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Terdapat beberapa perkara yang perlu anda lakukan sebelum bersetubuh. Dalam erti kata lain, anda perlu puaskan nafsu isteri bukan sahaja ketika bersetubuh, tetapi sebelum dan selepas bersetubuh. Berikut adalah teknik-teknik yang perlu anda amalkan untuk memuaskan nafsu isteri.

Goda Isteri Sebelum Bersetubuh

Kebanyakan suami tidak pernah menggoda isteri mereka sebelum bersetubuh. Rata-rata hanya menggoda dan merayu isteri hanya bila berkeinginan. Akibatnya isteri menganggap suami hanya ingat atau sayang kepada mereka hanya ketika memerlukan.

Perkara ini secara tidak langsung boleh buat hubungan suami isteri semakin renggang.

Wanita lebih mudah bernafsu apabila dirangsang secara emosi, berbanding fizikal. Walaupun rangsangan fizikal penting untuk membuat isteri bernafsu, rangsangan emosi juga memainkan peranan yang tidak kurang pentingnya.

Tak susah untuk menggoda isteri sebelum bersetubuh. Tambahan pula dengan kemajuan teknologi perhubungan pada masa sekarang.

Anda boleh gunakan aplikasi messaging seperti Whatsapp dan sebagainya untuk menghantar mesej-mesej menggoda kepada isteri. Hantar setiap masa dan ketika, jangan hanya ketika anda inginkan isteri di ranjang.

Mesej-mesej ini akan sentiasa merangsang emosi isteri dan membuat beliau benar-benar bernafsu ketika bersetubuh kelak.

Panjangkan Foreplay

Permainan foreplay juga sering diabaikan oleh ramai suami. Kebanyakan suami menganggap foreplay hanya perlu untuk membuat isteri basah dan bersedia untuk bersetubuh.

Ini adalah tanggapan yang salah. Permainan foreplay jika dilakukan dengan betul bukan sahaja boleh buat isteri bersedia sepenuhnya untuk bersetubuh, malah boleh buat isteri klimaks dan puas – hanya dengan teknik foreplay anda.

Sebagai contoh, panjangkan sesi ciuman anda. Teknik ciuman yang betul sangat-sangat berkesan. Malah rata-rata wanita boleh basah dan bersedia untuk bersetubuh hanya dengan bercium dan sedikit sentuhan.

Jika anda masih samar-samar bagaimana untuk melakukan teknik foreplay yang betul, anda boleh baca tip 5 teknik foreplay terbaik.

Tetapi jangan terus bersetubuh selepas bercium. Gunakan teknik foreplay yang lain seperti seks oral atau cunnilingus untuk membuat isteri benar-benar bernafsu.

Teknik seks oral bukan sahaja boleh buat isteri anda basah, tetapi jika kena tekniknya dengan mudah boleh buat isteri anda klimaks dan pancut.

Seperti yang anda tahu, wanita adalah multi-orgasma – iaitu mereka boleh klimaks dan pancut lebih dari sekali. Jadi tidak rugi jika anda berjaya buat isteri anda klimaks berkali-kali ketika berasmara.

Teknik ini juga adalah salah satu cara atau ilmu puaskan nafsu isteri di ranjang.

Saya telah memberi pelbagai tip seks oral pada laman web ini. Anda boleh belajar bagaimana untuk melakukan teknik seks oral yang betul melalui pautan ini – teknik seks oral untuk puaskan isteri.

Pilih Posisi Bersetubuh Yang Sesuai

Salah satu lagi rahsia puaskan nafsu isteri yang berkesan adalah dengan memilih posisi bersetubuh yang sesuai untuk anda berdua.

Posisi bersetubuh atau posisi seks yang berbeza akan memberikan nikmat yang berbeza. Banyak faktor yang menyumbang kepada perkara ini. Contohnya saiz zakar anda, dan saiz lubang faraj isteri.

Ramai suami gagal dalam teknik ini. Mereka sering memilih posisi bersetubuh yang mereka gemari dan biasa, akibatnya mereka gagal untuk membuat isteri puas sehingga klimaks. Lebih teruk lagi posisi bersetubuh yang salah boleh buat suami pancut awal berbanding isteri.

Tidak semua posisi bersetubuh dicipta untuk satu saiz zakar atau saiz lubang faraj. Oleh itu posisi bersetubuh yang akan memberi nikmat mutlak untuk saiz zakar yang besar dan lubang faraj kecil, sendat tidak semestinya akan memberi nikmat yang sama kepada pasangan dengan saiz zakar kecil dan bukaan lubang faraj yang besar.

Hello guys. Just nak share and hope beri panduan kepada korang semua.kebanyakan lelaki 20an tak kira bujang atau baru kawen dlm 2-3 tahun masih tidak paham dlm meng"ayat" isteri atau bini org yang umur middle 30an.

Selalu ingat benda ni mudah. Ingat isteri org akan teruja dengan tgk senjata yg besar dan pamjang.

Biar aku cerita:

1. Isteri org pertengahan 30an ni..jangan layan dia org mcm budak2..cara korang tunjuk batang korang yg power tidak akan buat mereka excited lebih. In fact dia org dah biasa dapat.

2. Level bini org 30an tidak boleh disamakan dengan janda. Dia org sentiasa di sumbat batang suami sendiri dan bila2 dia org nak boleh je dapat… So jgn sembang pasal ajak main.

3. Untuk tackle bini org berumur 30an kena ada art atau seni tersendiri. Mereka suka.lelaki.MATANG dalam berborak atau chatting. Kalau korang asyik cerita sex jer..memang buat diorg bosan boring.

4. Cara terbaik layan bini org 30an adalah jadi buddies atau kawan2..amik berat atau take care (jangan lebih2 sgt) sehingga lama2 boleh move forward jadi GF korang. Bila dah sampai level tue, minta apa sahaja semua korang dapat😀. Layan la dia org mcm korang layan GF korang dulu..cakap sopan dan SOUND ROMANTIC.

5. Satu lagi bila chatting atau borak..jgn sembang lebih atau gebang..dia org x suka lelaki gebang atau cakap besar. Jgn asyik cerita korag hebat main atas katil. Langkah paling silap sebab belum terbukti selagi dia x rasa btg korang.(jangan sembang lebih, sekali main terus tewas..buat malu beb)

6. Bini org 30an ni ..kalo chatting atau nak tackle..jangan ada budaya pushy..atau paksa2..jgn la korang asyik minta pic breast la..pussy la..minta pic body la..selalunya berakhir 99% bye2..cara dia org berfikir mudah, kenapa nak gelojoh minta mcm2 gambar sedangkan kalo korang okay..nanti dapat main so tgk la puas2..nak gelojoh pergi mane?

7. Mane2 dah sampai level dapat jumpa..make sure korang layan mcm gf korang..sesekali beli la bunga ke..hadiah ke..walaupun dia x mintak..bukan pasal dia org nak duit korang ke apa.APPRECIATE ATAU HARGAI dia org..bahkan bini org 30an kebanyakan kerjaya dah stabil..kerja lebih 10tahun gaji dia org pun tinggi..dia org x heran pun duit korang..

8. HORMAT..RESPECT dia org.. ingat dia org bukan budak2..tukar mind set korang..bila dapat scandal atau main..bukan korang dah berjaya main pussy dia org..tapi dia org yg berjaya meng" ANAK IKAN" kan korang atau bahasa lain dia org dah berjaya cari TOY BOY!

Tak percaya dengan teori aku ni? Buktinya dia org boleh reject korang bila2 masa..and actually korang yg merayu bagai nak tackle dia kan?

9. Muka hensem korang bukan jaminan korang boleh dapat tackle dia org..kalo ada maybe bonus skit je kot..

Ok la.akhir kalam..yg muda2 umur 20an atau setakat baru kawen 2-3 tahun jangan sembang lebih. Kalo korang gagal buat no 1-8 di atas aku pasti 99% gagal utk takle bini org 30an dan paling sedih yg baru kawen 2-3 tahun..ini la QUALITY KORANG LAYAN WIFE KORANG SENDIRi

Nak percaya ke tidak lantak korang la..aku tak rugi apa !

P/s: Mohon suami2 yang ada isteri 30an tue untuk.komen sekali..setuju ke tidak..at least boleh la jadi endorsement apa yg aku tulis..kalo tak kang 20an ni kata aku gebang..😁😁

Ok chow

First of all..thanks kepada yang menyokong dan memberi sokongan atas statement aku mengenai KEHENDAK WIFE 30an.

2. Sorry ramai yg cuba PM aku tapi tak boleh sebab setting aku only tumbrian yg aku follow je..😀 pls repect my decision.

3. Ada juga yg membantah.takpe no worries standard bukan semua akan setuju. Aku just meraikan perbezaan pendapat.

4. Those 20an, bukan niat aku nak kondem u all, but dlm tips ni maybe ada teguran yg keras. Just repair and improve urself.

5. Bukan niat aku bagi tips agar mengalakkan korang tackle bini org..but take positive side to put more respect to women atau isteri org which i trust older than u.. or this is good lesson to respect ur own wife or future wife.

6. Why we have to respect them? Yes memang semua benda ni salah infact korang dlm tumbrl pun dah kira salah kan? But bear in mind, isteri org bkn untuk di jadikan hamba. What they need ( perhaps husband&wife) adalah enjoy. Then why not just sharing happiness? Korang dapat pussy and dia (or husband) pun dapat full fill sex desire mereka. Kan? Fair enough

7. Another thing, pls do not spread segala gambar or nude pic scandal korang. Kesian dia weh. Korang pun dah dapat sedap kan..so pls back to basis..RESPECT mereka.

8. Walaupun ada scandal korang or hubby dia allow korang take pic time project, pls hide.or cover muka mereka. Or else, bagi husband dia yg publish and tag korang. Husband dia lebih layak utk publish to public kan?

9. Pada mane2 yang rasa tak boleh ikut tips tersebut..so benda ni akan reflect to ur wife or future wife.

10. Again, thanks friends and followers.

PS: kepada husband&wife, kalo aku rajin nanti aku tulis tips to protect privercy korang bila deal 3some dengan sesorang.

Ofcourse risau tetiba ada yg amik pic time project dengan wife kita kan? Yer la wife tgh sedap, mane sedar pic kena amik..nampak.muka.

BE Matured 😀👌

What to Expect from a Swinger’s Party 

by Morgan 

So you’re wondering what a swinger’s party is like. Is it a giant orgy, where everyone is just fucking everyone? Even if you’re not a swinger, by reading this I know you are curious what such parties entail. You may perhaps be thinking why I would attend a swinger’s party. Because…why the fuck not. YOLO! I was obviously just as curious as you, but I took it a step further and actually attended a party to find out! It was not at all what I had imagined.

First of all, swinger’s parties are not so secret anymore. I simply googled and found a few organizations that do take-overs such as InviteOnly and ChiVIP. What does that mean? Well, it means that the organization basically takes over a hotel, a club, a cruise ship even and hosts parties, especially for swingers. Not everyone can just show up to a swinger’s party.

You have to contact the host organization, you have to fill out an application, you have to pay an entrance fee ($30-ish per couple). Most of the time, single men are not allowed (sorry guys, too bad, so sad), however, single ladies are always welcomed (with open arms and more).

Once the organization decides you’re good to go, they typically keep the location of the event a secret until the day of. You will know the general location, but not the exact address.

Usually, events are themed to make the parties more interesting: Halloween parties, Camo parties, NYE parties, white parties, etc. Alcohol is usually available, for ultimate drunken fun! Sometimes there are BYOB events (I would probably prefer this).

What Does NOT Happen at Swinger’s Parties

People are NOT walking around butt-naked

People are NOT going at it in the open

There are no BDSM related accessories (I was actually hoping there would be a nice area for me to explore).

There aren’t any strippers.

What Does Happen at Swinger’s Parties

Normal couples socializing with other normal couples

Drinking

DJ and lots of dancing

Stripper Pole for super sexy dancing

Sitting areas

It’s pretty loud so you have to scream to be heard

Semi-private bed areas (floor mattress, surrounded by curtains for people to get it on with some privacy, condoms, and washcloths (lol, gotta clean yourself up after doing the nasty yo!) are provided).

My experience….

So, my Mr. and I decided to attend a Camo party a few weekends ago. What can I say, I was curious, geez. Anyways, so I had no idea what to expect. I didn’t know what to wear either. Camo? Seriously? I had nothing Camo. Luckily camo is in style, so my local Target had a nice pair of skinny jean looking mid-rise camo pants. Phew. I seriously wasn’t sure how “slutty” to dress. Back in the days, when we would go clubbing, the sluttier the better. Now that I am almost 30 (yikes), and I have no idea what this event will be like, I decided to go with something sexier than trashy. I chose a black lace-back tank, with beige strappy sandals, plus a leather jacket to hide my cleavage on the way there. I went with a super glam makeup and hair look. Lots of dark colors, contouring, and curly hair.

That morning we found out the location of the party. The party started at 9 pm so my Mr. and I had dinner. After dinner, we met with another couple for drinks, who were in fact swingers. They were attending the party as well, so we tried to get as many details as possible from them regarding the party since they have gone to quite a few parties in the past. We met at a very chic rooftop bar downtown Chicago. We found out that the owner of this bar had also been in the lifestyle. Whaaaaatttt? We were kinda surprised, but not really lol. It was just interesting.

We ended up getting some bar food at another bar on the way to the party…which took forever.  We arrived at the party “fashionably late” (10:30ish), which was fine because it seemed like a lot of people were just getting there.

There was a big black doorman (typical) that checked our ID’s and our “tickets/voucher”. He guided us to the top floor of the building. There was another man at the entrance of the party that was checking names and giving event bracelets. There was a DIY bar fully stocked with popular drinks, a DJ at one corner, next to two stripper poles, a body painter on the other side, tables and chairs surrounding the dance floor (typical party must-haves). What made this party different you ask? Well, the room filled with beds for one thing.

The room had about 3-4 twin sized beds that were screened off for some privacy (first, come first, serve ya’ll). There were also two beds at the outer edge of the dance floor that were screened off with curtains. These beds were for VIP members. You basically pay $200 for a queen sized bed instead of the regular twin sized bed, you also get your own reserved seating area for 4. Interesting……

The People…

Before our drinks started flowing, we simply stood back and people watched. Couples of various ages but mostly 30’s-40’s (we were among the younger ones), various ethnic/racial backgrounds, everyone seemed to be having a good time. Some women were topless, with body-painted boobs. At first, everyone just socialized.

Everyone was really friendly, introducing themselves and small talk. Many of the individuals we spoke to were regulars to these parties, so many of the couples knew one another. They formed clusters around the bar as they conversed.

As the night went on, the party got louder, people got drunker, and brave women danced on the designated stripper poles. The crowd cheered and admired their skill. The dance floor quickly filled up. This is when I noticed couples sneaking away from the crowd….into the sexy areas! No one even noticed (except me probably, because that’s what I was there for, to be nosy).

You probably wouldn’t even have known this was a swinger’s party if you were not informed. It seemed like a very normal dance party/gathering. Nothing was out of the ordinary except for the beds. Sure couples were making out in corners and feeling up on each other, but you can expect that at any club/bar you go. It really wasn’t as wild as I had anticipated. Our trip to Desire Resort was way wilder than this party. To read about our Desire experience, check out my previous post. I guess these parties are pretty low-key, which is not at all what I had anticipated from a group of 200 or so swingers. I expected some kinky shit. LOL. My bad for making assumptions!

It was an interesting experience and we met some super friendly couples from all parts of life. Next time we are feeling adventurous, I want to visit a BDSM dungeon!