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read more about this harmful stereotype and how to unlearn it on my substack page! @4thedivas
ten simple phrases to look out for:
1. âIâm just vibing right now.â
Translation: I have no plan, and I donât want one. But Iâd like access to your time, energy, and body while I figure it out. Please hear the words. Thereâs a difference between a man who says, âI want to take my time getting to know you,â and one who says heâs just âvibing.â Those are two very different men. A vibe = no intention, no effort. F*ck the vibe. Youâre the vibe.
2. âLetâs just go with the flow.â
First of all, my Black ass canât swim, and Iâm a Virgo. What flow am I going with? A man who wants you will be intentional. He wonât drift aimlessly, heâll steer the ship toward making you his woman. If heâs âflowing,â ask yourself: do you want a man with no direction trying to lead you? The river leads nowhere, babe.
3. âYouâre different.â
He says this to make you feel chosen without actually showing it. âDifferentâ is vague, but itâs just enough to stroke your ego. Different how? Different from your usual type? Different because you canât remember anything about me? If âdifferentâ is all youâve got, youâre basic.
4. âIâm not looking for anything serious..but I really like being around you.â
Ah yes, emotional manipulation with a sprinkle of affection. These boys are glorified homeboys. He wants your energy, but none of the effort or responsibility that comes with actually nurturing you.
And if I'm meant to be alone, please take away my desire to be loved.
k.b. // unknown

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i hate when someone make me be mean like damn gang i was a pocket full of sunshine till you did that
Even if ICE retreats from Minnesota, the system has to go.
Even if Kristi Noem is impeached, the system has to go.
Even if ICE is defunded, the system has to go.
Even if the right withdraws, the system has to go.
Even if Trump dies, the system has to go.
Even if a liberal is elected president, the system has to go.
Any institution that lets fascism rise is one that's fundamentally broken.
We have the unique opportunity to change the foundations of the US for the better and we can't waste it.
I donât know how much the system is broken vs. the Republicans in the system are broken. The Republicans definitely need to go. And the voters can do that. ďżź
Ten signs/phrases you're entering a "situationship"

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single-hood is an opportunity to know and love yourself more.
from a chronically single, bisexual black woman.
nothing couldâve pushed me away.
but iâve realized, you didnât want those things from me. you didnât want me. i canât make you feel the same. but i hope you find someone deserving. and i hope you never settle for someone who triggers your nervous system so much that you have to keep tabs on them via instagram. i hope you recognize your own power and beauty. i hope you stop settling for your comfort zone and reach for fulfillment. you are driven. you are strong. you are brilliant. you can achieve your artistic dreams.
you have no idea the power you truly hold. please figure it out soon.
especially since i wonât be around to remind you.
i miss you, but i know i have to let you go.
âWe know through painful experience that freedom is never voluntarily given by the oppressor; it must be demanded by the oppressed.â
- Martin Luther King Jr., âLetter from a Birmingham Jail,â 1963
to the unrequited đĽ
the outcome wasnât what i desired, in fact it devastated me. but it was what i needed. i am actively releasing patterns tied to my connection with you, my pull toward you, my deeply unhealed wounds that were revealed after experiencing you. i discovered the kind of friends i need and want around me. because in another life, we wouldâve been the best of em. it hurts that i canât be that for you now, but it hurts more to stay. yearning. it would be a betrayal to my heart to be your friend, and a disservice to your energetic field to pretend like i wouldnât always want you⌠even though you donât want me in the way i want you.

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it would be a betrayal to my heart to be your friend, and a disservice to your energy to pretend i wouldnât always want you.
be a bitch.
iâve often been called anything but a child of God.
a diva, a brat, a bitch.
iâve been told iâm âtoo muchâ, âdramaticâ, âextra.â iâve been asked to dim down, keep quiet, suppress my true nature. people have insisted I stay lowkey, simple, basic like them. i can admit that i took up a lot of space without trying to do so.
it didnât help that i wasnât well received by the majority of my peers. i wasnât the kid anyone wanted to hang without being friends with. I wasnât the prettiest and i didnât have the best body. it was hard to believe in myself because many people didnât believe in me, or even give me a chance. i was very awkward, a bit annoying. unlovable. i longed for community and connection with others.
i couldnât help but believe that something was wrong with me.
i didnât want to be difficult, complicated or stand alone.
something i found myself doing often.
so i did the things that people insisted I do, in order to be more accepted. more valuable. i got to a point where i was trying so hard to adapt to whatever environment or lifestyle i was suddenly a part of that i let go of the things that made me special. i became a woman who had no idea who she was because iâd been living life on autopilot. i grew to resent myself, and everyone i once knew. a part of me wanted to be seen, but the greater part of me feared it because i remembered the times when i did stand out, and was often met with rejection or ridicule.
but iâve recently learned, itâs better to be rejected by others than to reject my spirit.
in the past six months, i went through many unexpected losses and life changes. i could feel the shift happening. itâs still happening as i write this out. itâs the end of a two decade long cycle. the end of me going down a path i had no business being on, and conforming to a way of being that forces resistance because who i truly am is fighting to reveal herself.
spoiler: most of the things i discovered about myself, were rediscoveries of the things i loved to do growing up such as reading, writing, singing, cooking and styling.
i spent the majority of my life trying to be who i thought i needed to be to achieve the things i wanted. i tried to be the perfect girlfriend based on who i was dating. i tried to be the ideal employee and gave my all to a career path i didnât deeply desire. i tried to be the friend people said i needed to be, even though those same people couldnât be there in the ways i desired. i even tried to be the kind of writer and content creator i thought i needed to be to be successful and make strides, instead of just trusting who i am at the core.
trying to please people when i myself am not even pleased is crazy. people are going to think and feel whatever they want, regardless of what i do.
this doesnât mean i wake up with the intention to provoke people, but it reminds me that i have free will, and i will freely and unapologetically be exactly who i am. the sun doesnât stop shining just because some people prefer the moon. not everyone can handle the light, the heat, the brightness.Â
not everyone can appreciate it. some people hide in the shade.Â
some just look the other way.
a diva, much like the sun, doesnât care who likes her and who doesnât. a diva loves herself and knows her worth and purpose. she gives herself permission to be radical in expression and presence with her flair and essence.
she believes in herself enough to keep rising.
so in short, be who you are.Â
better yet, be the baddest bitch you didnât even know you were.
though i prefer the word diva.