i regret nothing

you don’t have to answer to anonymous hate. if it makes you uncomfortable or triggers you – you don’t have to answer to it.

it’s okay!! to unfollow!! someone!! toxic!! and make your dash more adaptable to your needs and your likes. you don’t have to follow everyone back! not ever!

activism is important and so is your mental health. putting your needs first is important too. even if you want to take on the world and make social justice activism more important, you need to take care of yourself first before you can care for others, okay?

you deserve good things, good partners, good plots, good ships. 

replies can be done the next morning. or the next week. put yourself first! don’t force yourself to do everything all at once bc it’s not healthy for you and…

Me:

ur taking me home tonight to fuck but just when we get there i fucking have a meltdown on ur chest because oh holy fuck my ex is such a bitch and why dID THEY LEAVE ME?

u saw me walking out right after a bar fight only cause u saw me bleeding heavily and wanted to yell at me at least to let my injuries be checked somewhere even tho u knew i was the one who started the fight which was “what the fuck” of me but ok but uhhhh im crying by the fucking dumpster instead and my fucking ex dumped me ok

im ur next door neighbour who’s always singing songs about my life and for a week i didnt sing anything until one day i write again and its about a breakup song and i cried in the middle of singing and ur like “oh shit this was not what i planned”

u write a letter or a diary which somehow ended up in my possession and i started reading it daily and read about how u were so happy then became so sad with ur relationship or life until you broke up with ur significant other and who are you where can i meet you properly so i can give u a hug

im a teacher’s assistant and u always sit near me in lecture halls and i always watch ur habits for some reason or other and one day u got a breakup text and oh shit i was not supposed to see that?????? but i suddenly mutter “what an asshole” under my breath and u heard me

i’ve always had a crush on you but ur dating a friend of mine and then one day this friend broke up w/ you so i’ve been kinda watching u from afar and i wonder if ur ok but hey one day u came into the shop im working in and

lets wreck my ex’s new car random stranger and watch me cry after we did it because im actually a mess inside and oh whats this ur actually the boss i’m working for the next week tf