A Cat lost...

Matched a girl on Happn and we started talking, amazing conversation and we decided to meet. There was a bar that I was dying to go with an amazing view over London. So decided to go there since she never went also. The first time I saw her, my jaw hit the ground so hard. She was simply beautiful with blonde hair and amazing deep dark eyes. Her body was perfectly sculpted and couldn’t take my eyes from her. We went to this place and when we got their was something unbelievable. We got there just when the night fall and London released that night magic. She looked at me and just said: “Well played Cat, really good choice for a first date”. We stayed there for a while talking, laughing and drinking her favourite cocktail that surprisingly didn’t know about it but was also mine. We had an amazing chemistry. Went to dinner and talked a lot, she even said that she never talked with someone so many time but that was amazing because I was an interesting person to be with. We left the place at the time of the last tube home and in the way we kissed. It was so perfect, she kissed so amazingly and loved her soft lips. At the end she said that for some reason she could only see me again the week after. But that she wanted to see me because she really liked me. We planned the next date but at the last minute she canceled because some other reason. We planned the third time and she at last minute canceled also and said that she didn’t had time to date and really enjoyed to be with me but didn’t had time. At that moment just lost all my faith in finding someone. She looked such a perfect match for me but at the end she wasn’t because she didn’t make the time to be with me. When you really want to be with someone you make the time for that. So times isn’t a excuse.

Paul Dolan

Met a girl that had the most cute frackles ever. Went for a cocktail but end up having dinner in this amazing place but really expensive. We were having a conversation but this girl was one of those that never pushes any topic. She was always expecting that I bring out the conversation. Was quite annoying because at some point she said that she was feeling in a questionnaire…offffff courseeeee…if she doesn’t say nothing I need to ask stuff. So she was a little bit mean there. But we went for a few drinks after and end up kissing. Loved her kisses and lets see what happens. Butter flies were coming over but not arrived yet.

At that moment she was pushing too much. And then she said that she wanted someone that can go with her to other places. That wanted to be interested to see her again and go outside of town to see her. And that I should call her and say show more interest. Well at that moment was too much pressure and couldn’t handle. She was really cool but she wanted everything when we just met once. The butter flies flied away quickly out of town.

After a few conversations in whatsapp I asked her to have a drink. Her photos were ok, but I must say nothing out of the ordinary. However she was very interesting and seemed to have an amazing personality. That was enough for me to ask her out. We went to a bar that I wanted to go for ages but never had the opportunity to go. Arrived there, was full so we decided to go next door. Quite chilled and nice place. We had an amazing conversation and in my head, was thinking this could be the one because the butter flies pop up for a visit while talking at her and looking at her in the eyes. Felt that warm inside and all her body language was saying yes, slowly went for a kiss, she was looking at me and didn’t move, I was already dreaming with the her lips, when she at the last second give me the cheek. I had to be happy we just her cheek. Even though felt good kissing her cheek. We ended the date and nothing happened at the end. Was a really nice date and she seemed amazing to be with so want to chase those butter flies of that breath taking honey and green eyes.

The Cat

All this messaging and talking with girls that you don't know is kind of hard. Since you don't know when to ask a girl to meet or if it's too soon. Now I'm kind learning when to spot the right time. When the conversation is really interesting and funny and she is replying a lot, is the right time. Even though you need to feel that connection. So I was talking with a most beautiful girl I ever seen on this apps. She was so perfect and really my type. At some point asked her out but she said it was too soon to meet. That we needed more time to get to know. I was a little bit perplexed and also sad because you can never know a person just by chatting on messenger. I kind of back up a little bit but we continued talking but didn't felt that interest from her. So I said that for this to workout needs to have two persons interested and not just one. Guys like to feel desired also, well at least I like. Really don't fancy being the only one that chases. Is like a ping pong game. You give and the other person needs to give it back. Well she said that wanted to meet me and we scheduled a few dates but in the last hour she just canceled. After three times I sent her "I give up". Doesn't matter if the girl looks amazing, beautiful, smart, a lot in common and really interesting, at the end she needs to be into you also. She is the one that is loosing an opportunity of meeting a great person...you.

Forget about endless chatting in messages. That is good to know a little bit of a person but not really to know her. Try to get a date sooner as you can. So you can “read” a person and if something clicks between you and her or him.

Started talking with another girl and we scheduled dinner after work. Because she worked nearby my house and I don't know anything around she suggested a place for us to eat. She said that was amazing when was there. This six years ago. Of course the place changed and when the food arrived was so bad, seemed unfrozen, watery, no taste at all or really bad. To forget this part we ordered a lot of drinks, shot etc. of course we got drunk and the bill at the end was gigantic. And because I'm a gentleman cat, I payed everything. It was a funny dinner but nothing happened, not even a kiss. I realise that I was doing something wrong. But didn't know what. We finished the dinner and never met again. The butter flies didn't fly over the shots.

So went to a date with a new girl to a cocktail bar. We are having so much fun and at some point she said that she was really sensible to the jaggerbombs. At the moment she said that I right away ordered a round. So we were drinking and talking and in the middle of nowhere come to talk to us a girl that was kind of tipsy. Then I realise that that girl was a friend of her and come to join us. That was so weird but gladly the girl got to her senses and realise that was too much crowded. She left and we kept drinking shots that she said make her go drunks really fast. I didn't realise that was true until when we left she went to the corner puking and saying is better for me to go home. Was really funny night but no butter flies at sight.

... in drinks

We started texting and because I was getting kind of tired of all this chatting chatting but don't meet the most of the girls, I just asked her out right away and she said yes. Planned an amazing cocktail place to go. You can only enter with reservation and that normally means expensive drinks. But no worries, I am there to meet someone and have fun with a company of a nice cocktail. We started to talk and was good conversation, we order drinks and while we were chatting I realised that she was over her drink and I has half, ok we can order other drinks, next round she was the same, she didn't even tasted the cocktail, she was just drinking as a shot. Things were funny until we touched the music subject. I'm pretty keen to what I like and don't like. Normally I love everything besides one specific kind of music. And was exactly that specific kind of music that she loved and that she started to be really excited, talking about some festival she was about to go and that would be amazing. At that moment I "closed the door" and was enough for me. After a painful bill we left and we didn't even kiss. I just let it go because wasn't the right one. No butter flies around from Ireland.

The Cat

Have been going out with the girl from the piano night. She is really a good girl, amazing person and amazing at sex but still don't feel this is the one. Is hard because we have loads of fun together and really get along but...not feeling it more than a friend. Don't want to lead her in something that I'm not feeling it but is really nice to be with her.

Alright had a new date after the failure of the first. Because is always a much try to impress on the first date and the consequents of course, I tough it was good idea to go to a bar with live piano music. Thinking that would be the perfect setup for the romantic vibe. While I was waiting for her outside, thoughts of catfish started to cloudy my mind. Does she looks like the photos or completely different. Was looking everywhere to see if I saw her and at some point came a aged lady in my direction that had some resemblance and in my head: Ok cat, you have been fooled and this is your date, oh my god how can I escape this. And then she approached me and when I was about to say Hi, she asked me the hours. Uffff safe there. Then after a while she arrived and she was beautiful and stunning. We went inside and had that cool relaxed vibe, until the piano guy started to play like crazy and all the people started singing and dancing, it was the weirdest and unexpected thing. The music was so loud that for was to talk we had to be really close and that what means?… After a while between conversation like secrets our lips bumped each other. We had fun but no butter flies at site. Butter flies status: “Only some tickles on the south area”

The cat

Was walking in a Battersea Park, listening some music, relaxing my mind, looking at birds and just enjoying the quiet moment. While walking in a path I wanted to cross the path but before I looked behind to see if I didn't bump into someone that was overtaking me. You know that movie moment that everything goes really slowly and you see a girl running in your direction releasing all that sweat and pheromones into the air. And then you realize that you were also in slow motion and about to fall since you tripped in your own foots. Rapidly got to the normal speed and manage not to fall. She crossed over me and was a going to the unknown. She went straight and when I realize, the unknown was the end of that path so she got back and while crossing with me, we looked at each other in the eyes and smile at each other. In that moment my butter melted and of course I choked. Damn you Cat, grow some balls. Butter flies status: They were so fast passing by like a shooting star