Confessions of an Angry Black Woman

Never accept anyone’s version of love for you. No one should tell you how you deserve to be loved. You have your own love language and the person willing to give you that... meet your needs and wants... is the person deserving of you... not the other way around... It cost you nothing to value yourself but you do gain when you do! #selflove #alonetogether #deserving #beyonce #cardib #taylorswift #lovelanguage #love #language

Sometimes you tell yourself over and over I’m going to be ok or I’m trying to be ok and you look up one day and you realize I AM OK.... I am a firm believer in faith brings out the best in you! Through this journey I have realized that I was ok with being ok.. Well now I want to be great!! I want to feel great!! Through my faith that is what I’m going to keep believing; I am happy and feel great inside until one day I look up and I actually feel the way I want to. Nothing is too much for God and because of that I know he has given me the power for nothing to be too much for me! Heart ache is sad, pain can cause so much damage but will power and belief is stronger... I choose me, happiness, joy, peace and love! #selflove #selfrespect #selfcare #selfmotivation #Godlike #Godslove #beyonce #nicki #cardib #arianagrande

Over the years I have fought for things and believed I wasn’t the only one fighting. Until I got hit with the harsh reality that the whole time I was fighting I was by myself. I was going so hard I failed to realize my opponent stopped moving a long time ago. I was so wrapped up in my world this boxing ring that I was not paying attention to my opponent sitting on the side lines watching waiting for me to fail, fall, get tired, or worse loose the fight. Sometimes you have to realize you can’t win a fight if your the only one fighting. Sometimes its not about fighting anymore it’s about stopping looking at yourself and working on the craft (yourself) until your opponent is ready to fight and if that never happens it’s ok because you were so preoccupied with working on your craft you can now feel free enough to make the decision on what’s best for you. Sometimes not fighting is the best thing for both opponents. Sometimes you realize that becoming the best person not for someone else but for you is what is needed to have a strong foundation in a relationship. So you are no longer looking for someone to fight in the ring with you because now you both are strong enough to be victorious with out even having to step foot in a ring.. #healing #health #happiness #selflove #rebuilding #perfectingmycraft #selfcare #Beyoncé #nickiminaj #cardib

Sometimes life throws curve balls at you... You expect one thing and get another... You pray for one thing and God reveals another... In the mist of it all stay calm... Your peace is all you have in this world and if you allow a situation to take it from you you’ll end up becoming the storm and loose yourself... STAY CALM #Godsplan #itsok #staycalm #hope #peace #beyonce #cardib #nickiminaj

When you become so consumed with the good in someone that you disregard all the signs of them doing you wrong. You have entered into love is blind... When you stop having feelings for yourself because you are so concerned about them. You have entered into love is blind... When you realize that the only person that you depend on to make you happy isn’t yourself. You have entered into love is blind.... Love is amazing and it can be a blessing but the number one thing to remember is self love. Putting you first is never wrong. The scripture says to guard your heart. Not be stone cold but be caution of what you allow people to do with your heart. How much you let them take advantage. Don’t be blinded by love because the only person that walked this earth that was perfect was Jesus.. #guard #heart #love #happiness #selflove #takingtimeforyou #beyonce #nickiminaj #cardib #lovenothate

When you are faced with a situation where you realize the one person you had so much faith I’m fails you... You realize you put too much faith in a “man” to begin with... Loving someone doesn’t mean that you care for them more than yourself it means you love them while loving yourself. But when you put so much faith in a person you forget that they can do wrong. You forget that God has the power to show you that man is man... I can’t say believe in someone is wrong but don’t let that person be the reason and the answers to your existence because then you forget about you.. God comes first in my life Then ME... ME... I have to remember ME in this process of life and love! #selflove #prayer #soulmate #energy #God #Godslove #beyonce #nickininaj #cardib

Needing someone else’s acceptance makes you do things that you would never do. If that person’s opinions are worth more than your own find a way to change your thought process. No one matters more than you when it comes to how you allow someone to make you feel. Stop allowing others to alter your thought process, your behavior and your heart. Stay true to your self because at the end of the day when you have to look yourself in the mirror... you have to account for you, you have to love yourself and you have to ACCEPT YOU THE WAY YOU ARE... even if no one else does! #selflove #acceptance #love #opinions #beyonce #rihanna #nickiminaj

Self love hits different when it doesn’t come from solicited attention. When you learn to love you for you it feels different... When you learn that self love, strength and peace all come from your bond with God and inner acceptance it hits waaay different.. I am not gaining self love from a perception tied to societal views or opposite sex validation... My love for self comes from within from a spiritual journey and a mental acceptance of me... Loving myself!!! #selflove #innerpeace #spiritual #love #beyonce #riri #cardib #nickiminaj #kimk

#blessed #love #selflove #beyonce #rihanna #nickiminaj #cardib #taylorswift #michelleobama #character #notsorry

#GODsaves #Godisstrength #selflove #burdens #beyonce #riri #nickiminaj #tamelamann #iamstrong #iamenough

Don’t allow hurt people to hurt you. Know your limits put your feelings first.. you only get one heart don’t let someone keep breaking it... healing comes from God. Allow God to mend your hurt so you don’t hurt back or other people... #selflove #love #hurt #beyonce #cardib #nickiminaj

Loving within requires just as much effort as loving others. Don't forget to prove to yourself you need LOVE TOO and actually DO IT, LOVE WITHIN.