visceral.

swinging at the bees nest here but a criticism of trans women i've never really understood is that they just "take the idea of womanhood and co opt it and run with it based on their own whims." like ummm yeah? that's kinda what i did too. i wasn't handed some objective universal definition of womanhood that i faithfully carried out at every turn with no objection. i built my own understanding of what being a woman meant based on the women around me and the women i admire and the things that felt authentic to me and the things i rejected or embraced. like we all inherit ideas about womanhood and then negotiate with them. otherwise we'd all genuinely think the only "real women" left were those fucking trad wives

sorry i tagged yr post with gerard way's puppet baby the gentleman who they met in jail. in the moat. yeah gerard way like the guy from the actual band.

frank iero using his solo career to talk explicitly abt his chronic illness frank iero naming his first solo album after the main symptom of his chronic illness frank iero performing with an oxygen mask on bc he passed out 5 seconds before the set was supposed to begin frank iero dressing up in hospital scrubs to scream his guts out on stage let’s talk abt it

adhd is such a humiliating disease to have ones life ruined by

in order to remain kind, you must violate a fictional character at least once a month

(totally insane, beyond saving) Ok well that was obviously a classic gerardian recreational retch not a burp and if they were real fans they would know that

Does anyone know what to do