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You must monitor how much of yourself you allow men or people in general to have. You are special. Important. Busy.

You must teach people to cherish every moment that they have with you because it may very well may be their last.

I’ve decided to do this thing where I don’t respond to people when I don’t want to. It’s refreshing. Say something I don’t like and I’ll just leave you there to talk to yourself.

I really freaking hate it when men who are undeserving try and tell me what to do. It makes me so sick. “Call me later.” 🙄

Spending hours on end with a man on Facetime = Waste of Time.

Texting men for hours on end = Waste of Time

Keep it short and sweet. 30 minutes every so often when you’re not busy and have some time to kill. Ensure you look cute. You should aspire to look cute all the time really. Even in your lounge and home wear. Being comfortable does not equate to being unpresentable. But that’s a post for a different day. 

Guard how much access people have to you. It increases your value. Quit uselessly texting. Increase your response time. See how these men line up real quick to treat you better. 

Now it’s no longer “Call me later.” It’s “ If you’re free and have time to talk, can I call you?”

When I don’t get a timely response its: “ I’m so so sorry I forgot to respond.” That message got sent twice. 

I had a man I was texting. I got bored, and instead went on live with a friend. He joined the live. I finished my live and went to sleep. I got a 2 am text from him asking me if he’s done anything wrong and apologizing.

That man is a teacher. He’s supposed to sleep early lol. 

Don’t let just any man be able to get your attention or time. 

ねこ‏ @shimamike0814