s/o to everyone who is still tryin to heal from things that they don’t talk about

We could sit in a car for 2 hours and listen to music and talk about life and lowkey that’s a perfect date right there to me

you will unlearn all of the bad habits you taught yourself and you will grow into someone stronger than you ever imagined you could be

This.

in therapy my therapist and i were talking about my own feelings of self worth in relationships. and she asked me to say qualities about myself that someone else would be attracted to, on a romantic and platonic level. so i named some things like compassionate, empathetic, etc. and she said “you named things that you can give someone. ways you can serve, rather than ways that you are” and y'all..my mind was blown that’s gonna stick with me forever like she then proceed to tell me actual innate qualities about myself that she liked and thought anyone else would like as well and i hadn’t even considered those because like she said i was focused on things i could do outwardly to attract and maintain connections rather than who i was as a person..goddamn!!! thats tea!!!

someone come play with my hair until the future isn’t scary anymore

my experience as a girl has just been “I just wanna be beautiful” for 20+ years it really is the root of all evil

Remember when Netflix and Tumblr didn’t exist and you read like 10 books a week? Good times.