thoughts become things.

Part of a relationship is saying the wrong thing at the worst time. Fighting over a small thing that won’t matter in a week. Watching them turn cold for a few hours because of family issues. Offending each other with comebacks that can sometimes be too much. And making each other cry… But if the relationship is true, they won’t leave when things get hard. People focus too much on finding someone who would never fight with them, but those people lose the part of the relationship where they work together to make things work. Don’t just focus on finding someone who won’t fight with you; the small fights and arguments will only make you stronger. Seek someone who will always fight for you at the end of the day because they can’t stand the thought of you leaving.

right now you might be in a situation that you think you won’t survive but six months ago you were in a situation that you didn’t think you’d survive and two years before that you were in a situation you didn’t think you’d survive and the point is you will always surprise yourself and you will always make it through