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on the aromantic spectrum relating to some trauma in my adulthood

this is a side-blog ♡ please note i do post both NSFW and SFW content

INSTANT BLOCK: transphobes, minors in kink - anyone who supports minors in kink - anyone who promotes SFW petplay; ageplay; etc. for all ages: all kinks are for and between adults (18+ or older), neutral & no-contact MAP or AAM - pedophiles, anti-kink, pro self-harm - pro eating disorders

all kinks, interests and fetishes are all between consenting adults - block me if my blog makes you uncomfortable; i am a stranger on the internet . my trauma is not your trauma and yours is not mine . i do not and would not sexualize my trauma or abuse, and frankly, no one needs to know and no one needs to assume what i had gone through

interests; drawing, writing, crafting, jigsaw puzzles, cartoons, anime, gaming, casually collecting silicone toys, and more!

this is almost 10 yrs old!! doodly daydream having a teacher/student dynamic as Caregiver/little between two lesbians.

🎉 - How would you theme your/your little ones birthday party, if other cgl couples were attending?

this may possibly be a lengthy answer!

my tastes in aesthetics is always fluctuating… if it were someplace public, either a theme park or an arcade with karaoke. i want everyone to have fun and to enjoy themselves, because everyone being happy and laughing makes me very happy!

if it were someplace private, like my own home, i’d either go with a colorful theme in similar fashion to my dream littlespace dedicated room, or something a little spooky and mysterious.

there would be nap time because i can be easily overstimulated and overwhelmed…

there’d be gaming systems hooked up where we all take turns competing with each other on Mario Kart and Mario Party; group crafting where we make our own cake pops (that either i and/or a CG helped bake), make parfaits, fold origami, have a bead bar, make slime, draw folded surprises, put together a jigsaw, deco dummies, and make sparkly mocktails/cocktails with our CGs.

everyone should bring their favorite comfort snacks, drinks, and plushies too. 🥰

i guess the theme is DIY!

currently i do not have a littlespace area.

in the early 2020s, i was and still am loosely inspired to design my room after this:

a purple, galaxy wall with a giant yellow cat (that can be built into a shelf) and pink floorboards.

there’d be a couple of rainbow-colored storages, like this one:

it’d store my art, jewelry, and kandi supplies.

a tent to take naps in with a fluffy mat for extra cushion with my plushies and a cat tree for my kitties to be with me. 🐱

and a large, inflatable pool filled with fun shapes of ball pit balls.

maybe there’d be a TV with a VCR and DVD player, and a rainbow-colored shelf for my comfort books and comics.