Sarah

it totally stigmatizes and bashes sex workers and treats them as harmful/hurtful individuals.

it also reserves the idea that sex and sexuality should be reserved for those you love and doesn’t respect any other viewpoint on the matter.

idk. there’s so much more i want to say but i’m just frustrated and angry at this whole thing.

but also, i do see a problem with how most men treat/look at porn, so i think we need to change men’s perception of porn in order to make the industry a better place, etc. 

quoted from their letter to J.Lawrence: “Real women are beautiful and real love is sexy. Anything else is a counterfeit.”

“For me optimism is two lovers walking into the sunset arm in arm. Or maybe into the sunrise - whatever appeals to you.”

sit in the sun without anything to do, feel the heat of the rays hit your skin, realize that this sunlight has travelled a very long way to reach you

walk around barefoot and try to feel as much of the ground under your feet as you can, notice every rock and blade of grass

sit quietly for a while and notice the touch of breath in your nostrils, feel how the air gets cooler as you inhale and warmer as you exhale

drive around aimlessly and blast some of your favorite songs, scream/sing along to them and feel the vibrations of your favorite lyrics as they change the air in your throat and around you, feel that the music is healing you from the inside out

stay away from alcohol or drugs for a few days, try to be as aware and present as you can in every moment, stop trying to numb or dull your senses

eat a few meals without any distractions, notice every bite and taste every flavor that covers your tongue, be grateful for it all