The Reason Why I'm Cutting People Out of My Life.
Over the years, I've been surrounded with negative/toxic people. Most of them are members of my family, friends and co-workers. For the long run, I've been keeping them because that's what I've been taught when I was a child. To be good with everyone. But there are people who doesn't deserve your goodness.
The result? They take away my positivity, the suck the happiness I keep on building. I've befriended too many people who have tried to belittle me or made me doubt my capabilities. Worst? They made me question who the fuck is the real me.
According to Gestalt Theory in Psychology, "whole is something else or something different than the sum of its parts." It's the same thing about people. Only in people, the whole is less than the sum of its parts. How? You're friends with a lot of people because you don't want to be alone. But in the end you felt more alone when you are with them.
I don't want to keep people who will make me feel like I'm not even in the option. I deserve better than that. I want people who will give me positivity in life, who will make be believe in life. I want people who will choose me, completely. I want people who knows that I'm not for temporary but for a lifetime.
People accept incredibly less than they deserve. Don't keep people who will make you feel like a total shit, just because you don't realize that you are much better than them. You are not obligated to keep them.
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