more bad than good

To make myself clear, I did not say anything about Stiles raping Lydia. Here's what I meant: Stiles may not have taken advantage of her but he ALMOST did when she was drugged up; he only realized what he was doing when she called him Jackson. Not to mention the fact people have been saying how Natalie Martin "cockblocked" Stiles and Lydia when she obviously would not be able to say no. THAT is condoning rape. So, go ahead, tell me I'm being ridiculous just bc I don't like a ship. THAT IS NOT IT AT ALL. Its mostly because of the fandom and THAT'S why I don't like it. Because Natalie "cockblocked" him. I love Stiles and I love Lydia. But I do not love the ship BECAUSE Natalie Martin was in the way. I am so tired of this fandom being so horrible to each other. The fact that I can't ship Stalia or Marrish without my ships being insulted continuously isn't okay. The fact that the only time I have EVER given negative comments to a ship, I get hate like its okay to call Stalia abusive but for the love of God, I can't voice my opinions of Stydia? Like how is that even remotely fair? Stalia has gotten more hate than any ship and apparently that's okay as long as I leave your ship alone. I am SO SORRY I decided to say something. Excuse me. My mistake.