your attention please!

June 23rd 1pm-8pm

435 Newark Avenue Jersey City NJ

Psychological:

Controlling the time you spend with others or monitoring where you go

Controlling what you wear with the accusation that you attract too much attention

Blaming you for the abuse, saying that you deserve what happens or that you instigated the problem

Saying things to make you question your perception of reality, such as “that never happened, “you don’t remember correctly,” or “you’re getting mad about something that doesn’t matter, you’re too sensitive.”

Emotional:

Attacking your sense of self worth

Insulting you, calling you names, criticizing you, or humiliating you

Acting jealous or possessive, accusing you of being with other partners

Withholding affection or acknowledgement in order to punish you

Cheating on you

Lying to you

Making you feel like your feelings aren’t valid

Contacting you when they need something & never being available when you need something from them

Talking down to you

Putting you down when you talk about your feelings

Walking away from you when you’re most vulnerable

Comparing their problems to yours in order to convince you that their life is harder

Stalking:

Following you

Spying on you, including cyber stalking

Sending you unwanted packages, letters, texts, or messages

Calling you at home or at work after you’ve told them to not to contact you