Punk4Abuse

something i see frequently is someone who identifies as faggot / sub / beta calling themselves stupid or worthless (not the mainstream use of the word ‘faggot’ but that in the Alpha / faggot dynamic) or someone who calls themselves alpha demanding immediate submission and calling a faggot stupid or worthless. 

being a faggot does not mean you are worthless or stupid.  you are far from it.  

remember submission is your choice.  surrendering your desires is your choice.  choosing to give up control or give up your rights is the choice you get to make.  yes, once they are given up, strict obedience and surrender to Alpha pleasure is the expectation.  but that does not make you worthless or stupid. 

your choice to submit has enormous tangible value because - among other things - without it your Alpha would not receive the pleasure you desperately want to give him.  and, without your choice, you would not have that  ‘at home’ experience that final surrender brings you.  if you are one who understands the true  Alpha / faggot dynamic, you know precisely what that means.   you understand it is much more than sexual dynamic. the sexual dynamic is just a physical expression. 

it takes strength and courage to give up control.  that is the opposite of worthless. if someone insists your are actually worthless, turn and walk the opposite direction. remember, submission and surrender is a valuable choice.

recently, one of my college faggot pups asked for guidance when a local Alpha insisted he take a poz load from an unmedicated top with the goal of pozzing him. he was obviously nervous and did not want to do it but was unsure what to do because he did not want to be disrespectful. my anger when he told me made me shake because i want him safe. i told him absolutely not under any circumstances was he to do so unless that was his consented choice which even then i strongly advised against giving consent to. 

hear this: a true Alpha, a wise one, will never put you in a position that compromises your safety.  instead they will lead you into loyalty through wisdom that ensures safe surrender.  they do not try to force you into blind compliance demanded just because some dude chooses to call himself “alpha”.  There is a difference between a real Alpha and one who uses the name alpha. 

one final point.  if you are one who truly embraces the Alpha / faggot dynamic, be proud of it, even when those who don’t understand attack you. i get the messages attacking me too.  some people who may scream the loudest for tolerance in the mainstream culture will be the most intolerant of your consented choice in the Alpha / faggot dynamic.  embrace it anyway if it’s where you know you feel complete.  their intolerance and hatred says much more about them than it ever does about you.