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"Do you want a boyfriend/girlfriend?" no i want a best friend/roommate/soulmate that I can go on silly adventures with and hang out with and have deep intellectual discussions with and we can be life partners without any of the romance stuff

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I was debating pre- and post- smartphone existentialism with an older gentleman today and he stopped part way through and said âWhy are you a security guard? Why arenât you teaching this at some college somewhere?â And I didnât know what to say so I went with âWell I used to make art but nobody pays an artistâ
I want to invoke thought and wonder and introspection and encourage the passions of every soul I meet forever and ever and dig until I find the glorious potential for creation and experience and joy in every single one but unfortunately I must pay rent and so I stand, a meat shield, an NPC with unlockable dialogue
#capitalism brain tells you that anyone interesting must fight to the top of their interest#and precludes the possibility of everyone everyone everyone already being interesting
project hail mary and the martian are perfect foils of each other.
the martian is the story of one man stranded on mars with barely enough food and supplies to last him a calendar month, let alone the 14 that it inevitably takes to bring him home.
mark watney's rescue means millions of dollars in unplanned expenditures, cooperation between multiple nations that frankly have no stake in the life of one american astronaut, and risking the lives of 5 of his crew members. it is a story that makes you tackle the fundamental question of: "how much is one human life worth?"
the answer, the book (and its equally well-executed movie adaptation) offers, is everything.
they could have simply called it a day and told him that it was untenable, that they cannot possibly be asked to risk the lives of the rest of the ares iii crew. but they did not. they did not, because they deemed that no cost was too high if it meant that there was even a snowball's chance in hell that they could bring that one man home.
project hail mary, on the other hand, is a complete 180.
here, the fate of an entire planet's survival rests upon the shoulders of one rather unremarkable man. ryland grace is a middle school science teacher, whose only claim to fame is a controversial research paper. it is a story that forces you to confront the question: "how much do you personally owe humanity when its fate hangs in the balance?"
once again, the answer is everything.
ryland is not the brightest person on the planet, nor is he the bravest. he doesn't choose to be involved in saving earth, and he certainly doesn't choose to be sent on a suicide mission away from it. in project hail mary, one man has no choice but to shoulder this burden for the sake of humanity. and, it turns out, he's not the only one carrying this responsibility.
somehow, both books provide the same answer and message, only in somewhat different ways. they both serve to convey that life, no matter the scale, is worth preserving.
that when it comes to one man stranded 140 million miles away, no cost is too high, no risk too big, because his life matters. he matters. and he matters not just because he volunteered to go up there, or because it wasn't his fault, or because they know he's out there. he matters because he exists, and that is more than enough to do everything possible to bring him back.
or that no personal cost is too high to pay if you are the one person that can actually save humanity. the people may be faceless, nameless crowds to you, but their lives are worth saving simply because they exist. they exist, and that is plenty reason to doom yourself to certain death if it means that there is even a single chance in hell that you will save them. you don't have to be talented, or remarkable, or necessary to matter.
you exist, and that is enough for you to matter.
Rip Melissa Lewis, you wouldâve understood Eva Stratt on an uncomfortably deep level

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i love love loved how the martian novel ended. mark doesn't do it alone. he's not a hero who flies out to hermes and rescues himself. after a year and a half of lonely survival he has to (he gets to) surrender and put his life in his friends' hands. they don't throw him a line and tell him to grab it, it's not distant and impersonal like an escape pod docking to a rescue ship. beck gets to go out there and bring him home. when mark sees beck coming down to him he has a startle response, like it's been so long since he's seen another person that his body recoils in fear. it's important that the rescue is so personal. beck holds on to mark with his own hands and tethers their bodies together and carries him back to the ship and mark's only orders are to relinquish himself to being saved
Okay I know we're all waxxing poetics about Ryland Grace and how reading him as aroace makes perfect sense- how aroace people are often seen as "expendable". I know we all love talking about how Grace deserved to live just as much as anyone else, about how his life didn't matter any less than others just because he didn't have a partner.
May I propose we talk about Mark Watney?
Mark was just one person. One singular person who was stranded on an alien planet, with almost no chance of survival.
And yet- the whole world came together to support him. NASA spent who knows how many millions of dollars to try and get him home.
One person. One man who doesn't have a romantic partner, kids, a dog- he has his parents and that's it. But his life was still important. It was important enough for his crew to spend extra months away from their families to save him. His life was important enough for the Chinese national space agency to give up their secret rocket design to help NASA.
We keep talking about how society views aroace people as "useless" and how Graces life "wasn't important enough" but I think looking at some more positive "rep" would be nice this pride month. ("Rep"- it's not canon and weir most likely did not intend for his character to be read like this, but in my head Mark's story could very well be tied to him being aromantic.)
It would have been really easy to give Watney a girlfriend or a wife back home on earth- someone he'd want to come back to, someone people would feel bad about, someone people would connect to and wish their partner would get back to them- but no. There's no love interest. Marks life matters because he is a human being. That's it. He's a person who deserves to live, someone who deserves to be saved and live happily. Mark fights to survive just because he wants to live.
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a great tragedy of this world is that many things that are bad for you also look very sexy. smoking. riding a motorcycle. that crazy shit they did to saint sebastian
My mom likes to tell me about how when I was a little kid riding public transport with her I'd always smile and giggle and chat with weird old ladies who smelled like cat pee and homeless folks and strangers dressed in bizarre outfits but any time a tidy and respectable businessman in a suit and tie waved at me I'd immediately clam up, and she takes a great deal of pride in my supposed inherentability to clock personalities but the truth is I do vaguely remember those bus rides, and it was never about the clothes or the hair or the smell, but more because everyone "strange" asked interesting questions and listened to what I had to say and seemed to think about what I said while the neat and tidy and rigid folks only ever acted like they were going through the motions, which was boring as hell and also pretty annoying
Well-to-do finance manager with tidy shoes: "Why hello, sweetheart. Can you say 'hi'? Aren't you cute. Are you on a trip with your mom?"
4 year old me: why must we do this
Fantastic old woman in the leopard print coat: "Why yes, my tooth IS real silver! Nobody ever asks me that. Do you like cats?"
4 year old me, suddenly paying attention: Finally, A Person Of Intellect

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When Zuko apologized to uncle Iroh in the tent cause he was so ashamed of his actions and what heâd done to the only person who unconditionally believed in his ability to do good >>>>>
So okay, Iâve given this rant before but this is another good time for it.
Structurally speaking, ATLA did something important with Zuko that, in a purely mechanistic sense of narrative development, I think a lot of people donât notice immediately, and that even fewer people who want to emulate what was done with him get.
Which is Zuko is made a protagonist VERY early, and the show goes out of its way to continually place Zuko into situations where the audience empathizes and roots for him.
This happens in literally the second episode of the series, if we count the two-part premiere as a single episode, which I think we should. The A-plot of that episode, âThe Southern Air Temple,â is Aang reckoning with the genocide of his people⌠but the B-plot?
The B-plot is the introduction of Zhao, and more specifically, his introduction in a way that is calculate to shift the audience, whose introduction to Zuko did NOT engender a ton of sympathy to him, directly and forcefully onto his side. They want Zuko to kick Zhaoâs ass.
This continues all through book one and book two. Remember, Zuko is never, ever the main villain of this series. Thatâs initially Zhao, followed by Azula and Ozai. (Plus various temporary players like Long Feng.) Whenever Zuko isnât placed into direct conflict with the other protagonists, heâs always written and presented in a way that is careful, VERY VERY careful, not to make him too monstrous, and to make us root for him. Heâs placed right next to Iroh, who is designed for people to like, and that reflects back onto Zuko; we want Zuko to be better than he is because we want Iroh to have good things.
Put aside for the moment whether any specific character, including Zuko, deserves their redemption. If youâve decided youâre going to do that, you have to erect the proper narrative scaffolding around them, and it extends to far more things than âdid this person not do things that were too horribleâ and âis this person genuinely sorry and is working really hard to atone.â Thereâs a difference between protagonist and white hat, but if you want someone to eventually wear that white hat, you REALLY need to establish them as a plausible protagonist early on.
Yeah, it was made obvious from the get go that Zuko is definitely nowhere near Zhaoâs level of nasty, which in turn means heâs nowhere near Azulaâs and nowhere in the scope of Ozaiâs.
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He made a deal with Aang to leave the Southern Water Tribe alone if Aang went with him. When Aang escaped with help from two of those tribe members, Zuko didnât demand they go back and destroy what was left of the tribe as revenge. He didnât even think of it as an option. There was no split second where he went, should I/shouldnât I?
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This is repeated. He corners the Avatar somewhere, causes some damage to the area in the ensuing fight, but does not stick around to raze the village/monastery to the ground and kill the people when he doesnât get what he wants. Doesnât consider this a necessary action even once.
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The Iroh&Zuko relationship is juxtaposed with the Zhao&Zuko relationship. Both older men have more power over him. Iroh is a retired War General and Prince who is not banished. Zhao is a Commander in favor of the Firelord, who is also not banished. We could tell early on that Iroh is wise and despite being on the bad side, seems to be pretty chill. We took a liking to him immediately. Zhao is the opposite. He is very much like early!Zuko. Impulsive, rude, loud, cocky, etc⌠But why is he more annoying? Why do we root for Zuko as opposed to him?Â
Because we see what Zuko is like with his Uncle Iroh. Iroh does not rub in the fact that heâs banished. He doesnât use that when reprimanding him for his attitude or his failings. That is a hot iron and he knows it. Itâs to the point where Iroh can bend fire in Zukoâs face and Zuko is perfectly relaxed over it and doesnât once believe his uncle will hurt him. There is a lot of faith in Iroh, from this angsty teenager, and itâs very obvious with their interactions.
Zhao is not trustworthy from the start. Weâre shown this by how both Zuko and Iroh are hesitant to interact with him and donât want to linger in areas he has control over, for too long. They even lie to him despite him obviously having more favor in the Firelordâs eyes than either of them do. Zhaoâs personality opposes both Zuko and Iroh. And as we like Iroh, we want him to win and have nice things, as stated above. But Zuko&Iroh is a package deal. And as Zhao reveals himself more and more to be nasty even if itâs subtle, we want Zuko to win even harder.
And even when Zuko wins and heâs in the prime position to do to Zhao what Ozai did to Zuko for also âspeaking out of turnâ⌠he doesnât do it. He walks away. He is the bigger man in that scenario. And Iroh further puts shame onto Zhao when he goes against the sacred rules of the Agni Kai because he canât handle a loss to a banished teen. We are shown that Zuko follows rules and has honor, which is reinforced by Irohâs, âeven in exile, my nephew is more honorable than youâ. Irohâs Word is basically Law at this point. Sf he says it is so, then he must be right and the audience accepts that. He knows Zuko better than us and hopefully weâll get to understand more as the story progresses.
Already by the 3rd episode, weâre shown that Zuko is in no way the worst person from the Fire Nation. In fact, weâre given a sort of scale now from the four major Fire Nation people we know of. IrohâZukoââ-ZhaoâFirelord.
Weâre also hoping that Iroh rubs off on Zuko enough for him to also become wise and learn to chill out.
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When âThe Stormâ finally rolls around, weâre pretty invested by then in the Iroh&Zuko relationship and that episode gives us so much more info into Zukoâs character and we are shown that Iroh is right. He has honor and he cares for others. And yet itâs obvious the Firelord doesnât because we see Zuko do the right thing(protesting the plan to treat new recruits as cannon fodder) in the wrong place, and then his face gets burned off by his father because of it. And further, heâs banished for refusing to fight his own father. What sane parent wants to do battle with their own child? What sane parent banishes their child for speaking out of turn at the defense of their own peoplesâ lives? What the fuck is wrong with the Firelord?
Zuko was punished severely for showing compassion and having a kind heart. And Iroh(and the ship crew even) is properly mortified by the punishments his nephew received for it, which in turn affects the audienceâs perception of this situation. Iroh doesnât like it, itâs especially bad then.
Now we start wondering why does Zuko wants to go back to the guy who burned his face off?! Iroh, talk some sense into him! PLEASE!
Halfway through S1, they got us to the point of wanting Zuko to have a redemption arc.Â
Making the audience want a character to be redeemed is also very important in this. We were shown he has redeemable qualities. We want that pay off! Do it justice!
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Girl, just do it fat. Donât wait until youâve lost enough weight. Youâre worthy of taking up the space that you fill. Live your life now. Donât wait for some future version of yourself that you think will be more deserving. You have every right to pursue your passions and dreams just as you are today. Your worth isnât tied to a number on a scale or the size of your clothes; it is inherent in who you are. Youâre allowed to be seen, heard, and celebrated in whatever body you inhabit right now. Donât let anyone or anything convince you for too long. So go out. Do it fat! Wear the clothes you love, pursue the opportunities that excite you, and live unapologetically. Thereâs no reason to put off living the life that you want, waiting for a moment that youâre not even sure will come. You deserve to be happy and fulfilled just as you are, and the world needs you exactly as you are today. Everything good that has ever happened to you, happened in this body. Girl, just do it fat.
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I try not to fall into the "I never liked their work anyway" ditch when an artist/creator reveals themself to be a terrible person
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a feeling I do have and will stand by is "While I enjoyed their work overall I did have some gripes that I overlooked out of affection and whimsy, but now that my loyalty is gone and my affection tainted there is nothing holding me back from enumerating my many grievances, to which the revelations of the creator's shittiness may or may not provide a new and infuriating context."