Abrosexual-facts

I usually say ab-row but it’s up to preference! I don’t think it matters too much. No matter how you say it you are valid!

Pansexual is attraction to everyone whereas as abrosexual means you attraction shifts, it can include pansexual.

It depends! Shifts are different for everyone and there is no real way of knowing when you will shift and for how long or what you will shift to. That could be the pattern you follow or it could change depended on a multitude of things. There is no way of knowing but no matter what happens with your shifts you are always a valid abrosexual. 🍉

That’s a cool idea! Something fun to think about.

There is no difference, all just different ways to say the same thing. Shift, flux or phase all mean the same thing.

I’d say it does! A shift can last any amount of time from a couple hours to a couple of years. All that matters is how you are most comfortable identifying. If identifying as abro makes you happy or feels right then you should identify as such. You will always be welcome in this community! 🍉

I think you can absolutely be abro without having ever kissed anyone, I’m 19 and I still haven’t. I don’t think it’s true that all women think about other women until they kiss one. And even if that is the case then it is ok. Your sexuality can change as you grow older and have new experiences. That doesn’t take away from how you are feeling now. How you are feeling currently is valid and even if that changes your feelings then and now are still valid. If you feel comfortable identifying as abro than you should identify as abro. If your feelings change and you find a new word then use that word instead and that is more than ok. People grow and change and that is ok and doesn’t discredit any previous experiences. You are welcome in the abro community 🍉

Yes, a shift could be triggered if you saw something or interacted with someone or anything else. A flux could happen for a number of reasons and no matter how or why you shifted you are valid 🍉

Hi there, good question! Personally, I don’t really think that there is a specific term, I think it’s all just personal preference. I think I usually call it a shift but I’ve used phase and flux as well. It’s all up to whatever you feel the most comfortable with! 🍉

It sounds like you are abrosexual. It seems like you are switching between different orientations. Questioning is more just not being sure exactly how you feel. You seem to have a pretty good understanding about how you feel, your feelings just shift which is what abrosexuality is; shifting between different identities. Switches can last any amount of time. Humans are complex and it can be hard to label things like sexuality and romantic attraction. If identifying as abrosexual makes you happy and gives you comfort than do so. If you want to keep looking for an identity hat you think fits better than do that instead. Labels are simply meant to help you feel comfortable with yourself. If abrosexual does that for you than use it. If not, keep looking. I wish you the best 🍉

It sounds like it could be part of abrosexuality. If you switch to only being attracted to women, then you wouldn’t find as deep of an attraction to someone who is not a woman. But only you know your feelings. It can be hard to date as an abrosexual because your feelings can change. But just because they change doesn’t mean you no longer love the person. It is just a different kind of love. You should take some time to think about how you feel when you are attracted to them and when you are not. Do you still want to be with them? It is a very hard question but do what makes you happy. Even if you are not always attracted to them, do you still want to be with them. Sending support 🍉

Of course! Any sexuality/orientation can be experienced! All identities are valid and it is possible to experience any of them! Sending support 🍉

Not at all! If you’ve been comfortable identifying as abrosexual then please keep doing so! You do not have to be asexual to identify as abro, it is only considered as such because some people are abro and ace. Feel comfortable using the term that makes you feel the best! The only “requirement” for identifying as abrosexual is to switch between different sexualities (or orientations if you are abroromantic)! You are valid and welcome in the abro community! 🍉

Yes it sounds like you could identify as abrosexual if that makes you happy! Welcome to the community! 🍉

I’ve only come out to a small group of people so I don’t have too much experience. I’m glad you are in a safe space and able to come out. The best way is to just tell someone whether in person or through text or letter or any other way. Just say something along the lines of I’m abrosexual and that means that my sexuality is fluid and switches. You can even say what you switch between if you are comfortable doing so. You can tell one person at a time, or just tell everyone at once. Do what makes you most comfortable. I wish you the best of luck and welcome to the community! And getting questions from the community is never a bother! 🍉