Flip To The B Side

Baby momma culture needs to die. Begging for your child’s father to make time out for his kids needs to die. Fighting for your child’s father to pay child support needs to die. Fighting with the other women that your child’s father has kids with has to die. Cause the only person winning and relaxing is the man.

Having children will never secure a relationship. Periodt. Idgaf what that man told you. I don’t care how much he begged you. idgaf if he had tears in his eyes and was on his knees begging you… your putting your life on the line for a man and he doesn’t even have the decency to make a commitment towards you and your child… doesn’t have the decency to be a man and father to the kids he already has and you think you can change him by giving him more kids???

This all ties down to making sure black women know their worth, set standards and build up their self esteem. What a coincidence that these three points are the same thing that a lot of people in our community shame black women for having… the moment you know your worth, your able to love yourself in a way that’s healthy and make better choices for yourself and your life. the moment you set standards and STICK TO THEM, your able to weed out and eradicate people, behavior from others and energy that doesnt suit you and your needs.

alot of people in our community (men and women) dont want you to know these things because they benefit from your low self esteem, lack of standards and lack of self worth. sit down and really think about it… people are benefiting from your failure to love your self and take care of yourself in a way that benefits YOU first… literal leeches feeding off of you… isnt that crazy… how generations in the black community have made sure that black women make sure that we put everyone before ourselves. everyones needs before our own. everyones happiness before our own, even if it means giving our own lives…

ive said it multiple time, BLACK WOMEN NEEDS TO BE SELFISH WITH THEIR TIME, ENERGY, LOVE, PATIENCE, BODY AND KINDNESS!!!

people are leeching off of us, using us like were disposable, disrespecting us like are lives and souls are meaningless… we cant wait for black men to “do better” towards us, cause the reality of it is they never will. you cant expect a hungry man with nothing to lose to give up his only means of survival because its the right thing to do. we cant wait for black women who would rather lick the foot of her black king than see sense, you cant help someone who doesn’t want to help themselves.

ZENDAYA paying tribute to Donyale Luna, one of the hottest “it girls” of the 60’s and the first black model to appear on the cover of Vogue.