cuddles (Do they like to cuddle? How would they cuddle?)

Frank is a little spoon. He really enjoys being a little spoon, but since his head is so big, he's got to alter positions so he doesn't entirely crush you. Cuddling is a 10/10 must.

D = Domestic (Do they want to settle down? How are they at cooking and cleaning?)

I think Frank is a little big angsty to settle down right now. He's freshly divorced, he's not great at maintaining himself, and he needs an anchor so he doesn't fall off the wagon. There's room for improvement here for sure.

E = Ending (If they had to break up with their partner, how would they do it?)

He'd be as analytical as possible, speak to you directly, because you deserve it. And then he'd throw up right after.

F = Fiance(e) (How do they feel about commitment? How quick would they want to get married?)

He's been married before. I feel like he knows that he BOMBED at it, so he'd want to improve a bit more before going in again. I'm so hung up on the fact that he's got two kids under ten, and he brought home a GOLDEN DOODLE PUPPY for his wife to deal with. Jail for 10 million years to ER Ken.

G = Gentle (How gentle are they, both physically and emotionally?)

There's room for improvement here. I feel like when you both start up this relationship (friendship or otherwise), he's a bit fast and harsh until he knows that he's safe.

H = Hugs (Do they like hugs? How often do they do it? What are their hugs like?)

Frank enjoys a good hug. You're not that much shorter than him, but he likes feeling your head in his chest, it's a bit more sparse, with your crazy schedules, but hugs with Frank are done in private.

I = I love you (How fast do they say the L-word?)

Frank knows it before he says it. He's keeping it to himself until he feels like he deserves to tell you. He's weird like that, neurotic even.

J = Jealousy (How jealous do they get? What do they do when they’re jealous?)

Frank is the jealous type. You wouldn't think so to look at him, but with the absolute shit year he's had, his confidence is at an all-time low. I feel like he pulls back from you, and sulks. Big on pouting until you tease him out of his black cloud.

K = Kisses (What are their kisses like? Where do they like to kiss you? Where do they like to be kissed?)

Frank's kisses are overwhelming. He keeps himself on a short leash, and this is one of the few times he lets loose. He enjoys kissing you anywhere on your throat, and he absolutely melts whenever you kiss/bite at his ears.

L = Little ones (How are they around children?)

Frank Langdon's second choice for his residency was the ER. His first choice was Pediatrics. Kids love him and Frank absolutely loves kids (he's got 2!).

M = Morning (How are mornings spent with them?)

Mornings are fast and furious, he's got to get to work early, so he has a quick breakfast/snack, and kisses you goodbye. Frank gets his kids on the weekends, so you get a lot of pictures of them hanging out. He'll introduce you soon.

N = Night (How are nights spent with them?)

Nights are sweet and cozy. He's got to wind down after his shift (you do too), so the both of you become 'sundowners', and order dinner and watch a movie.

O = Open (When would they start revealing things about themselves? Do they say everything all at once or wait a while to reveal things slowly?)

You get a new factoid about Frank once a quarter. It's different from Abbot or Robby, where their age means they've simply forgotten that they saw Bon Jovi at MSG in 1999 (cool), but he makes a measured attempt to keep his past shoved down. You tease him and say he'll give himself an ulcer, but Frank is measured with the words he says. His ex-wife only learned his middle name when they got married and had to sign the papers.

P = Patience (How easily angered are they?)

I feel like as an ER doctor with two small children, his patience extends much further than one might think. In regards to his sobriety, he's had to make a more measured effort to be more patient with the world around him.

Annoyance is something different. If he gets annoyed there's really never any teeth to it. He just needs a snack and to step outside.

Q = Quizzes (How much would they remember about you? Do they remember every little detail you mention in passing, or do they kind of forget everything?)

Frank has a notebook where he writes everything down. He can be a bit of a space cadet with details - as his entire life is medicine and his kids - but he doesn't want to forget anything with you. It's either a notebook or his notes app.

R = Remember (What is their favorite moment in your relationship?)

Frank's favorite moment in your relationship was sitting on the curb of the parking garage by work, with you in complete silence. You pass him one of your weird little "cheese-cracker" things from Kroger, and rest your head on his shoulder. You should talk to HR about him, but you can deal with that tomorrow.

S = Security (How protective are they? How would they protect you? How would they like to be protected?)

Frank is excellent at puffing his chest out, especially when a patient tries you. He's very sharp when it comes to intervening, and he knows that with a face like his, all the creepy-crawlies that come into the ER won't question it when he physically moves himself between you and the patient.

He's a big fan of when you speak up for him, especially in regards to Dr. Robby passing him up, and speaking over him every chance he gets.

T = Try (How much effort would they put into dates, anniversaries, gifts, everyday tasks?)

YOUR Frank, the note taker, the planner, would fight for his life to take you out on dates, remember anniversaries, and remember to do the dishes before he leaves for work. Does he always win? Not necessarily, but he keeps trying.

U = Ugly (What would be some bad habits of theirs?)

Langdon is a nail biter. He was always a nervous child, but I feel like with the rehab of it all, he's gone and picked it up again.

YOUR doctor, Frank is the type to go internal/nonverbal when it comes to issues he's facing, and find himself staring at a wall thinking about something he said in 2014. He needs to work on that.

V = Vanity (How concerned are they with their looks?)

Frank knows that he's ER Ken, and he acts accordingly. In the face of all the chaos, he's got the power to wash his face and brush his hair. Beyond that, it is what it is.

W = Whole (Would they feel incomplete without you?)

It would feel like his organs had been scooped out (again), but he's fine guys. He'll just die quietly, don't even worry about it.

X = Xtra (A random headcanon for them.)

Frank Langdon keeps a hair tie on his wrist for you. When you noticed it, your heart flipped, but it's for you. It's all for you.

Y = Yuck (What are some things they wouldn’t like, either in general or in a partner?)

Frank strikes me as a fire sign, so he needs someone to push back. Someone who moves with pure emotion wouldn't be on his list. Analytics are key because his emotions run so high.

Z = Zzz (What is a sleep habits of theirs?)

A = Aftercare (what they’re like after sex)

I feel like you're getting cleaned and kissed a whole lot. Abbot is so gentle and sweet with you, that in itself makes everything much more intense. Aftercare is where he winds it back down and loves on you more.

B = Body part (their favorite body part of theirs and also their partner’s)

I feel like Jack really enjoys your legs. Like they're so muscular and strong and he's a big fan of them. He's also looking at his hands differently lately. You seem to be fixated on them, and he's looking at them different.

C = Cum (anything to do with cum, basically)

As an old man, and a doctor, he's gotten himself a vasectomy. Your antennae went up at this. Raw. Raw. Raw. Everywhere, all of the time. He got matching vasectomies with Dr. Robby, by the way.

D = Dirty secret (pretty self-explanatory, a dirty secret of theirs)

This isn't much of a secret, but I do feel like Abbot is a bisexual. It's a hard thing to manage, being in the military during "don't ask don't tell", but no one asked, and he hasn't told. Maybe he'll tell you.

E = Experience (how experienced are they? do they know what they’re doing?)

WHEEEWHEW. Jack Abbot has played the field, he has done his due diligence, and he's a doctor. He knows what he's doing and then some.

F = Favorite position (this goes without saying)

(1) I feel like he's a big fan of holding you upright, against a wall or a door, (2) you riding him, (3) You on all fours in bed, and Jack standing behind you, (4) good, tried-and-true missionary. Nothing's really off limits for either of you. It's just the both of you, drowning in want together. You guys 69 with a surprising frequency too. 

G = Goofy (are they more serious in the moment? are they humorous? etc.)

Jack has been known to have a dry sense of humor, and he's not above making a sarcastic remark and making you giggle in the moment.

H = Hair (how well-groomed are they? does the carpet match the drapes? etc.)

As a military man, he's got everything clipped back. He's organized to a fault, and in his self-maintenance isn't lacking.

I = Intimacy (how are they during the moment? the romantic aspect)

I'll say this until the cows come home, but I truly think that he's so gentle and sweet with you, that it makes this much more intense and romantic that they would be. If he's got something to say, than he'll say it, but you're the kind of person that makes his head buzz. Words don't come easy when it comes to you.

J = Jack off (masturbation head canon)

Jack keeps a lid on it most of the time. It's a bio-hack to stop him from walking off the edge of the building (mostly), but when he starts pining and yearning for you? Oh it's at least once a week. His imagination has gotten him through tough times, and jacking off is no different.

K = Kink (one or more of their kinks)

(1) Daddy Dom over here is gonna send you to subspace regularly. It's never anything crazy, but if he brushes your teeth for you, you're going to be biting at his legs later. It's just math.

(2) Dr. Abbot as a sugar daddy type? I'd like to see it. As someone who absolutely adores control (and you), money and paying for things you need and want makes his head spin.

(3) orgasm denial…whew…control….auuughhghh

L = Location (favorite places to do the do)

He's quite literally your 'old man', he's keeping any sex with you strictly at your place or his. The most 'wild' place he'll take you is against your front door, or on a very comfortable couch at his.

M = Motivation (what turns them on, gets them going)

Jack is a very big fan of your hair, your neck, and your shoulders. Any time you showcase these three features, he's a puddle at your feet. Jack also keeps track of your various perfumes. He keeps a sample of your signature scent in his work locker and takes a smell of it when he has a moment. Not too big of a whiff though, that could get complicated.

N = No (something they wouldn’t do, turn offs)

Jack has a hard line at choking/impact play I feel like. Anything that is adjacent to violence is a hard no. In the ER, and in the military, he's seen too much, and he won't bring that side of the world anywhere close to you.

O = Oral (preference in giving or receiving, skill, etc.)

Dr. Abbot knows what the fuck he's doing, and he loves it. Like, he is so enthusiastic about giving you head, he can get distracted. Fortunately for him, you feel the same way at giving him head, hence the sixty-nine affinity.

P = Pace (are they fast and rough? slow and sensual? etc.)

SLOW AND SENSUAL. SO SLOW AND SENSUAL YOU'RE BITING AND SCRATCHING AT HIM. SO SLOW AND SENSUAL YOU'RE BEGGING BECAUSE ITS TOO INTENSE IT MAKES YOUR HEAD SPIN. IT'S MAKING MY HEAD SPIN.

Q = Quickie (their opinions on quickies, how often, etc.)

Jack doesn't really care for quickies. He's not opposed to them, but if you're there he's going to get distracted, and forget that quickies are supposed to be quick.

R = Risk (are they game to experiment? do they take risks? etc.)

Not so much. You'd need to pitch a new idea to him with a power point, and then he'll probably make a pro-con list.

S = Stamina (how many rounds can they go for? how long do they last?)

Dr. Abbot will surprise you. I feel like the fact he's so into you. I feel like he'll knock you out in a solid two rounds. This doesn't even count getting you off with his hands and mouth earlier. Does that count? You've finished four times.

T = Toys (do they own toys? do they use them? on a partner or themselves?)

Jack is a doctor, he'll take the toys very seriously. Going back to control, it's just another way for him to exert dominance over you. God bless our troops and all that.

U = Unfair (how much they like to tease)

Jack is an EXCELLENT tease. He'll play dumb like he doesn't know what he's doing, and he'll get away with it because he's your sweet old man. But he's smart. He's a doctor, a veteran, and he knows what exactly he needs to do to get a rise out of you.

V = Volume (how loud they are, what sounds they make, etc.)

I do feel like maybe you play a game, and try to see how loud you can get your doctor. He'll throw you a moan, maybe some groans, but you love it! If you can make that old man pant, it's a win, if you can earn grunt, it's like you've won the lottery.

W = Wild card (a random headcanon for the character)

Jack has you saved in his phone as 'Lifeline', because people at the Pitt are nosy and want gossip. This way he gets to call his lifeline, and people can assume he's calling some kind of emergency hotline for work.

X = X-ray (let’s see what’s going on under those clothes)

UGH. I can't think too hard about it or I'll have to put myself in a time out.

I feel like he's above the American male average (5), but it's not a comical cartoon dick (9-10). I'm thinking it's big enough that it's gotten in the way in the past, with his athletics and active lifestyle, but it's not something so big that you bail the first time you have sex (7-8).

Y = Yearning (how high is their sex drive?)

Once he's started yearning for you, it's unstoppable. It's actually kind of insane, because when he met you, things he thought that he'd put away about himself suddenly fell out of the box. He had to scramble to reorganize the feelings, only to have you right there, helping him.

Z = Zzz (how quickly they fall asleep afterwards)

A = Affection (How affectionate are they? How do they show affection?)

Jack is pretty affectionate in an old-timey way. He's a certified, professional hand-holder, and he's not shy when it comes to putting an arm around your shoulder. Jack will also get the door for you, or rest a hand on the small of your back. It's nothing gratuitous or clingy, but the message is clear with those who have eyes.

B = Best friend (What would they be like as a best friend? How would the friendship start?)

I feel like he'd be a pretty reserved best friend. He doesn't really know how to *have* friends outside of work. Jack is the quiet sort, so he's more than happy to let you yap, and pay for coffee and a donut. The friendship is 100% reciprocal, and you're the yin to his yang in the most traditional sense of the world. You're the sun to his moon, so to speak.

C = Cuddles (Do they like to cuddle? How would they cuddle?)

You've got to train him. He's never been one for physical contact, his late wife was the only one allowed to hug him. Robby barely gets a hug as it is. He's stiff initially, so you have to pretty much wrap yourself around him like a snake, until he melts for you, tracing little circles with his fingers. Sometimes, after a hard shift, he digs into you a little harder. You're not letting go, why would you?

D = Domestic (Do they want to settle down? How are they at cooking and cleaning?)

I feel like it's a bit out of his purview, until you've practically moved into his apartment. He did settle down, he had the wife, he had everything and lost it. Could he do it again? He's a good man, he'll do whatever you want if it means he gets to keep you.

He's an ace at cooking and cleaning, that's what won over his late wife (and you too). I feel like Jack is the type who'd have a stay-at-home girlfriend going to school or something. He'll pay for whatever you like, career woman or not, if it makes you happy.

E = Ending (If they had to break up with their partner, how would they do it?)

Jack would put pen to paper and make a list - and then promptly beat down the urge to eat the list. It would be the most logical thing to let you go, and he's gonna do it over a meal (fails to do it).

F = Fiance(e) (How do they feel about commitment? How quick would they want to get married?)

In Jack's mind the best way to be together, is being together. As he's been successfully married before, I don't think he's all hyped to walk back into that again - but he wants you. At the end of the day he's going to do what you want to do. If this is something you want, he can get hyped.

G = Gentle (How gentle are they, both physically and emotionally?)

Jack is the only man who's ever treated you correctly. He's so gentle it makes you frustrated. You're not weak, you can take more from him, but it's like he's teasing you. All the light touches and sweetness make you feel like more of an animal, when you bite into him.

Ultimately, you feeling the need to bite into him is a part of his nefarious plan - he wants to reset your standard from what you've had before, and he gets to be your "chew toy", a win-win.

H = Hugs (Do they like hugs? How often do they do it? What are their hugs like?)

He hasn't really been hugged since his wife passed away. Jack gets the occasional back-slap bro-hug from Dr. Robby, but when you hug him - you get completely squeezed to him, if not totally crushed. Jack is relearning how to handle physical contact, but with you he likes it. Especially if you hug him at home.

I = I love you (How fast do they say the L-word?)

He's more of a "show-not-tell", but he'll say it when it matters most. Think Westley from Princess Bride.

J = Jealousy (How jealous do they get? What do they do when they’re jealous?)

He gets substantially jealous. You tease him and call him a member of the 'silent generation' because when someone tries to flirt with you, you can feel Jack appear right behind you like a storm cloud on a perfect day. It's not sulking or pouting - it's a secret third thing.

He trails behind you like a puppy dog, or picks a corner to take a 'time out' and count to 10. It's not a reflection of his relationship with you, but rather the fact that the other men that approach you are younger, more handsome richer. What's he supposed to do about that?

K = Kisses (What are their kisses like? Where do they like to kiss you? Where do they like to be kissed?)

Jack is gentle to a fault. Gentle to the point it's overwhelming, gentle to get an absolute RISE out of you. He's a very big fan of kissing your jawline, grabbing your face in his hands, and he really appreciates you kissing his cheek. It feels old-fashioned and he appreciates that.

L = Little ones (How are they around children?)

Jack LOVES kids. He did a rotation in pediatrics back in the day, but ER medicine was absolutely perfect for him. They ask the funniest questions, and they always think his prosthetic leg is soooo coool. 10/10 on kids, loves 'em.

M = Morning (How are mornings spent with them?)

Your Dr. Abbot is just coming home from his night shift. Depending on how his night went, he usually stays up for breakfast with you, and sends you out to start your day, or he crashes directly into bed and delays your start by at least an hour.

N = Night (How are nights spent with them?)

It's hard not to be clingy - but you miss him. Most nights you're by yourself, but whenever he gets a night off, you two are cozy at home, being homebodies.

O = Open (When would they start revealing things about themselves? Do they say everything all at once or wait a while to reveal things slowly?)

Getting Jack to reveal anything is like pulling teeth. You don't need him to share the past, especially because it's already over, but he drops his own lore on a rainy Wednesday, and it takes you out! What do you mean you got arrested at a Bon Jovi concert in Milwakee in 1994? What are you talking about old man?

P = Patience (How easily angered are they?)

It's a long fuse, one that you'll never see the end of, because he's in therapy, and his rage is never for *YOU* or about *YOU*, not really.

Q = Quizzes (How much would they remember about you? Do they remember every little detail you mention in passing, or do they kind of forget everything?)

Jack lives and dies by the facts he knows about you. He remembers everything forever and it's crazy to be with someone who cares for you this much.

R = Remember (What is their favorite moment in your relationship?)

His favorite moment would probably be when you were yacking at him at a coffee shop during one of his breaks. You were so in your own head, talking about something from your workday, that he put a hand on the back of your neck to steer you away from a telephone pole.

It was a small thing, but he's glad to be useful.

S = Security (How protective are they? How would they protect you? How would they like to be protected?)

The thing is, he's very protective and private. It's not that he's ashamed of you, but he protects you by keeping you to himself. Robby knows there's someone, but he doesn't meet you in person until almost a year of you and Jack. You protect him by speaking up for him, a la "HE SAID NO PICKLES."

T = Try (How much effort would they put into dates, anniversaries, gifts, everyday tasks?)

I feel like as a "so-called boomer", he's more settled at home. Back in the day, he and his late wife would have their usual haunts, and tear it up. Now that it's *now*, it's a big more meaningful, slower, and more intentional. He's big on calendars, so he's reliable.

U = Ugly (What would be some bad habits of theirs?)

I feel like Jack isn't the best with communication. He will come home and sit in silence for hours, replaying the night shift in his head, and not give you anything to go on. It makes you crazy, of course. He's working on it, of course.

V = Vanity (How concerned are they with their looks?)

Jack Abbot is so deep into his own head, he walks past a mirror and gets startled. He's so introverted and cerebral, he forgets he's got a face.

W = Whole (Would they feel incomplete without you?)

Losing you would be like losing his other leg. He'll keep going, but what the hell fr.

X = Xtra (A random headcanon for them.)

I feel like one of your favorite nights with Jack, was going to see him on his lunch break, and bringing him some FIVEGUYS. He didn't eat much, he just had some french fries, and let you yap. It's one of his favorite things to do, is eat in a car with you.

Y = Yuck (What are some things they wouldn’t like, either in general or in a partner?)

I feel like casual cruelty, or bitchiness would put him off. Someone who walks through life with a knife in each hand isn't what he's looking for.

Z = Zzz (What is a sleep habits of theirs?)