I loved ur post about Samina n Tafdaar. It's so inspiring that there're sisters out there refusing to settle. And with husbands that allow them to have fun outside marriage! Why can't my husband be like that? He's so jealous and posessive. I used to find it endearing and attractive quality but now I see it's all just about controlling me. Do men change? Can they be persuaded to accept open marriage? I love him but tired of constantly feeling like I'm missing out. I feel bad for wanting more
Men can change babe and just because he's the jealous sort doesnt mean he wont be excited about seeing you with other men. But I'll be honest with you, these kind of men can be very volatile - because when you're with another man, they'll struggle to cope with not being in control. The moment you do something they dont like, they flip out and make it uncomfortable for everyone.
I'm going to bet that he likes you to dress up for him when you go out, right? short skirts, tight tops? He likes to show you off because for him you're a trophy. And he wants to impress other men by showing them you belong to him.
I dont like those kinds of men but I wont say any more because he's your husband and it's not for me to comment about that. Just to say that if you want to meet other men, you're going to have to be careful how you introduce the idea to him, as well as how you go about planning your meetups. I know sisters who had success with persuading their husbands - but most often it never happens and you'll have to accept that the lifestyle is not an option for you both.
You could try and watch porn together but make it clear that the only ones you want to watch are where there's 2 men and 1 woman. Start introducing him to the idea that way.
















