When will I learn?
Reoccurring themes in my past thoughts have been:
Living authentically
Putting myself first
Being intentional w/ my thoughts & actions
Grounding myself
Combatting negative self doubts
Validate yourself rather than looking for external validation
Do not romanticize something because you no longer have it.
Do not fill voids in your life for selfish reason
In order to execute these objectives I need to:
Soul search & find the type of person I want to be
Let go of others’ opinions
Remind yourself of what your needs are and prioritize them
Journal and make reminders of what your goals are and what you need to do execute them
Do the things that bring you joy and remind you of who you are
Block out negative self talk and combat them with logic. Affirm your truth
Do not put others’ opinions on a pedestal especially when talking about yourself
Be truthful in your actions and do not do things just because you don’t want to hurt people
Do not use people as placeholders. They are people too. Not only will you be unhappy because you are not being truthful with yourself or this person, but you will be wasting their time.











