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The early days of pacifier training are often the most important. I recommend a four step approach to permanently silencing your little one:

1. Establish her submissive role. Start by introducing and exploring power dynamics during sexual play under the context of S&M. It can start with a simple question like, “who’s my good girl?” And eventually evolves slowly into making her repeat who her daddy is before being able to make “cummies.” Make sure she knows she needs permission from daddy to orgasm. Denial is a great tool during this stage. Daddy owns her cummies. Tell her daddy does the talking during sex, and good girls stay quiet. If you can achieve this dynamic, you’re ready to introduce props.

2. Introduce her first pacifier. By this point, she’s accustomed to calling you daddy. She’s explicitly and subconsciously beginning to submit to you. She’s a melty little puddle every time you turn her on. Work her up into a desperate heat. She’ll still be talking and making little noises during sex. Tell her you got her a special gift to help keep her quiet for daddy during playtime. It’s very important you place the pacifier in her mouth the first time. Her acceptance of the teat for the first time must be willing. Your hand must be place the paci in her mouth, taking away her big girl voice and allowing her to focus exclusively on suckling and pleasure. Introduce the rule that she can never remove her own pacifier after daddy places it in her mouth. It must be taken out by daddy or she will get spankies. Make sure you reinforce her suckles by allowing her to have a big release the first time she’s using her pacifier. Lastly, point out how much the pacifier must have turned her on!

3. Bedtime introduction: It takes a long time to work your way up to daytime pacifier addiction (I’ll expand upon that in future posts); however, it’s relatively easy for daddy to reintroduce a pacifier in the soft glow following a passionate night of love making. As she cuddles up on your chest, simply shush her and reinsert her pacifier. Rub her hair, comfort her and make her feel special. Make sure she falls asleep with the teat between her lips.

4. Encouragement: The following morning it’s important to tell her how cute she was sucking her pacifier. Tell her how she suckled it all night like a real baby after falling asleep on your chest. If she has bad habits (like snoring or teeth grinding, point out how much it helped her!). Tell her how special she is, how adorable she is, and how much you can tell she loves her paci. Ask her how she ever lived without one. Start referring to her pacifier as her favorite thing. Every time it’s introduced, at night or during playtime, make sure it’s under the pretense of something you’re doing for her. “You’re being too loud for daddy, let me get your paci for you.” “Baby girl needs to make suckies on her paci to make cummies now huh?” Sweetie, you seem anxious, how about I get your favorite pacifier and we have a cuddle?” Traveling? Pack her pacifier as a “favor.” The pacifier should always be nearby, ready to be placed between her lips. If she pouts about it, just tell her to take a few suckles and settle down. Her fussiness shows just how much she needs to be pacified. Soon, she will be conditioned to seek out her pacifier for comfort, anxiety and release. Instead of you introducing it, she will request it. Her little submissive brain will begin making new connections, and the foundation for a lifetime addiction will be in place.