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Call me Lilith (my online name), or any version of my username (I was called Battery once, I didn't mind it)

I'm aroace, aplatonic, voidpunk, and agender.

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what if... there was an aro character... and they weren't treated as broken for being aro... and their storyline wasn't just them complaining about how their aromanticism means they're missing out on life... and they were confirmed to be aromantic within the media they were from... and they didn't resonate with the word 'love' in any sense... and this wasn't treated as unhealthy....

aro-ace-chaos

Introducing: The Aspec Glossary!

*Note: Please make sure to check the original post for the latest version before reblogging. This post will be updated frquently!*

There are a lot of aspec terms, some more common than others. With this series, I'm hoping to spotlight a bunch of different aspec identities, terms, etc.

If you have any suggestions for terms to post about, you can comment on or reblog this post, or send in an ask or dm!

A lot of these topics will be aro/ace centered, but I'm happy to shine some light on anything on the aspec, including afamilial, aplatonic, asensual, atertiary, aqueerplatonic, etc. Just know that I will have less to say personally about things that don't apply to me, and I will be more heavily relying on the words of others in those cases.

Note: when a term is a modifier than can apply to multiple things (eg. repulsed, aego, demi, etc.), I typically default to using sex/sexuality/asexuality as the example (eg sex-repulsed, aegosexual, demisexual), because those are more clear-cut for me to define. Determining if an action is sexual is easier for me than determining if an action is romantic or platonic or anything else, and sometimes I just need an example. There's not really a deeper meaning to it.

Navigation links under the cut!

justagaymoth

I love being aplatonic. I just don't like being ignored and invalidated in the aromantic community. The whole putting friendship on a pedestal thing that so many aromantics do sucks and is just as bad as what alloromantics do to romance. Shaming people for not loving any is no different than alloromantics shaming you for not loving or having a romantic partner. I don't need friends. I have friends but sometimes I want to be friendless. I am not a monster for not loving my friends. The whole we Aromantics can still love our friends is just as bad as when AlloAces say they can still love. There is nothing wrong with not loving. Fun fact you can care about someone and humanity without love. Kindness is more important than love. Sometimes I hate being loveless aplatonic, aromantic because I get hated on by my own community.

lovelessrage

This post goes out to unfeeling aros. To aros that choose to reject love and aros that don't see it as a part of their life. To aros that had no choice in what love they struggle to or can't feel at all. To aros with low or no empathy, to aros that can't fit the ideal of "still caring in a different way". To aros that very rarely or will never "love in other ways". To aros that can't, won't, or don't want to be defined by how much they love their friends or family instead.

Being aromantic is not something to "redeem".

Being aromantic should not be something you have to dress up in "buts" and "ifs" about feeling in other ways.

Being aromantic means supporting the aros around you, not punching down because you found a way to be accepted more broadly and don't mind who gets left behind. It's all of us or none of us, and that includes aros who can't love, can't care, and won't fit the image of a "good aro" who's perfectly platonic, familial, caring and loving. Even the most solitary aro you can think of is deserving of a judgement-free life.

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aspec-mafia-official

This pride month aspecs should be allowed to bite anyone who tries to exclude them from queer spaces.

luxiomahariel

not loving someone or something is not the same thing as not caring about them

love =/= care

silliestcolressfan

non loveless person, there is a post in front of you that talks about how love isnt the best thing ever and its not what makes us human. all you have to do is Not comment how you agree "but platonic love IS the best thing ever and IS what makes us human". if you fail and comment that, the hill will be silent. you have 60 seconds

biornicles

fun fact "a-spec people can still feel love even if it's different from what amatonormative society considers love" and "some people don't experience love at all and that's fine and doesn't make them any less human or worthy of respect" are two statements that can and do coexist

aroapl

Once again asking y'all to remember loveless, aplatonic, and afamilial aros this valentines day. Some aros don't have any kind of interest in substituting any other kind of love for romantic love, and there's nothing wrong with that.

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stiffyck

i kinda forgot how nice it is to see a main character with no love interest? and i mean absolutely no love interest at all. no mention of an ex partner, no current partner thats just off screen- nothing.

and its not seen as sad or that the character wants something like that- its just. its just how the character is.

was rewatching the martian and it hit me just how much that little bit of his character means to me? i think the movie is kinda silly and its just a feel good movie about people coming together to save one person-

but they could have very easily given mark, our main character, a partner to come home to. something he wants to get back to, someone to keep him going. but no. he survives just because hes stubborn and decides hes not dying there alone. hes gonna survive and get home.

and even at the end, they could have shown him with a wife or kids or something, and they dont do that. they just show that hes a professor of some kind? that hes preparing future astronauts for stuff that could happen- just like it did for him. the lack of a love insterest isnt what makes his character lonely, its the fact that hes on a planet all alone by himself.

idk. think i just found a new comfort movie. and all it took was a main character with no love interest.

foenixed

"Why would this character be jealous of their friend's romantic relationships? Clearly they're in love with them" I don't know if you guys have ever Had Friends but it's actually pretty common for people to feel jealous if their best friend suddenly has less time for them and is prioritising someone they just met over them. That's not inherently romantic, that's the general human desire to be valued by the people you value.

iamthetruestrepairman

women’s bodies weren’t “made” to do anything, nature didn’t “intend” anything, no human action is “unnatural” and there is no inherent “purpose” to a human life

iamthetruestrepairman

people weren’t designed to do anything because they weren’t designed at all. Hope this helps 🤩

aspecmemesdaily

Day 503

sortingmyideas

No, I don't ship these characters.

Yes, they're physically affectionate with each other. Yes, they'd kill for each other. Yes, they're the most important thing either of them have. Yes, they'll obliterate you for insulting or hurting their friend. Yes, they sleep next to each other and cuddle.

No, they're not dating. No, they're not fucking. No, they're not in a QPR. They're besties. Plain and simple.

Also they're both aroace because I said so.

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knifearo

every time someone new starts identifying with aromanticism an angel gets its wings

h3xt0r

We need more ships where it's romantic for one half and platonic for the other and both parties are aware and ok with this

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