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Good Friday, May 29th, 2026.

I HATE telling my husband what to do. I want him to figure it out, and yes, I want him to read my mind, and my heart, and my soul. And he's pretty good at it, because I have authentic desires not often couched in resentments and games.

But today, I decided to give him a little gift. Friday he works from home, and I do too sometimes, but not today. Off to the office I go. But not without giving him a little gift, a little ritual, a little direction.

Before I left for work I commanded him to get naked and go to the bedroom, get out our paddle, put it on the bed, and put his hands on the bed, bent over to wait for me.

I then made him wait about 10 minutes. Without saying anything I picked up the paddle and began whacking him hard on the ass and thighs. He endured it well for about 5 strikes, but he was silent.

Then I said, "Well, you are always supposed to count. So we'll have to start over."

He groaned, and I enjoyed that. I struck again, deciding to put a little extra in it. I felt empty inside, I had no anger or anything, just me, the paddle and his ass and thighs. He counted. We went up to 30 strikes, and he was shaking. I'm a small woman, but I'm strong.

Then I set the paddle down and rubbed his very red ass. I then went to the drawer, got out some oil and the small butt plug. I oiled up his ass, and slowly inserted the plug. Still no words.

Then I stood back and waited a few moments.

"Keep that in as long as you can, text me when you take it out. You may not wear any clothes today unless you have to go outside, then you can wear shorts. And if you need to go to town, you can wear a shirt.

"Clean and organize our bedroom to a pristine level, do my laundry and put it away correctly. Then clean and organize the kitchen, again to pristine condition. Prepare a meal for me for dinner tonight, and have it ready at 5:30PM.

"At 5:00PM, naked, kneel by the door and wait for me. When I come in lower your eyes and put your face on the floor.

"I want every move you make today to be informed by my utter control over your cock and your ass and your mind and you soul. You belong to me, so make every move you make as if I was watching. Feel me at all times, be present with me, the house, the cats and the dogs. Stand straight, breathe deep, and have good posture.

"Every thing you do do with presence, and complete focused devotion to me. Lose yourself utterly in presence and focus.

"Stay in this position till I text you."

Then I left, got in my car, made him wait about 15 minutes then texted: "Slave, begin your labor for me."

I've been at work 2 hours and haven't heard from him. I'm impressed he's kept the butt plug in that long.

So that's my little gift for him. He stays masculine in presence and focus, and depth and breath, but I've given him direction. I kind of hate doing that, but at the same time, he would usually do all these things for me on Friday anyway, why not make it hot and play this game?

We'll see if I feel guilty about it. Right now... ZERO GUILT! I'm having fun. And I think he is too.

Please take a moment and reflect upon how shadesoflions keeps it fresh!

To have the best online experience

Many subs are skeptical a good D/s relationship is possible online, but it is.  Here’s how.

Learn Her schedule and DM when She is likely to be online.

Be consistent.  At least one DM per day.  One DM every 5-10 days is just annoying.

Don’t wait for Her to DM you.  Initiate to show interest and readiness to serve.

It always takes more words than you think.  2-4 words are seldom helpful.  Communicate fully. (Using a phone to DM is less helpful - you tend to keep it too short. A laptop/keyboard is better.)

Follow Mistress’ guidance on the frequency and nature of your DMs.  Tell Her your thoughts fully, to give Her something to respond to and control.  Then accept that control and adapt.

DM if you’re there, even if you’re pretty sure She is not.  If She’s interested, She’ll see you and respond to it later.

Don’t assume all the captions are absolutely true of Her.  If She’s real, She’ll have Her own ideas.  Be willing to adjust your in-head fantasies to what She wants of you.

If She’s away for a while, respect Her time.  Don’t get demanding.

Be honest, of course, or there’s little point.  Do you want a real relationship or just a fantasy / amusement? Don’t tell Her you’re doing things you aren’t.  Do not tell Her you are not doing things that you are doing.  If you do this, you are just using Her as your own fantasy.