FAQ
Am I abrosexual?
I canβt tell you what your sexuality is. The only person who can decide if you are is you.
What is abrosexuality?
Abrosexuality is defined as a βfluidβ sexuality in that that the sexuality is always/frequently changing, usually between the same sexualities. In example, an abrosexual female can switch between homo, hetero, pan, and asexual, so that a few days she can be a lesbian, followed by a few weeks where she is ace and not attracted to anybody, followed by a time of pansexuality where anybody could be found attractive.
How do I know Iβm abrosexual?
I cannot tell you what your sexuality is, only you can, but if you experience a shift, as I like to call it (makes us sound like sexuality-werewolves, doesnβt it?), in your sexual preference more frequently than once every few years, then there is a good chance abro might fit you.
Iβm trans* or non-binary, can I still be abrosexual?
Yes. Your gender identity doesnβt matter, if you feel the shift, then you are free to identify as abro.
Iβm genderfluid, I stay attracted to the same group of people, but as my gender identity shifts so does the label on my sexuality. Does this count as abro?
No, it does not. You are experiencing the shift in your gender, while abro is the shift of sexuality. What you experience is called Novosexuality.
Iβm asexual, but my romantic attraction shifts in fashion with how it would with an abrosexualβs sexuality. Can I be abroromantic?
Certainly!
Is abrosexuality on the ace-spectrum?
It can be, if the person experience asexuality as one of their shifts, then it is, if not, then itβs not. Itβs all about the individual.
I only experience one or two shifts in sexuality a year, am I still abrosexual?
Obviously itβs up to you to decide if you want to label yourself as abrosexual, but I believe only a shift a year still counts.
Β Β Β One of the most reoccurring arguments Iβve gotten about myΒ sexuality being βfakeβ is that βeverybody experience a change in sexuality throughout their livesβ, which is true, of course, since we all change and grow through life, our sexualities naturally follows that pattern, too, but abrosexuality is different. It has been called the βgenderfluid of sexualitiesβ and I agree. For an abrosexual, the shifts can be as short as a day, or long as a year and a half, but theyβre there, and they always change, usually between the same sexualities (which can be anything from two to seven - which is the highest number someone Iβve come across has had - or more).
