peak apathy

sir that is my beloved mutual with whom i have not shared a fandom since 2013

Don't get sucked into the "if they really cared I wouldn't have to say something" spiral. No matter how close you are with someone, it's unfair to expect them to know things you haven't actually communicated.

One of my favourite things in the world is casual intimacy. A small hand on your back when you're in crowded streets. A gentle kick from where they're sitting across the table. A head on the shoulder, a hand in your hand, a squeeze on the arm as they're walking past you. And I think maybe love isn't made up of grand gestures or explosive displays, but it's made up of the little things. The little things that say I'm here and I care for you and that your life has intertwined so deeply into mine that there's no need to think, because casual intimacy comes easy.

“it’s so funny how you remember that” i remember Everything. unless i forget