LESSON TO LEARN

It’s not what you say to everyone else that determines your life; it’s what you whisper to yourself that has the greatest power.

What people say and do to you is much more about them, than you. People’s reactions to you are about their perspectives, wounds and experiences. Whether people think you’re amazing, or believe you’re the worst, again, is more about them and how they view the world. The key is in not allowing anyone's crude commentary to control you in any way. They don’t deserve to control you. In fact, the real test always comes when you don't get what you expect from people. Will you react in uncontrollable emotion? Or will calmness be your superpower?

I’m simply saying that incredible amounts of hurt, disappointment and sadness in our lives come directly from our tendency to take things personally.

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