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handing out flyers to transmascs about estradiol cream (can be used to keep your pussy wet and healthy but without triggering periods or having any feminizing effects) and transfemmes about Cialis (works even post-orchi)

and then telling both to start prep too

new blog same sexual health advocate. since making this post i’ve switched from cialis to topical testosterone cream though.

you can take both. i do both now. testosterone cream once a week, Cialis as needed. might start taking the cialis on a regular schedule too.

Adding along for transfemme folks that in addition to an ED medication to encourage continued use and bloodflow, that topical t-gel is not masculinizing, and helps protect the tissue and reduce atrophy, and help keeps the tissue healthy both pre and post-op. It's the same tissue being repurposed post-op, so it's still at risk of atrophy, so the same stuff can help reduce tissue atrophy. That's right, t-gel is helpful even if you plan on getting a neovagina, because "If you're asking a doctor to fold an origami cat, it's best to bring them the highest quality paper." Healthier tissue is easier to work with and more likely to result in a successful surgery. Similarly, as much as a lot of people find it gender affirming, please think carefully about deliberate long-term use of cock-cages -- those kinds that result in substantial shrinkage. If you're looking to get a neovagina, you'll want to avoid prolonged cock cage use for the same reasons-- less tissue, thinner tissue, atrophied tissue, unhealthy tissue, will have poorer outcomes for surgery. Cock cages and the associated shrinking are GREAT for transfemme folks who want to KEEP their bits/don't want surgery, but want to minimize them, keep them small, and to reduce the dysphoria of a larger, more prominent penis. But they can be a setup for FAILURE if one is trying to get a neovagina constructed. Please be safe, and good luck and much love. World may be spooky, but we're all in this shit together. Rooting for you.

i can't believe that not one but two of my loaves of bread went moldy in under a week :(

i love you rice with some bullshit

as a woman you're always too young or too old for things because the perfect age is when you're a man

[ID: drawing of snoopy wearing a costume of a tomato pincushion. woodstock is the little pepper at the side.]

Most movies use the "oww I broke a nail!!" Line for women or characters who are meant to be shown as "weak" or overly dramatic but honestly breaking a nail fucking hurts most of the time, and usually takes some of your skin with it

[id: it’s two images of two stamps. the first stamp is a mid-value purple pink with the words “BE MINE!” in all capital letters, in bold red font, with a white shadow. the text is encircled by red lineart hearts. the second stamp has the same pink background, but with equidistant scattered pale pink hearts outlined in magenta. end id!]

Women and women can never be friends because the sex thing just gets in the way

[id: two photos of a vine-covered historical house with a wrought iron gate out front and a turret. the front driveway is lined with a low stone wall and surrounded by lots of greenery. /end id.]

[ID: a scene of a crosswalk over a road by the ocean. A giant white tip shark floats through the sky among the clouds, surrounded by a school of striped black and white pilot fish. The tips of the shark's fins and tails are white cloud patterns, mimicking the one sin the sky.]