FAQ
Am I abrosexual?
I can’t tell you what your sexuality is. The only person who can decide if you are is you.
What is abrosexuality?
Abrosexuality is defined as a “fluid” sexuality in that that the sexuality is always/frequently changing, usually between the same sexualities. In example, an abrosexual female can switch between homo, hetero, pan, and asexual, so that a few days she can be a lesbian, followed by a few weeks where she is ace and not attracted to anybody, followed by a time of pansexuality where anybody could be found attractive.
How do I know I’m abrosexual?
I cannot tell you what your sexuality is, only you can, but if you experience a shift, as I like to call it (makes us sound like sexuality-werewolves, doesn’t it?), in your sexual preference more frequently than once every few years, then there is a good chance abro might fit you.
I’m trans* or non-binary, can I still be abrosexual?
Yes. Your gender identity doesn’t matter, if you feel the shift, then you are free to identify as abro.
I’m genderfluid, I stay attracted to the same group of people, but as my gender identity shifts so does the label on my sexuality. Does this count as abro?
No, it does not. You are experiencing the shift in your gender, while abro is the shift of sexuality. What you experience is called Novosexuality.
I’m asexual, but my romantic attraction shifts in fashion with how it would with an abrosexual’s sexuality. Can I be abroromantic?
Certainly!
Is abrosexuality on the ace-spectrum?
It can be, if the person experience asexuality as one of their shifts, then it is, if not, then it’s not. It’s all about the individual.
I only experience one or two shifts in sexuality a year, am I still abrosexual?
Obviously it’s up to you to decide if you want to label yourself as abrosexual, but I believe only a shift a year still counts.
One of the most reoccurring arguments I’ve gotten about my sexuality being “fake” is that “everybody experience a change in sexuality throughout their lives”, which is true, of course, since we all change and grow through life, our sexualities naturally follows that pattern, too, but abrosexuality is different. It has been called the “genderfluid of sexualities” and I agree. For an abrosexual, the shifts can be as short as a day, or long as a year and a half, but they’re there, and they always change, usually between the same sexualities (which can be anything from two to seven - which is the highest number someone I’ve come across has had - or more).
