B U B

In Germany too people make eye contact with you like THIS 👁️ _ 👁️ while toasting because it's seven years of bad sex if you don't, eye contact or not, so it's definitely a thing, but it has nothing to do with looking at who you're fucking lmfao

forever in awe of people who pay attention. people who wait for you while you tie your shoes while the others have walked away. when they continue listening intently while the rest of the group stopped listening. noticing your moments of silence when everyone else hasn’t. “this made me think of you” noticing things you never even noticed about yourself. people who say “text me when you get home safe.” people who make you laugh until you cry. childhood friends who keep in touch. people with genuine intentions. people who are soft when the world has given them every opportunity to turn hard. the “let’s get ice cream” at 3am friend. the turn up the music in the car and sing friend. people whose actions match their words. people who make the world feel less chaotic. kindred spirits. the trustworthy and honest. hard workers. good listeners. clear communicators. people who love you for who you are. people who don’t ask you to be anything other than yourself. people who choose you. people who stay.

what i find really funny about the “phivorce” thing is that dan’s name is NOWHERE in there. its only phil + divorce