¡luna!

The worst part is that people just blindly believe those observations without checking it for themselves.

There's a reason it takes me soo much time to write my posts. Finding a bulk of information about placements requires effort.

Nakshatra changes every 10-15 minutes, you need the absolute precise time of birth to get it right.

......it annoys me when people openly lie like this....

The two great benefics are officially meeting at 26 degrees of Cancer today. When the planet of magnetism and the planet of expansion sit at the same table in the sign of the intuitive inner world, luck ceases to be a random roll of the dice. It becomes an internal frequency.

Close your eyes. Take a deep, settling breath. Let your intuition drift toward the anchor that calls to you most.

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Hi y'all 🤍. I'm back with another postttt.

This one was in my drafts so I thought why not share it y'know.

DISCLAIMER⚠️: This is NOT a generalisation. Just take what resonates and leave what doesn't so DO NOT come for me lol.

 Aries 6th/12th house - people that have no tact when dealing with others. Also the ones that have ZERO emotional awareness. Egotistical people and the ones that seem to be throwing a tantrum like a 3 year old child. Omggg the ones that use the terms “alpha” and “beta” seriously 🙄 literally the podcast bros. This is kinda specific but do you know those people that just be screaming and hollering at the gym because the weights are too heavy for them. Or the ones that be slamming the weights down like ✋🏼 what are you trying to show. A little huff and puff and grunts are okayyy but GAWD DAMN you don’t gotta holler from rep 1 all the way to rep 9. (The gym analogy was inspired by Leo Skepi’s podcast btw and I thought it’s sooo true in this case 😭) 

Taurus 6th/12th house - the first thing that came to mind is the finance bros. But the annoying ones. Also the mf’s that when you just wanna have a normal hangout wanna throw their Mercedes keys or a pile of cash on the table 🤨. Literally the people that you can tell are try hards. Also people with ZERO personality like ❓, what do you bring to the table apart from your daddy’s money. Oooohhh the spoiled mfs 🙄🙄🙄 or the mfs that are trynna bag check you. Or constantly compare and wanna be in a competition with you. Also people that take their sweet ass time with something, especially when it comes to something you need done like can you like, idk, go ahead and finish it 😭, it’s already been 3 weeks COME ON. 

Gemini 6th/12th house - the ones that for the love of God don’t know how to SHUT UP 😭. Especially when they start chattering their way to you first thing in the MORNING 🫩 like calm your horses pls. Also people that just seem to be spreading lies and misinformation around. The mfs that seem to be so invested in your life, like ho do I know you 🤨. SMALL TALK. Like no Sharon I’m not interested in hearing about your dog on a Tuesday morning at 7:38 AM. But ofc you can’t say that so you have to put on a polite face and get on with it. Also people that seem soo scatter brained for some reason and disorganised.

Cancer 6th/12th house- OVERLY CLINGY MFS. And look there’s a difference between liking quality time/physical touch and being downright ON MY ASS ✋🏼 Have you heard the concept of PERSONAL SPACE. Tf you suffocating me for, like damn bro this ain’t WWE why you got me in a chokehold 😭 chillax ffs. Also crybabies (and what I mean by this are emotional manipulators) and people that you can tell are playing the victim. Save me your crocodile tears for another day yea. 🐊.

Also accurate rep of when someone is getting in y'all personal space:

Leo 6th/12th house - omfg do you know those mfs with their sunglasses up their 10 inch forehead that are surrounded by their brain dead friends and just talk SO LOUDLY on the phone (bc you can tell they want attention so bad). 😃 Listen this is a cafe, You ain’t gotta put this performance in front of people who just wanna enjoy their day. No one is watching you THAT hard aight. And if they are it’s because they’re trying to figure out wtf is wrong w u. Also people that have MISPLACED CONFIDENCE just piss you off soooo bad. Girl do you have a PERSONALITY. Or is your whole personality this fake bravado 🥱 I know I already mentioned this but ATTENTION SEEKERS. Like ppl that are downright desperate for others attention bc it feeds their fake sense of ego 🫥 this is another random one but do you know those mfs that want to show off their brand of clothing so bad (especially if it’s some gucci belt YOU KNOW WHAT I’M TALKING ABOUT 😭) or their bright red car ugh Jesus 

Virgo 6th/12th house - oh I got sum shit to say fo shooo. Starting off with PASSIVE AGRESSIVE and PETTY mfs. Like ho:

Also the mfs that are nitpicking and criticising every.single.fucking.thing. (Like you can tell they are so goddamn insecure and are projecting onto you like a mf). No Gerard. I’m not finna explain why I like wearing 6 inch heels and a nice bag outside alright. Keep it moving. Also there is a difference between someone giving you constructive criticism and someone just downright shaming you for expressing yourself and berating you. “There’s the door b ➡️🚪”  Oh God, when people try to “explain” things to you because “you don’t know, but it’s okay I’ll tell you because you can’t understand 😊” and you just KNOW they’re trying to UNDERMINE your intelligence. Alright lemme stop cuz I can go ALL DAY, don’t get me started ✋🏼

Libra 6th/12th house - this just gave me the biggest vibe of those LA influencers. The best example I can give you is the Bay Area/Valley girl accent where they go “ohhhh myyyy gawwwddddd, whaattt areeee yewwww doingggg” 😩. Yknow what I mean, when they just extend words for no reason like girl, SPEAK PROPERLY 😣 Or people that rely way too heavily on pretty privilege. And look ✋🏼 BEFORE y’all come for me, just know that there is nothing wrong with having SELF CONFIDENCE (I’m the biggest advocate for that ish on my page 😤) BUT I’m talking about the ones that only care about how they look (and can not have a PROPER conversation with you for more than 15 min 😭). Also the “mean girl” vibes or the straight up “jocks” but the worst kind. The mfs who will legit bully people for attention. Bro that does NOT make you cool at all. Also gossipers and TWO FACED mfsssss. The mfs that keep running their mouths to other people when it comes to your business. Also social butterflies. And yes I do think it’s a little bit of a 🚩 bc wdym EVERYONE likes you 🤨 kinda sus tbh 

Scorpio 6th/12th house - when they are a walking red flag and it’s just so painfully obvious. Or the mfs that think are slick but you can TELL are manipulating. Also OVERLY jealous and CONTROLLING mfs. The types to wanna tell you what you should be doing, who you’re allowed to go out with and who you can and can’t talk to. Like excuse me who are you ❓didn’t know I signed up for a PR 🙄 Also liars and people that are plotting others downfall. Or the mfs that seem to be so obsessed with other peoples lives like ho, do you even HAVE one yourself? Do you like, you know, GO OUTSIDE??? Smell the roses??? Why are you just taking everything as black and white like there are other colours trust me boo. 

Sagittarius 6th/12th house - people that seem to be all over the place. No clear direction, no nothing just unpredictable mfs. Might be up there with Aries 6th/12th house people when it comes to having ZERO TACT. Selfish ppl that don’t care who tf they hurt as long as they get their needs met. Overly dramatic mfs, cuz why do I have to babysit this 3 year old toddler throwing a tantrum. Your frontal lobe is FULLY DEVELOPED and you’re still acting childish. And I’m saying childish as in overly OBNOXIOUS. Bc you can be playful and still know when to be serious. Like there’s a time and place for everything. I’m talking about the mfs that can’t even do that like pls 😭 Also mfs that over exaggerate everyyythinggggg, including wanting a reaction out of you.

Capricorn 6th/12th house - first thing that came to mind is when someone is STIFF. “Light as a feather, stiff as a board” 😭✋🏼 aight imma stop before things start levitating over here LOL. But in all seriousness tho, an example I can give you is with, let’s say doctors or something (or anyone rlly, I’m just setting the scene so don’t be mad at me 🥲). Ask them anything about their profession and they’re gonna know shit about their field from start to finish, ask them something like “what’s your fav movie” and they start malfunctioning all of a sudden. Ho do you, yknow, have other interests other than just this THING 😭 Also dry texters. Unenthusiastic people. And look, we can’t all be in the mood all the goddamn time, but at least you can show someone that you like talking to them, or you appreciate spending time together. I’m talking about the mfs who act like they could give two shits if they stop talking to you today or not. In the beginning it’s fun (playing hard to get are we) but overtime it just gets annoying bc I’m not finna look desperate here and give 100% while you give breadcrumbs. They honestly might be up there with Virgos when they try to tell you how smth needs to be done bc clearly “you don’t know what you’re doing” 🙄

Aquarius 6th/12th house - people that couldn’t care less about you. Literally overly detached mfs. Also ppl that just dismiss you completely. Either that or people that act detached and everything bc:

A) they have commitment issues 

B) they wanna act cool 

C) they wanna run their mouths to their friends like “yea bro they’re crazy” 

Alright Sir Nonchalant the Third, pipe it down alright.

Also ppl that wanna keep coming back to you and leaving like this is a goddamn hotel 🤨

Bro either STAY or LEAVE, it’s that SIMPLE. Also mfs that make you feel like “one of their options”. Here. 

 A present for you 🖕🏼, stick it up your bum.

Pisces 6th/12th house - yo I kinda have to call myself out here cuz I do have these tendencies sometimes, but ZONING OUT. 😴Like it’s really not that of a good look when someone is engaged with you and you’re not even hearing what they have to say. Making people feel UNHEARD, or like you don’t care what they have to say bc you entered a whole other universe and escaped in your mind. It’s understandable when you do it from time to time but ALL the time. Like can you even sit with yourself for once second. Can’t you just, idk, just be. Also people whom with you NEVER have a clear thing going and you don’t know where you stand. Are we in a relationship?, are we friends?, are we good? it’s all an ENIGMA.

𓁹 the composite rising: the physical face of your together 𓁹

the composite chart acts as the literal birth of your together. it is a mathematical midpoint that finds the exact bridge between your two maps and treats your connection as a third living person with its own body and its own destiny. the composite rising is the front door of your bond; it is the energy you project as a pair and the first thing people taste when they see the two of you walking together. it is the aura of the unit and the way you navigate the world as a single heartbeat.

𓇻 composite rising through the signs 𓇻

aries rising the two of you carry a raw hunger for action that is impossible to ignore. as a pair you look like a constant beginning and people see you as a couple that doesn't wait for a sign before moving. you project a level of nerve and honesty that forces a boring room to wake up. the only risk is burning through your fuel too fast because you both refuse to pull the brakes. you look like a high stakes chase and everyone else is just trying to keep up.

taurus rising the bond carries a physical weight that tells the world you are staying put. you look like a place of solid ground where high quality silence and good meals are the only rules. people see your loyalty as a biological fact and you suggest a rhythm that refuses to be hurried by any deadline. you are the anchors of your circle and everyone feels a bit more stable just being near your shared stillness and your heavy comfort.

gemini rising your together sounds like a non stop conversation that never hits a dead end. you are the couple people invite to dinner because the air never gets heavy or stagnant when you are around. you project a restless curiosity and people see you as the messengers who have a new story for every mile you travel. your joint image is bright and shifting and you are the bridge that connects the most random ideas in the room.

cancer rising the world sees a closed door and a soft light behind it. you project an aura of safety and nostalgia that makes everyone else feel like a guest in your private world. you look like a pair that prioritizes the kitchen table over the public performance and your together carries a fierce grit that only comes out when someone messes with the people you claim. you are the emotional security that everyone else secretly wishes they had.

leo rising you look like the lead characters in a story that finally has enough light. there is a natural warmth and a sense of pride in your pair that makes everyone else want to stand a little closer just to catch the heat. your reputation is built on generosity and creative fire and you aren't meant to be the background music. your together serves as a reminder to the crowd that it is actually okay to shine and to be proud of your heart.

virgo rising you are the ones who actually know what is going on while everyone else is fumbling through the mess. the world sees your competence and the quiet way you fix the plumbing of reality for the people you love. you project an image of order and reliability and people look to you when they need a plan that actually works. you find your peace in the details and your together feels like a well oiled machine that nobody can replace.

libra rising grace is your default setting as a unit. you move through reality like a piece of music that refuses to hit a wrong note always looking for the bridge between conflicting worlds. people see the balance and the beauty you create just by existing in the same space. your together is a masterpiece of social intelligence and you show the rest of us that being kind and fair is actually the most sophisticated form of power.

scorpio rising people sense the secret before you even open your mouth to say hello. you carry a private intensity that tells the world you have survived the fire and decided to stay in the ashes until the truth was found. small talk dies when you arrive. you look like a total soul merger and a ride or die alliance that finds its greatest strength in the parts of life everyone else is too afraid to look at.

sagittarius rising the relationship carries an exit sign in its eyes and a big idea to follow. the world sees you as the travelers and the truth seekers who refuse to stay in one mental zip code for too long. you look like a constant adventure with no final destination. people see your blunt honesty and your big laughs and they realize that your together is much larger than the rules of the neighborhood or the social script.

capricorn rising you possess a backbone made of iron. people see the integrity and the heavy ambition in your pair long before they ever see your heart. you look like the adults in the room building a legacy that will still be standing when all the temporary trends have already faded away. your together is built for the long game and the slow disciplined climb toward a peak that belongs only to you.

aquarius rising you are the brilliant glitches in the social machine. your relationship looks like a radical friendship that refuses to follow the traditional rules of possession. the crowd sees the outsiders and the geniuses who speak a language nobody else remembers how to translate. your together is based on total freedom and original thoughts. you find your peace in the fact that you don't fit in and the world is better for it.

pisces rising the boundaries of your together are made of smoke and music. people look at you and feel as though they are seeing a dream they havent quite woken up from yet. you carry an ethereal quality that suggests everything is connected by invisible threads. you are the secret healers of the crowd picking up on the hidden moods of the world and reminding us all that magic is still a real thing.

𓆱 when the composite rising lands in your natal houses 𓆱

if the relationship's rising sign falls in your 1st house this bond feels like an extension of your own skin. being part of this pair makes you feel more like yourself than you ever did alone. you find your power when you realize that the relationship isn't changing you; it is just revealing the person you were always meant to be.

if the relationship's rising sign falls in your 2nd house being with this person changes what you think you are worth. you find yourself focusing on your bank account and the quality of your world with a level of grit you didn't have before. the relationship makes you want to build a fortress of self respect and solid ground.

if the relationship's rising sign falls in your 3rd house you think faster and talk more when you are with them. the bond acts like a radio station in your head always giving you something new to learn or share. you find your clarity in the neighborhood gossip and the constant exchange of data that happens when you are a pair.

if the relationship's rising sign falls in your 4th house this person is your actual home. the connection makes you want to lock the door and retreat into the quiet of your own sanctuary. being with them heals your roots and gives you the emotional foundation you’ve been looking for since you were a child.

if the relationship's rising sign falls in your 5th house the bond feels like a permanent vacation or a creative explosion. you stop being the serious adult and you start playing again. being together is a walking celebration and you find your joy in the sparks and the romance that never seems to run out of fuel.

if the relationship's rising sign falls in your 6th house you get extremely organized and focused on the work of being alive. the relationship makes you want to refine your routine and take better care of your machine. you find your peace in being useful to each other and making the world run a bit smoother through your joint effort.

if the relationship's rising sign falls in your 7th house the "i" completely disappears and the "we" becomes your only reality. you might become obsessed with the balance of the pair and you find your reflection entirely in their eyes. you are learning the art of the bridge and realizing that you were never meant to walk alone.

if the relationship's rising sign falls in your 8th house this bond is a total soul transformation that you cannot escape. it forces you to face your deepest fears and the secrets you’ve been guarding for decades. you are being rewritten at a cellular level and you find your power only after the old version of you has burned away.

if the relationship's rising sign falls in your 9th house being with them makes you want to pack a bag and leave your current life behind. the connection expands your horizon and gives you a big idea to follow. you find your luck in the long trips and the pursuit of a truth that is much larger than your current zip code.

if the relationship's rising sign falls in your 10th house the relationship changes your reputation and the mark you want to leave on the world. you feel a heavy sense of mission when you are with them and people naturally see you as a more authoritative figure. you are building a public legacy together that actually matters.

if the relationship's rising sign falls in your 11th house you find your tribe through this connection and your focus shifts to the future. the bond makes you realize that your individual light belongs to the group and you find your joy in the social movements and the friendships that you build as a pair.

I have had my fair share of Libra Mars masculine's, three significant connections had this particular placement. I will try to be as honest and diplomatic as possible regarding "my" experience and "my" truth when it comes to this energy. Mars in a feminine natal chart is the type of men she is physically attracted to because Mars (Aries) rules the 1st house (Ascendant) of self and the physical body. Venus in a masculine's natal chart is the type of woman he could see himself settling down with, as Venus (Libra) rules 7th house of partnerships. I mention Venus because Libra is ruled by Venus the planet of love, romance, and money (Taurus, 2nd House). When Libra is in Mars it is in detriment, as Libra is about diplomacy and fairness. They would rather keep the peace and like to be seen as the "good guys", so public displays of aggression, anger or seeming to be not in control of their emotions is out of the question. Mars in Libra masculine's tend to have a hard time with confrontation and are uncomfortable with heavy emotion, and sometimes takes a passive aggressive approach in conflict. They hide their true feelings and tend to be avoidant when issues arise, they run and ghost and will sometimes gas light. They will shut down on you and get cold when confronted. Since they are also uncomfortable speaking up and asserting themselves in connections, they tend to attract partners who are overly assertive, disrespectful and tend to take advantage of them. Although this bothers them they do not speak up so the disrespect continues. They would rather sulk and complain to their friends and family about how unfair they are being treated than to confront their partner. For this reason most not all Libra Mars masculine's abuse some kind of substance, be it alcohol or recreational drugs, as this helps them to be more assertive and or deal with the discomfort of being disrespected. Libra Mars men also tend to over think which results in them not taking action when it is necessary, with Libra being an Air sign this is not uncommon as Libra Sun, Moon and Mercury have the same issue. Especially Libra in Mercury. Because Libra is ruled by Venus it's home sign. The Libra Mars masculine is very much in his feminine energy and likes to be chased and courted. Not all. They do not and will not admit this, but they secretly do. Some of them will take action if they have a strong Sun and or Venus but most of the times when interested in a feminine they will stalk, gawk, swoon and daydream over her for weeks, months, even years before they take any action toward her, especially if she is out of his league or intimidating. Although he is magnetically attracted to this energy. They are so unsure of themselves and insecure that they talk themselves out of approaching her for fear of rejection so usually she would have to give some kind of signal of interest before they make a move. Because the woman takes initiative from the start, this energy continues in the connection. Depending on her Mars placement she may take on the masculine energy in the connection, making the plans, as well as initiating physical and verbal contact. Libra Mars men are not assertive when it comes to initiating physical contact with their feminine they prefer to let her make the first move, even though they may be magnetically attracted to her and find her irresistible. As a result their feminine counterpart may lose interest, feel like they are not interested in them physically or think the Libra Mars masculine does not find them attractive. Their lack of assertive energy and confidence in decision making or taking action may activate a feminine's masculine energy and or frustrate her. A masculine's Mars energy is connected to his Root Chakra (Muladhara) which is Fire energy. When your root chakra is not balanced or out of alignment you lack confidence, grounding and inability to take action. Because of the Venus and Air energy Libra Mars masculine's can appear indecisive and skittish. They would benefit from regular meditation, breathwork and subliminal affirmations.

Stay Lifted,

Madison ❤️

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mental and emotional telepathy in connections

No matter the nature of your connection be it negative or positive all connections are spiritual. And telepathic connections are not reserved for “soul mates” or “twin flames”. You can have a psychic bond in a highly toxic relation or situationship as well. When one or both people deem the connection as casual or expendable and there is a ethereal or telepathic link between them it can make things …well…complicated and confusing, especially with Neptune (12th House) the planet of illusions, delusions and all things spiritual as well as the subconscious mind in the mix. This person can invade your aura and your dreams, and can linger in your energy for months or years even after the connection has ended. As the energy transcends time and space, especially if it is a past life connection. This can be daunting and disturbing for Individuals who would like nothing more than to move on. But unfortunately that is not how connections and energy works. Most of these connections be it toxic or otherwise can be energetically draining and can take a toll on the subconscious mind and emotions. For empaths who do not know they are empaths or do not protect or cleanse their energy on a regular basis these connections can be especially taxing on the mind, body and spirit. These connections are also called “Soul Ties”, because they are so intricate and the energy is so intertwined and hard to break away from, this is by design. The universe makes no mistakes, these aspects are there for a reason, and the reason is so you can’t move on. At least not until the lesson is learned or karmic contract you both made in the ethers is complete. Look at the North Node, Saturn, Vertex, house placements for more details. When I say telepathic link I am not talking about literally being able to read each others mind or hear the other person’s voice in your head, although I am not saying that is impossible. But there is just an intuitive knowing, and energetic resonance between you. It could be emotional (Moon) it could be subconscious (Neptune) it could be mental (Mercury). You can be thinking about them and they call, or be so emotionally intwined that their emotional pain is felt even from miles away. They can speak to you through songs. You can know when they are being dishonest and when they are being sincere. There could also be a lot of mirroring in these connections, where your person is reflecting your inner light or dark energy, emotions and or reactions back to you. On rare occasions two individuals may share similar house placements and may experience the same transits simultaneously, this would put them somewhat on the same time line of having similar experiences and having to learn the same lessons. If the connection is somewhat positive these are beautiful aspects to have, as it cultivates vulnerability, empathy and unconditional love between two individuals. Neptune/Pluto aspects can be great for tantric and manifestation techniques. Here are some of the aspects to look for in your synastry chart.

Ascendant trine/conjunct Moon

Sun trine/conjunct Neptune

Mercury trine/conjunct Neptune

Moon trine/conjunct Neptune

Moon in the 3rd house synastry

Neptune trine/conjunct Pluto

Neptune in the 3rd house synastry

Neptune in 12th house synastry

Mercury in the 3rd house synastry

Mercury in the 12th house synastry

Neptune trine/conjunct North Node

North Node in the 12th house synastry/composite

Moon trine/conjunct Psyche

Neptune trine/conjunct Psyche

Mercury trine/conjunct Psyche

P.S. These aspects can be felt strongly up to 3 orb with maximum 5 orb, but the closer the orb the stronger the energy will be felt. If you or your partner have any of these aspects natally it will intensity to energy. For house synastry aspects it will be the house person alone that will feel the energy.

Stay Lifted,

Madison 🐦‍🔥

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12th House Synastry Observations 🌊

scorpio placements are obsessed with eyes, if you want to impress them just wear a dark eyeshadow look, with some liner and there ya go 😭

No but seriously if theres one thing that catches their attention its the eyes!

Virgo mars men are very picky peopleeee, depending on where mars falls in their chart shows were they're super critical of. They have really nice hands, and most of them work with their hands/a hobby of theirs. ex- playing guitar or cooking

one capricorn placement in the birth chart can really change the whole persons demeanor, especially if its in the big 3.

taurus and scorpio go together so well that it feels like your interrupting their conversation or feel like a third wheel when your in a group with them lmao. ( my taurus rising make this easier for me, still hard tho😭)

pisces placements are seen in the arts, they need an outlet for their dreams, they adore music!

so many ppl talk about Saturn- personal planets in synastry means longevity, but in all honesty I’ve noticed these people just give us a lesson on that said planet and leave.

I will admit it is hard to get completely away from them in a mental aspect( you always get reminded of them when it comes to other relationships, bcs it’s ultimately karmic!)

lilith- personal planet aspects and the witch allegations… IM EXHAUSTED LMAO

your fav music artist either has the same rising as you or personal planets in your 1st house/ same personal planets as you. If u wanna go to a deeper level they can fall into your 8th house, the ones you hear when going thru some tuff stuff.

the ppl that are prob gonna do u the dirtiest are in your 7th/ 8th house.

piggy backing on that so many ppl say that envy is found with venus 1st house synastry, but in all honesty venus 8th house takes the cake 100%

I noticed when this synastry manifests negatively ppl will take advantage of your generosity/ keep what’s yours. (The house of give and take, but mostly take…)

ppl will say that you guys look alike when in all actuality you don’t, toxic comparison , weird compliments (“im so jealousss of your clear skin”) like what? lmao

7th house synastry always results in the lovers to enemies trope. It sucks bcs these people can feel like your other half, but once they do u dirty is horrible. (is this just my scorpio 7th house u guys 😔😭💔💔💔💔)

Mars in 4th can give a spouse who would do anything to "claim" you as theirs. At worse, domestic violence and at best, a slightly possessive + passionate lover.

Venus in 7th can give a spouse who is self-obsessed to an extent, depending on the sign. They love themselves so much that they sometimes forget to see others, making partners feel invisible in the relationship.

Mercury (rx or not) in 12th can point to a spouse whose feelings towards you are as deep as the Mariana Trench but won't show it always. They just expect you to understand.

Any retrograde planet in the 7th house points to a spouse who will approach you.

Having 6th lord in the 7th, you may not like your spouse early on or they may not like you or see you as a partner early on. A spouse who is either your best partner or your worst enemy. Divorce with this placement can be SOOOO HARD - financial losses.

Having 8th lord in 7th is literally your spouse is your "face your fears". You can't hide from them and can do no wrong in their eyes. They will eventually find out. Either your biggest protector or the ultimate betrayer.

Having 1st lord in 7th house -> spouse is the center of your world, or you may think so that way once meeting them. You can become clingy too.

Mars in 6th can give you a sexually frustrated spouse. They can have stress related physical illnesses.

Sun in 12th can make you meet a spouse when they are thru a depressive phase in their life/ rock-bottom.

Moon in 12th can make your spouse super-devoted and the one who understand you without you telling a word to them. But also overanalyzes everything you say.

Jupiter in Gemini or Aquarius can point to attraction towards both men and women or LBGTQIA+ in general 7/10 times.

11th lord in 7th -> spouse is your wish come true but also if afflicted, basically your "be careful of what you wish for!"

their sun in your 1st house standing in your orbit feels like the first day of spring after a very long and grey winter. they look at you and the lights finally turn on because you embody the energy and the courage they have been trying to find within themselves for years. they wish they met you sooner because you give them the nerve to actually exist and your belief in them acts as a fire that keeps their own spirit from getting cold.

their moon in your 1st house this is the ultimate psychic homecoming. they pick up on the hidden rhythm of your heart before you even open your mouth and they feel as though they have known your face for a thousand years. there is zero emotional privacy between you and they wish they knew you back when they were at their loneliest. you carry the emotional scent of a sanctuary and they find their peace just by watching the way you move through the world.

their mercury in your 1st house you are the only person who actually hears the things they aren't saying. conversations between you feel like a high speed connection that never hits a dead end. they wish they met you sooner because you are the only one who doesn't ask them to translate their thoughts into a foreign language. you connect the dots in their head and they find their clarity in your voice and the way you listen to the static in their mind.

their venus in your 1st house they look at you and they see a masterpiece they have been trying to find in every song and every painting they ever loved. for them your presence is a sensory gift and they are addicted to the harmony you bring to their reality. they wish they had found you years ago because you show them that love can be a beautiful and tangible thing instead of just a difficult struggle. you are the aesthetic of their heart and they find their value through the way you look at them.

their mars in your 1st house you are a literal jolt of adrenaline for their spirit. there is a sharp and immediate edge to the way they feel when they are around you and you trigger a raw hunger for life that they had buried under layers of social rules. they wish they knew you when they were feeling stuck because your presence gives them the spark to finally move. it is a high stakes bond where they want to fight with you and for you and eventually merge their entire drive with yours.

their jupiter in your 1st house meeting you feels like a lucky break that the universe had been planning for a decade. they look at you and the world suddenly feels massive and full of possibilities again. they wish they had found you sooner because you are the one who reminds them how to take a leap of faith and how to trust the road ahead. you expand their definition of what is possible and your optimism acts as a lighthouse that guides them out of their own small minded worries.

their saturn in your 1st house a heavy weight of integrity settles in the room when you are together. they look at you and they realize they have finally found the solid ground they were searching for in everyone else. they wish they knew you sooner because you are the adult in the room and your weight makes them feel safe in a world of shifting sand. you bring structure to their life and they respect your grit because it matches the backbone they’ve been trying to build.

their uranus in your 1st house you are the lightning bolt that hits their social system and rewrites all their rules. they look at you and they realize that normal is just a lack of imagination. they wish they had found you back when they were trying so hard to fit in because you are the one who gives them permission to be completely strange and undeniably free. your presence is a sudden update to their soul’s software and they find their identity through your weirdness.

their neptune in your 1st house the boundaries between you are made of smoke and music. they look at you and they feel as though they are seeing a dream they haven't quite woken up from yet. you carry an ethereal quality that makes the physical world feel a bit too loud and they wish they knew you when the reality of life was getting too harsh to handle. you are the secret poetry they have been trying to read and they find their spirit through the blurry beauty of your connection.

their pluto in your 1st house standing near you feels like a total soul transformation that they cannot escape. they wish they met you sooner because they were busy playing in the shallows while you were the only one brave enough to lead them into the deep end. you trigger total annihilations followed by magnificent rebirths and they find their real power only after you have forced them to face the raw truth. you own the deed to their shadows and they stay obsessed because you are the only one who isn't afraid of their fire.

their north node in your 1st house your arrival is a signal that the universe is done waiting for them to move toward their future. they look at you and they see a map leading directly to the person they were born to become. every interaction feels fated and they wish they met you years ago because they spent so much time running away from the very path you are currently standing on. you are the catalyst for their soul’s mission and meeting you is the point of no return.

their south node in your 1st house the silence between you feels centuries old and heavy with unsaid history. being with you feels like revisiting a room they haven't entered in a different lifetime. they wish they knew you sooner in this life because they’ve been carrying a debt and a memory that only you could understand. you share a hidden baggage that needs no explanation and they find their peace in the realization that they finally found a piece of themselves that was lost long ago.

their chiron in your 1st house you put your finger directly on the spot that still stings when they breathe. they wish they had found you back when they were hurting the most because your presence is the only medicine that doesn't ask for a reason. you see the shame and the outsider feeling they’ve been hiding and you show them that their scars are actually their most beautiful features. you teach them how to be kind to their own shadows and they find their healing through the mirror you provide.

This is for my girlies, gays, they & thems! Your Rising Sign determines the type of person who can't get over you.

We look at the Descendant (the sign opposite your rising sign) to see who is subconsciously drawn to you to complete themselves. You are their "Shadow Work" in human form, hence why the obsession is so hard for them to break. The reason why your Rising Sign matters is because it determines the sign + planets in your 7H, aka your romantic connections & partners (including exes). You embody what they lack, that's why they can't let you go.

❤️♈️ARIES: The person who cannot get over you is probably a Libra placement. They’re charming, indecisive & probably still talking about you to their friends. These people are usually in the arts, fashion, law or customer-led fields. They could be a designer, lawyer, stylist, etc.

💋♉TAURUS: This is someone jealous & devoted, a karmic lover, banker, investor, crisis worker, the f-boy type with dark features & piercing eyes. What draws them in is that you represent everything they secretly want (stability, beauty, peace) and everything their nature makes it hard for them to keep.

💌♊GEMINI: You attract tall, athletic & opinionated individuals. Sagittarius placements specifically. They could be a student, traveler, life coach, counselor, lawyer, coach, or just a free-spirit. They thought they could pin you down, but they NEVER could (unless you say so).

❣️♋️CANCER: The people who NEVER fully get over you are usually older than you. They’re emotionally guarded & never lose their composure. This could be a boss, manager, engineer, somebody self-made or a Capricorn.

🍒♌LEO: Aquarius placements are the ones who walk away from you & then spend years trying to replace what that felt like. They could have androgynous features, or they might be the intellectual type, a gamer, nerdy, observant, a rational personality, or intellectual.

🩸♍️VIRGO: The people who can’t get you out of their mind are artists, religious or spiritual types, dancers, nurses or Pisces placements. You were the first person who ever made them feel truly seen. They probably still have the notes you left them, or the things you fixed for them.

❤️‍🔥♎LIBRA: Aries or Mars-dominant people can’t get over you. They could be the hot-headed type, muscular, with a dominant personality. Maybe they’re an entrepreneur, in the military, a boxer or athlete.

🌹♏️SCORPIO: People with Taurus placements crave your energy so bad! They could be a cook, musician, banker, investor or a stubborn person who loves beautiful things & refuses to admit how much they feel.

🍓♐️SAGITTARIUS: You attract people who are younger than you & they can’t get over your energy because you constantly stimulate their mind. They have prominent Gemini placements, and they could be a student, writer, interpreter, podcaster, or they might have a twin.

🍷♑CAPRICORN: It's the Cancer placements who never truly move on from you. This person could be moody & protective, family-oriented, clingy, or soft-hearted. They could be a chef, therapist, nurse, a stay-at-home parent, historian or anyone who builds their whole life around caring for something.

💄♒️AQUARIUS: Leo placements are the ones who can't stop thinking about you, which is interesting because they will absolutely never admit it. These are the performers, creatives, actors, musicians, influencers, CEOs, anyone who needs to be the center of something! What threw them off about you, is that you didn't need anything from them. You saw through them & accepted them for who they really were.

🎈♓PISCES: The person who can’t forget you could be a doctor, accountant, researcher, technician, nurse, writer, somebody pragmatic & observant, or quite reserved. Virgo placements (especially the introverts) can’t get enough of your energy. They probably still think about you when something unexplainably beautiful happens & they can't find the rational reason why.

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✮Neptune in Aries can create a powerful, idealistic drive to fight for a collective dream, blending spiritual passion with an independent, pioneering spirit.

✮When the ruler of the 9th house sits in the 10th house, professional success and career recognition are often achieved through higher education, law, publishing, or long-distance travel.

✮Sun in Gemini brings a restless, adaptable intellect that thrives on variety, intellectual stimulation, and the constant gathering of news, trivia, and ideas.

✮If the lord of the 4th house is placed in the 2nd house, a person's family background or real estate investments often play a direct role in building their personal wealth and financial security.

✮Mars in Libra can cause hesitation or passive-aggressive tendencies as the drive for action is constantly weighed against the desire to maintain social harmony and peace.

✮Having the ruler of the 7th house reside in the 11th house frequently indicates that a romantic partner will be met through a network of mutual friends or a shared community organization.

✮Venus in Capricorn approaches romance with a highly practical, cautious mindset, preferring stable, long-term commitments and people who show ambition and emotional maturity.

✮When the lord of the 8th house is positioned in the 12th house, psychic sensitivity, subconscious fears, and psychological transformations happen deeply in private, often away from the public eye.

✮Mercury in Taurus gives a deliberate, pragmatic way of thinking, where ideas are processed slowly but retained permanently, focusing heavily on practical results.

✮If the ruler of the 3rd house ends up in the 5th house, a person's everyday thoughts, writing, and communication style naturally gravitate toward creative hobbies, romance, or entertainment.

✮Moon in Leo creates a deep psychological need for appreciation, creative validation, and a desire to be the emotional anchor or celebrated center of a family dynamic.

✮When the ruler of the 6th house sits in the 10th house, daily work routines, problem-solving skills, or dealing with health and service sectors often directly shape a person's public career and reputation.

✮Jupiter in Cancer brings immense emotional wisdom, expanding personal luck and opportunities through nurturing others, home-centered businesses, or real estate.

✮If the lord of the 1st house is placed in the 9th house, the entire life path is driven by a quest for truth, often leading to extensive overseas travel, higher education, or philosophical exploration.

✮Venus in Scorpio expresses love through profound, all-or-nothing emotional bonds, craving psychological intimacy while fiercely guarding the relationship from outside interference.

✮Having the ruler of the 5th house reside in the 2nd house means that a person's creative talents, artistic hobbies, or speculative investments can become a primary source of personal income.

✮Saturn in Libra tests interpersonal dynamics, forcing the individual to learn hard lessons about boundaries, compromise, and fairness within committed legal or business partnerships.

✮When the lord of the 12th house is positioned in the 4th house, there can be a deeply private, hidden, or mystical atmosphere within the home, or a tendency to seek complete solitude away from family dynamics.

✮Mercury in Sagittarius thinks in broad, visionary brushstrokes, focusing heavily on the big picture and belief systems, though sometimes overlooking vital small details.

✮If the ruler of the 7th house ends up in the 1st house, partnerships are central to the self-image, and the person often attracts partners who take the lead or deeply mirror their own personality traits.

♱ the first house is the house of self, how you interact with the world, how you interest other people amongst more themes of the first house that completes the elements of self-respect, self-belief and confidence.

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❦ ARIES IN THE FIRST HOUSE ⟶ this placement shows that you're someone who likes to prove yourself that you can become better but this can unintentionally play out into you being someone who needs to prove your existence to other people. individuals already feel your fire, you dont need to dim it for the comfort of other people but remember to not burn other people because you'll end up burning yourself. to have Aries here shows that you naturally exude a confidence and a "sexiness" that makes you appealing for other people who want to insert themselves into your life, you are someone who is impatient with people likely due to this, you want peoples intentions or you want them out of your life.

❦ TAURUS IN THE FIRST HOUSE ⟶ to have this sign in your first house means that you're someone who is considered as very grounded or private but people can feel that there's a side of beauty that you keep to yourself. this indicates that you might meet people who want to continously steal your attention. to have Taurus in the Ascendant entails that you are someone who is considered very beautiful or someone who is adjusted with their path, on the other hand with how you interact with life, people underdeveloped could be stubborn when it comes to learning from their mistakes. you're someone who could want to have control over your life because you're scared about what relaxing could do to you. confidence is a gift for you guys, what you value and what you priotise is very important for people with this placement.

❦ GEMINI IN THE FIRST HOUSE ⟶ you interact with curiosity and as a student who wants to learn many things yet this can reflect into you being someone who attracts curious people or individuals who speak about you 24/7. this placement is an indicator of popularity or someone who has a very active mind that needs to be expressed through a medium of creativity or physical relief. like exercising...jogging. this placement means that you're someone who could try to see the world as half full rather empty, perceiving life through joy and opportunity rather than dead ends and terrible outcomes. you interest other people because you're willing to think out of the box but also be agreeable this makes people feel like they can be comfortable with you.

❦ CANCER IN THE FIRST HOUSE ⟶ this placement shows that you're someone who other people feel like they are entitled to since you automatically bring an aura of comfort. you're like the light in darkness for other people and this unfortunately can bring moths. on the brighter side, this lunarian placement shows that if you focus you can light your own path in darkness. an anchor that never moves but remains where your eyes follow, you need to remember that you're allowed to express deepest desires without feeling ashamed or selfish. you interest people because of the all-knowing grace you have, like when others are speaking to you, you look at them as if you know what they're about to say, this makes them more engaged with you but also curious to what makes you in touch with a strangers' emotion.

❦ LEO IN THE FIRST HOUSE ⟶ the original fame placement, the one that is "destined" to have you known for something. to have this placement is to learn how to display your pride, your confidence and your ego like they're playing cards, since you're naturally competitive you might feel the need to one-up people to make a statement about your place and how far you are in life and your career. to have this in your chart means that by other people you are seen as assured, brewing for something that is bigger than you and almost bigger than everyone else in the room, you are seen as someone to follow or as someone who is following their own rules without the attestation and approval of the next person. respecting your destiny is a fuel for your confidence, you are the star of the show not your jealousy, you are the star of the show not the person who tries to control how you display and love yourself. Leo being in your First House insinuates that you are naturally romantic, you can give attention to other people but you want to feel like you're nurtured the way you nurture other people.

❦ VIRGO IN THE FIRST HOUSE ⟶ to have this rising sign means that you often come across people who immediately consider you as their fixer, the one who is responsible to problem solve situations you've had no interaction with. this rising sign makes people stare, its the immediately analysed and scrutinised sign, the sign that makes other people feel like they're not enough so people try to mirror a competitive analysis reaction because your eyes pierce through them and automatically make them feel all the things they havent been able to do for themselves. even if you're someone who is not as successful as you might want to be currently, there's still something about your existence that make people feel like they have to get their act together. with how you interact with the world, you need to be someone who doesnt forget to allow happiness instead of trying to read everything, stop pausing and dissceting and just go forward with life.

❦ LIBRA IN THE FIRST HOUSE ⟶ people who have this in their ascendant might feel automatically judged by people who think they're shallow. when people see you they might consider you to be someone who sees things at face value mainly because of how well you might be socially, so people could see your social power and think it means you have no intelligence or knowledge with what you want to do in your future. you are someone who sees things with love, you're someone who interacts with life with attempting to balance your emotions and goals you've set for yourself. you're the type of person who needs to remember that you can achieve success and also pamper yourself. dont give into what people expect you to be because you'll always follow that, remember that you're beautiful in your heart and in your soul.

❦ SCORPIO IN THE FIRST HOUSE ⟶ people fear this ascendant as usually it brings description of pain, intensity and obsession but that's usually for the people who dont know how to direct their strong feelings and ambitions towards something that is actually practical and useful for their life and future. this sign in the Ascendant speaks of influence, either being somone who is easily influenced or influential, you need to stop fearing how you'll be seen in your true skin. its okay to rebel and not play with the rules and paint your own story. this placement entails that there is a possibility that people do get obsessed with you so it could be annoying interacting with new people as they could become intensely infatuated or intensely possessive.

❦ SAGITTARIUS IN THE FIRST HOUSE ⟶ this is an interesting home because it is discussed as the home of luck but it makes people misinterpret the idea of luck. you need to figure out what your luck is because there's validation of understanding where the unvierse is going to take you but you also have to be someone who is in control of the reigns so the wind knows where to take you. stereotypically, it is said that Sagittarius in the Ascendant means to other people you come across as larger than life, and it is true. due to that, it could manifest into people being intimidated by your presence because you feel vast to them, as if you come across as someone who knows where they're going. this placement means that confidence is important to these individuals but also not falling into a slob is a warning. dont get too comfortable to the point that you dont look at other important things in your life like you did in the beginning. as this sign is Jupiterian it implies that people naturally see you in a Divine/high pedestal light even if you dont want it.

❦ CAPRICORN IN THE FIRST HOUSE ⟶ learn how to have fun if you don't know how to but this aspect also tells you to learn how to not suck out the fun out of other people because you're not comfortable in your own self-expression. there's a truth to having order and discipline in your life, but there's also discipline in the art of being free. this ascendant shows that you are someone other people easily find dependable and this can bring burden of always having to be your best due to the fact that people expect it. this placement also brings beauty and refinement, you might catch other people treating you like a piece of art or just like an object in general because involuntarily you embody the idea of a distant but wanted idea.

❦ AQUARIUS IN THE FIRST HOUSE ⟶ yes you will continue feeling like the odd one out if you're not going to go to places you're not celebrated. there's no point of acting moody if you're not going to do anything about your environment and your self-power. this placement entails that other people tend to treat you like you're different and this could be something that throws you off, throughout your life you spent time trying to understand why you cant follow the same beat as everyone else but there's something that pulls in your tug that asks you to take a leap for your freedom and your happiness. interact with life with your uniqueness, allow life to surprise you.

❦ PISCES IN THE FIRST HOUSE ⟶ this is a beautiful ascendant placement because it means you see and feel things others cannot but this could also mean that you are misunderstood by others. your intuition, your distant knowing makes you ahead of other people and this makes them feel like they're not on your level and due to them thinking that there could be this need to continously tear you down no matter how much you prove yourself to other people. this cycle makes you someone who turns from within and dissociates, but similar to Aquarius in the First House means that you're someone who needs to find your own tribe becaus your community always exists. its just not by the people you expect. Pisces in the First House gives you a dreamy beauty, almost vintage and VHS, this type of allure causes people to fall into your beauty and create delusional stories to feel better about their stance with you.

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sun in the 12th house you walk through a crowd like a ghost who knows all the exits. your silence isn’t a lack of ideas but a refusal to participate in the shallow noise of the world. people feel a strange and ethereal peace around you as if your presence is a prayer they forgot the words to. you carry the unseen world in your marrow and everyone else can sense that your actual life is happening in a dimension they cannot reach. they watch you because they are trying to figure out what you see in the dark.

pluto sitting on your ascendant your silence acts like a high stakes interrogation. when you aren't talking people suddenly feel the urge to confess their secrets or over-explain their motives just to fill the void you created. your gaze is a physical touch that lands straight on the raw truth. you carry the energy of someone who has survived the fire and decided to stay in the ashes until the gold was found. they stare because they are terrified of what you might find if they stop talking and give you a chance to really look at them.

saturn in the 1st house or capricorn rising you carry the bone structure of an internal judge. people see you and they instinctively check their own integrity or straighten their clothes. your silence feels like a courtroom where the standard for being human is remarkably high. you don't have to say a word for others to feel the level of grit you expect from the world. you look like the only adult in the building and your quietness suggests a level of mastery that makes everyone else feel a bit shallow and disorganized.

moon in the 8th house you pick up on the hidden grief and the unspoken hunger of a room long before the first drink is even poured. your silence is an emotional x-ray that bypasses the polite smiles and the fake laughter. people feel exposed in your orbit because you react to the feelings they haven't even admitted to themselves yet. it is a visceral psychic awareness that makes others feel like their soul is being read like a book in a dark room. they stay quiet around you because they realize you already know how the story ends.

mercury in scorpio or the 8th house you don't listen to the words people say; you listen to the motive beneath the sentence. your silence is a deep sea dive into the parts of life everyone else is trying to ignore. people feel watched by your mind as if every lie they tell is being recorded and filed away in your internal archives for a later date. you carry the reputation of someone who knows exactly where the bodies are buried and your quietness is a reminder that you are always three steps ahead of the bullshit.

taurus on the ascendant or a heavy taurus stellium you possess an inner stillness that functions as spiritual gravity. while everyone else is vibrating with the burnout and the anxiety of the modern world you are the anchor that refuses to move. your silence feels like a sun-baked stone or a heavy blanket on a cold night. people sit next to you and their own heart rate drops because you carry the rhythm of solid ground. your refusal to be hurried or pressured into a conversation is your most powerful boundary.

a personal planet at the 29th degree you carry the heavy energy of a veteran who has already finished the game and is just waiting for the next one to start. there is a quiet and weary wisdom in your eyes that makes everyone else look like a child. your silence suggests that you have already seen every ending and every victory lifetimes ago. you don't feel the need to argue or prove your point because your presence implies you already won the war before the rest of the room even learned how to walk.

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FIRE MC (aries, sagittarius, leo)

you influence people by your leadership, your boldness, or even just your being. the world see's how you move without stopping for others, and it inspires them. its important that you use your originality so people know who YOU are. you are here to START something, or be the first in something. people already may see you as someone with raw and authentic personality because your say what you want to, do what to want to, and act how you want to. take pride in that! you influence people to be more brave, confident, and take more leadership in their lives. NO catering.

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EARTH MC (taurus, capricorn, virgo)

your influence is your structure, ambition, and your standards. stability is your self-care. the way you dont stop pursuing your goals no matter how long it takes inspires others. you could be someone others look up to. people think you must be a witch or something the way you manifest things, when in reality, 6 months ago you a perfectly curated a plan for how you were gonna get what you want. nothing comes easy. it's all long term planning. you influence people to think ahead and get serious about what they want in their life.

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AIR SIGN (gemini, libra, aquarius)

your influence is your adaptability, open-mindedness, and way with words. you're never too scared to switch things up. you're easily able to influence the masses because something about you is ... different. people automatically notice the way you look, talk, or act because its out of the ordinary. for example, people might get inspired by how smart and intellectual you are(gemini), how diplomatic and likeable you are (libra), or how unique and rebellious you are. (aquarius). either way, you STAND OUT, while simultaneously bringing the world together. they look at you and think "i can do it too!". you influence people by being you and making room for others to be themselves!

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WATER MC (scorpio, pisces, cancer)