birds of a feather

Well I’m certainly not an expert but I can try…

1. Clean out!

Shawn is absolutely right. No one likes a messy bottom. Cleaning out can be a pain and sooo inconvenient but it’s necessary. I’m not gonna recommend any one option, but there are several methods (enemas, hoses, etc) that you can research.

2. Watch your diet

Especially around when you think it might be “showtime”. Some might even fast or only drink liquids to prep their body. Cleaning out can be more of a pain (not literally) if you’ve been eating foods like chipotle burrito bowls all the time. Which brings me to the next tip….

3. Eat more fiber

Eating more fiber, like apples or even fiber supplements, can also greatly benefit you by cleaning you out naturally and reducing your reliance on artificial cleaning methods (though I’d always recommend you shower and check yourself and never assume you’re 100% clean)

4. Finger yourself

Practice makes perfect. Start small, like with a finger or two, then move up toys like a butt plug and practice opening and relaxing/controlling your muscles. Get used to that feeling of fullness. 

5. Lube is a bottom’s best friend

There are many to choose from (water-based, silicone-based, etc)…but spit is not an option! at least not for your first few times. 

6. Communicate with your partner

Talk to your top. Let him know what feels good and what doesn’t. A good top will want you to feel good and loves knowing that he’s making you feel good. And lastly….

7. Be safe and have fun!