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If you are not into wearing diapers, I ask that you read this! And give a diaper a try, you may turn out to love wearing diapers! Its how I got in to wearing diapers! it was 5 years ago, I just moved into a house and I found a bag of some pull-up diapers! I started to think about what does it feel like to wear Pull-Ups diapers, so I put one on to see! And i fell love with wearing diapers and pull-up diapers! I am always wearing diapers now! And I use my diapers daily!

I wish that everone had to wear diapers and not underwear! And I wish that underwear was never made! Only diapers!!!

I mean we all started out wearing diapers as babies, and we end up wearing diapers when we get really old! So why should we have to stop wearing diapers, when we are going to end up back in diapers later down in our lives! Why can’t we just wear diapers our hole lives?

Are diapers & Pull-Up diapers better then underwear?

I believe diapers & Pull-Up diapers are way better then underwear! And here is 4 ways diapers are better then underwear!

1st

You can go to the bathroom in diapers! And peeing in your diapers feels really good and is super warm! When peeing in underwear feels gross, cold and runs down your lags! When a good diaper can hold all of your pee inside of it! I have done both peeing into my diapers and in my underwear! I grown to love peeing in my diapers!

2nd

How much work you can get done by wearing a diaper instead of wearing underwear! You can do more work in a day! By just peeing in your diaper, when underwear you have to stop and go to a bathroom to go pee! I put this to the test! I always got behind on my work when I was wearing underwear because I had to stop my work to go to the bathroom, and when I started wearing diapers I did NOT get behind on my work! So I been loving working in my diapers!

And no one knows I peed my diaper every time because 90% of my work day I am all by myself! And it gets cold some times so peeing inside of my diaper makes it nice and warm!

3rd!

Going on a long drive wearing diapers! You don’t have to stop and run to a bathroom to pee, you just pee right there inside of your diaper as you are driving! I hate driving to another state to see family and having to stop every time I need to pee! So I started wearing diapers to help the drive go faster! I don’t have to stop as much as I would if I was wearing underwear! I just stop when my diaper is too full and starts to leak, which makes the drive faster!

4th

Going on long flights Is better wearing diapers then underwear! Not having to worry about a line to use the bathrooms on the flight! You just pee in your diaper and go to the bathroom when you need to change it! I would change after the 2nd time you pee in your diaper, if you diapers can hold a lot of pee! I can pee in my diapers 2 or 3 time before it starts to leak! I go on 9 hour flights over seas a lot, so I started wearing diapers on my flights because I didn’t get to the bathroom in time, and I peed my pants in front of everyone…🙀 So I wear diapers on my flights! I always get on my flights dry and get off my flights wet, and I just go in to a bathroom and change my wet diaper!

Someone on one of my flights have heard my peeing in my diaper and ask me if I just peed my pants! I rather have one person know I’m wearing a diaper then a lot of people see me pee my pants! And if you think about it, if everyone did wear diapers and use them none will care if you pee your diaper!

Missy had recently learned how to wet her diaper standing up. This was a big step towards her goal of becoming 100% bowel and bladder incontinent. Just two days ago she couldn’t pee in her diaper unless she sat on a toilet until her bladder practically burst! Even then, she only dribbled into her diaper. It was so frustrating. She didn’t want to sit on a toilet at all, and she vowed to never sit on one again. Diapers were her life now. 

After hours and hours of yearning to pee, she gave up and let her pee out into the toilet, feeling disappointed and defeated. 

‘There has to be a faster way,’ she thought to herself.

Luckily, people all over the world were making the right choice and choosing to return to diapers. With the aide of mass media and high profile celebrity endorsements, adult diapers were becoming fashionable among all genders, races, and age groups. 

“I’m sure someone has figured out a better way to diaper train.”

‘That’s it!’ she thought. 

She ran to her computer, diaper crinkling loudly as she sprinted up her stairs, and she typed ‘diaper training’ into google. Thousands of videos and blog posts were instantly available to her, and contrary to what you would expect, they did not deal with how to train out of diapers. This was training to be in diapers. 

Missy must have spent two and a half hours doing “research.” Reading about diapers made her very horny too, so she dropped a small vibrator into the front of her nappy. Her main takeaways were:

1. Never, ever, ever sit on a toilet with your diaper on.

2. Drink more water than you ever have in your life and go pee wherever and whenever you think you need to.

3. Utilize diaper hypnosis tapes, many of which were free on Youtube.

She was pretty tired from her research and from cumming four times so she reapplied some baby lotion to her pussy, drank a half gallon of water in 10 minutes, and put on an 8 hour incontinence hypnosis tape. This hypnosis tape was very highly rated and people commenting on Youtube even warned to not listen if the user was not 100% sure they want to become diaper dependent. Missy was 100% sure she did.

Missy had restless dreams. She was in a crib at one point, crying like never had in her life. She was a newborn in appearance, but her diaper was dry from what she could tell. Why was she crying then? Suddenly, she started to grow. Her crib morphed into a regular bed and within moments she was a young 20 year old again. Her diaper had grown with her, and when she turned around it was saggy and bright yellow with pee. She started to giggle and coo like a newborn, and even start to touch herself in her diaper.

Missy awoke with a start. It was very dark in her room still, but she could hear a hissing sound. Then this wonderful warmth spread across her pelvis and ass. 

“I’m wetting!”

She moaned as the pee flowed effortlessly from her body. The tape could be heard softly across the room.

“Babies don’t like being in dry diapers,” she vaguely heard. Honestly, she wasn’t listening very hard to the words being mumbled by the tape. Maybe that was the point.

18+ means 18+, not “I’m 14 but I don’t get offended by your posts” or “I’m 16 but I’m mature for my age”

Teach boys their boundaries  🔪

When you misbehave while mommy is trying to change you 😬

So, untraining / diaper training / making yourself incontinent is actually extremely simple and straightforward. All it requires from you is time, patience, and a lot of diapers. That’s literally all you need to lose your control.

So first of all, you want to get in the habit of never using your muscles. That feeling where you clench to stop yourself from wetting or messing? Avoid doing that as much as you can, because that makes the muscles work and maintains their strength, while we’re wanting to weaken them as much as possible. It’s okay if you clench accidentally while you’re getting the hang of letting everything go whenever and wherever, that’s all part of learning and being patient with yourself, but you always want to avoid clenching down if you can.

The other thing you want to focus on is allowing your muscles to be open as much as possible. This is the feeling you get when you’re wetting or messing if you’re unsure, or if that’s still confusing to you, it’s the same thing you feel just after you finish voiding, before you stand back up off the toilet again and go back to clenching. It’s a very relaxed sensation, and there’s kind of this “dropping” feeling in your body when you do it. Practice doing this as much as you can, because, you guessed it, the more your body is in this state, the less it’s working and keeping your muscles strong. This will get easier and easier to do as you go until eventually, it’ll become so natural and normal that you’ll be open all the time without even thinking about it, and after a decent amount of time has passed, you won’t be able to close things at all anymore even when you try.

The very final thing you should try and do, and this isn’t necessary but I believe it speeds up the process and gets you wetting and messing with as little notice or feeling as possible if that’s what you want, is that you want to think about your voiding as little as you possibly can. To give an example of this, when you mess yourself, you don’t want to constantly be thinking like, “Oh my god I’m messing myself right now, I can’t believe I’m doing this”, or anything like that. You want to let everything become completely normalized and regular to you. If you start messing yourself, you should think of it as something that just happens sometimes, and you should remember that there’s nothing out of the ordinary about it for you, as someone who needs their diapers now. The same with wetting, just because you’re wetting yourself doesn’t mean you should let that distract you from anything you’re doing, it’s just something your body does now, but your diapers take care of it so you don’t even need to worry about that feeling.

By not clenching, by letting your muscles stay open, and wetting or messing yourself as soon as you feel the urge, you will untrain yourself. You can also train yourself to start voiding without noticing it if you’d like to by working on normalizing the behaviour, as I mentioned before. There’s no big secret to any of this, no ultimate crazy trick to it. It’s just science, and fact. 

So, there you have it, everything you need to know to untrain yourself and everything I did to get to where I am today. You don’t need any hypnosis or guides or anything like that, you just need your patience and perseverance. Doing what I’ve said here will cause your muscles to “atrophy”, which is basically saying that they’ll degrade over time to a point of being completely useless and unable to function, rendering yourself incontinent. 

The reason I took the time to write this out is to help this community, and so that you do not feel compelled to buy the $20 / $30 guide that is going around Tumblr these days. Nothing in it is new information, and you do not need it to untrain yourself, I promise you.

There are some amazing resources out there for anyone who genuinely wants to untrain themselves and wants info or advice on how to go about it, all absolutely free, and all you have to do is look. The first thing you can check out for a general overview of the process and some more in-depth tips is the 12 Month Diaper Training Program, though it isn’t perfect, and you should never use a single source for all your information. A person who I think is amazing and that I’ve referenced more than once as I’ve gone through my own untraining, is Kali, a man who has completely untrained and in my opinion, gives out some of the best advice in the untraining community (he is very good at answering asks too). The Incontinent Desires subforum on Daily Diapers is also full of people talking about and discussing losing all of their control, with some amazing personal stories and records of success, plus plenty of shared tips for living lives in diapers 24/7. 

Please please please, check out some of these people, places, and resources for your needs, and do not reward the person here on Tumblr who took publically available information from all around the Internet and put it behind a paywall. Do not reward the person who is making people who already bought their guide pay more to them again for an “updated” version. Do not reward the person who is exploiting desperate people who just want more information for their own profit. 

You can be completely successful in your untraining with just what I’ve said here, and a little bit of research or asking those who’ve untrained about what you’re unsure about is perfectly fine as well. In my experience, people who untrain themselves are usually some of the kindest and most genuinely helpful people I have had the pleasure of talking to in the ABDL community. Most of us understand that we each can’t help feeling like we’re meant to be incontinent, and most of us are happy to support one another with the process of untraining because of this, without the need for multiple separate Patreon accounts (which are made so that people have to give money multiple times over if they want all the content instead of getting everything for one clear price), an Amazon wishlist attached to every post, and a guide that other people can only access by paying for it, more than once if they want the newest version.