My Ultimate FLR Dream

I find that the biggest obstacle in dirty talking is how to start it. That first thing you break the ice with. It can feel a bit awkward at first, but you’ll quickly get the hang of it. I’m a big fan of something I call the and then what technique. Basically you just start with a rather innocent question or statement and then evolve into the next natural thing that would happen. So you say something, and then pretend someone asks you “and then what” and then you answer that question.

So let’s pretend for a second you’re on top of your man, riding him cowgirl style and you want to spice it up a little.

Simply starting with a “you like the way I fuck you?” Is enough to break that awkward ice. He’ll answer yes of course. And then what? “then imagine how Mark (using names of actual guys you know works amazingly) would feel if I fucked him like this”

And then what?

“I would bounce up and down his cock just like this. He’ll get to feel how tight your wife’s pussy is”

And then what?

“then I want him to….”

You get it.

Reliving the past

My husband is very much into hearing stories about guys I used to fuck so this one is his favorite type of dirty talk. The way it goes is when I give him a handjob, blowjob or even ride him, I would say something like “you like the way I stroke your dick?” (asking if he likes it is always a great way to break the ice and initiate dirty talk without feeling awkward). This always gets me a very enthustiastic “YES!” to which I answer something like “this is exactly how I used to stroke [name of guy I used to fuck]’s cock…” (pause for dramatic effect) “except… His was a lot bigger than yours”. This line alone is usually enough to almost bring him over the edge, and if not it’s a great way to go into more details - how did it feel to stroke a much bigger dick, would you do it again, perhaps the guy used to get so horny that he would fuck you before you could finish the handjob, etc. Details, details, details, I can’t stress it enough.

Fair warning: not everyone is into hearing about your past! Make sure your husband is into that before springing this on him.

The commentator

This one is super easy because you don’t feel like you’re talking dirty, you’re just saying what’s on your mind. So the way it works is to watch porn with your man and simply make comments about the movie playing. Particularly about the guy and what you like about him. Compliment his dick, go into details about what you like about him, think out loud like “I really wish I could get fucked like that one day” / “look how big his dick is. He would make me cum so fast with that”

If you’ve fucked someone who reminds you of the guy, by all means tell your husband about it. Watching a porn with a guy who’s fucking some girl senseless and hearing your wife drop the bomb that the guy is the exact same size as some dude she dated in college is a sure way to make your husband look at the porn and all he will see is you being fucked right there on the screen. Very hot for both of you.

The yes ladder

This is a really simple but very effective technique that is easy for new dirty talkers and is guarantueed to drive him crazy.

In a nutshell what you do is ask him some questions that all leads to a yes. With each question the intensity in what you’re asking increases. There’s something crazy hot about this almost confessional way of talking dirty and being “forced to admit” your deepest fantasies. This is a great way to get yourself going, and to test out boundaries.

Optional: let him know ahead of time that you’re going to ask him questions and if he says no just once, he don’t get to cum. See what he’s willing to say yes to - just remember these are forced and horny yesses expressing what he likes in the heat of the moment. They don’t necessarily count in real life.

Example of a yes ladder.

“you like this huh”

“would you like it if i did this to another guy?”

“would you let me pick any guy i want?”

“what if i want a guy who’s bigger than you, would you allow that?”

“do you want him to fuck me hard?”

“what if he makes me cum really hard, can you handle that?”

“what if he makes me scream out his name, can you still handle it?”

“can I fuck him right here in our bed?”

“would you allow me to fuck someone I’ve dated before?”

“even if he really knows how to fuck me good?”

“what if I want him to fuck me while you wait in the other room, will you do that?”

You get it, just continue like this. Make the questions increasingly more provocative and test his boundaries, maybe even cross them if you know he can handle it.

The O-bomb

This method works extremely well if you’ve been teasing and playing with him for a while, keeping him right on the edge and he’s SO close now that you can make him cum any second.

All there is to it is asking him “do you want to cum?” he’ll answer yes almost pleading. And that’s when you drop the O-bomb. The O-bomb is some of the blue thought you put into his head and force him to cum to before he can even react.

For example: he just said yes he wants to cum. You then say “good. I want you to cum while you think of me cumming all over (name)’s big dick” and then you simply force him to cum before he even gets a chance to react. As he’s cumming you keep feeding him the thought over and over until he’s done. “yes, cum while you imagine how he makes me scream” etc.

The story

My personal favorite. One thing is to talk about imaginary stuff that could maybe some day happen. Another is to talk about stuff that actually already happened simply by telling him a story about some incredible hot sex you’ve had, either because the circumstances where hot, because the guy knew what he was doing and fucked your brains out or the guy happened to be seriously hung.

This is also super simple for you because you dont have to make anything up, you simply just tell what happened and describe the situation.

Don’t worry about elaborate descriptions or anything. Trust me he’ll ask you to elaborate when he hears something he likes. Just describe what happened and how it felt for you. Especially the “how it felt” part is very important.

The talk

Now in the safety rules i told you to talk about what he likes and dislikes without touching him so his arousal won’t reflect his answers. This time you do the exact opposite. Simply have a conversation about what he likes while slowly touching his dick. There’s something really hot about just talking while casually stroking him. And you’ll be able to measure his response simply by the way his dick throbs, which is incredibly hot.

How to start it: just casually ask him a question about his likes and as he answers you slowly start touching him while asking him more questions.

The close your eyes and imagine

Sometimes it can be a lot easier if your husband can’t see you when you talk dirty.

Example:

“close your eyes. Do you like my hands on. Your dick? Now imagine i was doing this to another guy. Stroking his big dick just like this. I would be so turned on knowing it isn’t you. My pussy would want to feel him inside me. Imagine how he would push me down and fuck me. Imagine how i would gasp when he starts to stretch me. How I would scream when he goes deeper than you.”

Do you see how the above also make use of the and then what technique to tell the next part of the story?

Putting it all together

Now, I know reading about it and actually doing it is two very different things. When you’re first starting out I actually advice you to plan out your dirty talking. This might not be as sexy and spontaneous, but while you’re still getting the hang of it it’s nice to be a little prepared so you don’t run out of things to say. I would also advice you to start off doing it while giving a handjob, as you will have a much easier time focusing on what to say than if you were giving a blowjob or having sex.

Let’s break the ice with an innocent “do you like the way it feels when I stroke your cock?”

When he says yes I would then say something like “good…. Now close your eyes” wait for him to do it.

Then: “would you like it if I did this to another man?” - “yes”

Then: “you know, [name of ex / bull / fantasy guy] used to love when I stroked his dick. Of course his was a lot bigger than yours, I could barely close my hand around it”

Then: “do you like that, thinking about how I used to stroke his big cock?” - “yes”

Then: “having that big cock in my hands always made me feel so tiny and horny”

Then: “do you want me to show you how I used to suck him?” - “yes”. Then put all your effort into giving the best head you have ever given.

Then: “mmh… Can you imagine how good his cock must have felt in my mouth? I used to suck him just like that until he came in my mouth”.

By now he should be getting pretty close, so it’s time put on the finale. Ask him “do you want to cum?” - “yes”. Start stroking him faster.

“tell me…” - make him say that he wants to cum.

“I want you to cum while you think of me getting fucked by [name]. He would always make me cum so hard. Imagine how I used to scream his name” - if you really want to go all out you could start moaning the name of this other guy, whether that’s your bull, an old fling, your husband’s friend or who ever you like to fantasize about.

Do you see how easy it flows from do you like it, to imagine it’s someone else, to describing how you used to do or would do it on someone else?

With time it will come naturally and you won’t have to plan ahead, but to begin with it’s nice to have an idea of how you want to start it, how you want to end it and how you bridge that gap.

I absolutely LOVE to kiss my boyfriend with a mouthful of cum.  I love sharing it with him and knowing that he’s tasting what I am.  I love how he swirls his tongue into my mouth as if he’s mining for the last nugget of cum.  I love kissing him mid blowjob and sharing pre-cum with him too.  It’s like I’m giving him a little sampling of the grand finale that awaits him in my flooded pussy.

XoXo Jenny

I have a boyfriend. His cute little cock is in a cage, I wear his chastity key proudly around my neck, and I control his orgasms. But it didn’t start out that way. We’ve been together for seven years and, slowly but surely, I’ve trained, submitted, and broken him down to the point where I can do literally anything and anyone that I want.

If you’d have told either of us that this is how our relationship would’ve ended up, there’s no way we’d have believed it. We started dating in high school. Mark is over a year older than I am, but I’ve always been the one in control. It started with little things like choosing between movies, what music we listened to, or the places to go. He never pushed or demanded a thing, and always gave in—unlike most every other guy in my life.

Early on, I’d let him get his way every once in a while. Eventually, though, I learned that he liked it better when I took charge—especially when it came to sex. I didn’t mind, even though I’m more of a sub, myself. I learned to get off on the Domme role, ordering him between my legs or telling him exactly how to fuck me.

We always want what we don’t have, though, don’t we?

My sister and most all my friends loved bragging about the men they “dated”. They knew I was in love with Mark, but made it there mission to get me to cheat. Some succeeded, but only after I convinced myself that blowjobs weren’t cheating.

I compensated for my “indiscretions” by sharing my friends with Mark, having threesomes almost as often as we had one on one sex. Our first time together was in a threesome with his first girlfriend, who he was still dating. She was his first “I love you”, but I’m going to be his last. We’ve shared her since, and watching them kiss still slices my heart open, but that only makes my orgasms a million times hotter.

Okay, I’ll admit it—I lied. I didn’t share all my friends with Mark because I felt bad about cheating on him. The truth is I loved sharing him as much as I loved going down on all those other men. I especially loved watching him make out with my friends and losing himself in the moment, as if I weren’t even there. That’s when I learned the power of cuckolding—back before I even knew what that word truly meant.

Snowbunny… Now that’s a word with which I was very familiar. That sister I mentioned earlier and all those friends who loved bragging, well, they were all talking about one thing—Big Black Cocks. It was as if they’d found a super-drug with the only known side-effect being earth-shattering orgasms. And it was highly addictive—even for me, who’d never even seen one in real life.

A couple of my friends kept their boyfriends, but most had moved on by the end of that first summer. As much as I loved Mark, I was instantly curious and knew I couldn’t stop at just a blowjob. I knew I wouldn’t be able to control myself with a cock that much bigger than Mark’s.

I started watching interracial porn. Like a LOT. It got to the point where that was pretty much all I got myself off to. I’ve always needed a fantasy to be realistic to work, so I imagined the men that I knew from real life like the owner of the restaurant me and my friends went to after school or one of my mom’s friends.

I started putting it on to watch with Mark, too. At first, I disguised my intent by typing simply “big cock”, knowing full-well what most of the results would bring, and then always clicking on whichever one looked like the biggest. I wanted to make it clear to Mark (even then) what it was that I liked best—and what I wanted.

Mark and I have been watching porn together since the first few months we started dating. I don’t remember who brought it up, but we were talking about porn and I asked what kind he liked best, assuming he watched it too. He said he didn’t watch it, which was an obvious lie. Rather than grill him or make him feel bad about it, I told him what I liked, how often I watched it, and told him we needed to watch it together.

I had one rule, though. I told him he could never delete his browsing history. I wanted to see all the things he was looking at so we could get off to it together. In the beginning, it was all pretty tame. I’ve always been into public sex so we mixed some of that in, along with some teacher porn. I’d have him pick one out with a teacher that looked like his crush while I went down on him then he’d do the same for me. It was like virtual roleplaying, and it was hot as fuck—still is.

We mixed in some threesomes with two girls and one guy. You should’ve seen his reaction the first time I put on a DP video and admitted how much I’d love to try it. Mmmmm

But once I started searching for “big cock” porn, that changed everything. Mark started watching it almost exclusively even when I wasn’t there. And he was the first one to add the word “Black” to a porn search. That’s when I realized that he was getting off to whatever got me off the most—and he wasn’t shy about it. He was rewatching the videos that made me cum, then searching for more of that specific scene.

I wrote an article over two years ago about all that, but in a different context. I was doing a deep dive on his cuckolding origin story, making the point that it all began with how we watched porn together. I see things a bit more clearly now. With or without porn, his cock would still be locked up today. This was always his fate. I crave more than what he can give me, and he wants me to have anything and anyone that I want.

If my tastes led me somewhere other than Black Kings then that’s where he’d have gone too. He’s a cuckold at heart, desiring nothing more than to make sure I’m happy and content in all things—especially in the bedroom. Once I was ready for the real thing, I put on a show with a ten inch black toy to talk him into the idea. I handed it to him and made him finish me with it. He made me squirt and cum and collapse before licking me clean.

The rest is history.

Since that day (March  23, 2019), I’ve been with about two hundred and fifty different men. Each and every one of them has been bigger than Mark. Most have been MUCH bigger. And we’ve never been happier.

I still share him with some of my friends. I’ve kept some secrets, but he knows about most everything I’ve done. I love nothing more than surprising him with a new story, especially while I’m still dripping. I feed him their cum along with all the details while grinding over his hungry mouth and teasing his cute little cock. I love how hard he cums after I free him from his cage.

I don’t cage my boyfriend as a punishment; I do it because I love him. This is what he deserves.

He craves it now, possibly as much as I crave new men. I’ve heard from some of his friends that he’s been talking about a proposal, asking their opinion on how he should do it. That got me thinking… Will he be wearing his cage when he pops the question?

God, I hope so!

XoXo Jenny

Disclaimer: this is 100% being written while my husband’s tongue is in my ass 😜👅👅🍑

1. You get to fuck other men, I mean c’mon 😍

2. They’re more than willing to satisfy ALL of your sexual needs😈

3. You’ll get to go on more dates 🍷

4. There’s no hard feelings or weirdness when you have guy friends 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️

5. YOU define your sex life ♠️

6. They’ll encourage you to spoil your body more so it’ll be appreciated by other men 💅🏻

7. You don’t have to settle for only one dick for the rest of your life 🍆🍆🍆

8. They’re always going to cuddle and take care of your body after you’ve been fucked raw by alphas 💞

9. You’ll never stop being treated like an absolute queen 👸

10. He’ll be devoted to you alone while you’ll get to have your cake and eat it too 🍰