Cas • 27 • He/They/It
Objectum sideblog for a transmasc artist-type. Enjoyer of roller coasters, telescopes, vehicles, interesting architecture, and more. I wax poetic on here about POSIC, objectumsexuality in general, my OS boyfriend and I, being OS with a non-OS husband, and my object partners.
🔞 NSFW often. Absolutely no minors.
Cas • 28 • He/They/It • Transmasc Poly Pan OS & Taken
Greetings & salutations, curious eyes and fellow object enjoyers alike! This is my slice of the net where I talk all things objectumsexuality. On this blog you will find frank discussions of my experiences exploring my sexuality, what it's like to be in an OS4OS relationship, navigating being OS with a non-OS spouse, my perception of POSIC, my object partners, and the occasional piece of home-grown objectum smut — drawn, written, or filmed, all appropriately tagged with external links, of course.
This blog follows from @gnomercy.
While I've been identifying as objectum for some four or five years, I've only recently began to explore my feelings for the objects around me more intimately rather than keeping my curiosity explicitly in art and writing. I will talk about them often here.
✦Favorite Objects: Roller coasters, old arcade cabinets, cars, airplanes, steamships, telescopes, CRT TVs, vintage tech in general ( phones / computers / radios / etc. ), radio towers, plush, inflatables / pool toys, subwoofers, cathedrals, novelty architecture.
When interacting with me please keep in mind I have two very real human partners. Be respectful of me and them, thank you!
Boundaries & BYF ↓
• This blog adheres to the following definition of objectumsexuality: the sexual or romantic attraction to objects. I do not consider platonic relationships to be inherently OS, just as I would not consider the majority of humans to be platonically pansexual. I believe that terms should have concrete meanings and that the term POSIC should be platformed more often in OS discussions. I still believe that people outside of this definition have a space in the OS community because object relationships of any kind are nonstandard, I just have concerns regarding sanitization and othering in communal spaces originally meant for those who adhere to the original definition.
• I am uncomfortable with certain paraphiles following me. Please do not engage with me if you sexualize minors, animals, or incestual relationships. I am not comfortable seeing it and I do not like that modern OS spaces are becoming increasingly infiltrated by untagged very usually triggering content because we're "all paraphiles."
• I am nonsharing. I do not feel comfortable with people are into the IASW clock following me as he is an important object in my life. I also have a coaster I am nonsharing with that I am relatively private about — I will block people who share it with me. This isn't a pass of judgment on you or your relationship, I just prefer to avoid "doubles."
• I do not like community infighting. This applies to the above. I have no interest in label politics or policing. I care more about the real people behind a label than the semantics of it. If the label resonates with you, I am not going to tell you it isn't valid. I do not like hierarchical attitudes: classifying what "qualifies" as objectum and fighting over who is "truly" the lover of certain objects falls under this. I do not choose sides in nonsharing arguments and think community spaces should remain for the community, not for who is the "true" lover of an object. I say this as someone who is nonsharing with a public object. I encourage good faith engagement, self moderation in communal spaces, timeline curation to avoid people that upset you, and productive discourse. Remember that we all experience objectumsexuality differently. Your experience should not exclude others from spaces meant for a larger community.
• This blog talks about object sex often and is run by a kinkster. I will be speaking very explicitly on this blog about having sex with my objects, kink headspaces, and will often post attached imagery, artwork, literature, or video. Please do not follow if this will make you uncomfortable. Absolutely no minors.
• I am neurodivergent. I am diagnosed with ADHD and suspect further diagnoses I have not pursued. I often leave messages unread or unreplied to because of decision paralysis. I am prone to overexplaining and regularly type in paragraphs. Please keep this in mind when interacting with me. It is not a reflection of disinterest or intensity, respectively.
• I am a substance user. I drink socially as well as take psychoactive drugs ( mushrooms, cannabis ) regularly. It plays a huge part in my experience of being objectum. I talk about it here often, though I try tagging it to the best of my ability.
• I talk about my faith here. I am a Cuban-American brujo. My faith is a mix of superstitions from my family and my personal beliefs of energy transfer and intention. I primarily work with lunar energies, intention, kitchen witchery, and objects. I believe strongly that objects absorb the energy of their surroundings and the people who care of them. I will talk about more metaphysical things here when it comes to how I perceive POSIC.
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We're coming up on two weeks since I had a marathon weekend of doing objectum outreach at both Momocon and a local market, oops! I'm finally home and settled after traveling for moving prospects, so I figured I'd do a little write-up at long last.
Atlanta's Momocon was lovely! We had a more intimate, smaller group this time around, largely spread through word of mouth online and through people in the area who requested I arrange something. The lack of an established place to announce events probably contributed to lower numbers, but honestly? I love smaller meetups like this and I had such a fun time speaking to familiar faces again ... and seeing some new ones!
I also was able to exhibit my work at a smaller market put on by the lovely folks over at Kitty House in Athens, who have been nothing but accommodating and incredible towards my artistic expression. If you're looking for a place to give back to your community as your artsy, freaky self: this is the place to do it. No contest. Ask them how to get involved! 😽
The audience for these events were vastly different, both with their own unique challenges. I love bringing my community together and giving us a tangible, physical space to talk about the objectum experience, but I also really, really loved speaking to the general public. I had a few people walk up to my booth during the market and inquire about my body of work. It's become easier to say the hard part first: I am an objectumsexual. I am in love with my car. This is my art about it. I strongly believe objects as a concept are universal and tell us a lot about ourselves — let's talk about it!
I heard a lot of really good responses to this take, and feedback encompassed people telling me about their own cars, places they've left, things they've loved ... ultimately we settled on mutual understanding, even if they're not objectum, and I was told that my perspective was very unique and refreshing. I think in an increasingly scary world people were just thankful to see someone loving the mundanity of life. It's one of the most beautiful parts of being objectum for me.
This marks what will very likely be my last objectum outreach opportunity before I move out of the south. I'm really heartbroken about it, but cannot overstate how excited I am for the plans I have on the horizon. Rest assured: my work doesn't end here, and those I'm leaving behind have designs to continue in my stead! 🙇♂️ That's what outreach is all about and I've so, so proud of what I'm accomplished in my time here. 🫂 Onto the next adventure! 🚗💨
Backrooms null spaces opening briefly beneath a highway and swallowing up vehicles. Feeding off the memories of the cars there instead of their drivers.
Endless stretches of roads that double back on themselves or go to nowhere. It’s always midnight with the street lamps barely illuminating maddening transit infrastructure. Backwards or mirrored road signs. Exits that go to nowhere and ask for impossible tolls. Double or triple armed crossing gates. Cars with combined emblems or bumper stickers they might’ve crossed on happenstance years and years ago during a commute. Bodies stretching for three more car lengths than they should, like a Google street camera caught them in motion. Billboards that blur reality and interior memories — didn’t you drive that family once? Huh.
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likely going to give this blog some TLC when i finally sit down and work on it again, and i do think part of that is finally taking a firm boundary irt the proliferation of robot fucking stuff in our circles.
primarily that it does stick a bit in my craw when i:
make art about the objectum experience and immediately have my work compared to works of fiction. i had people tag an artist en masse on my analog whorer piece and it made me super uncomfortable even if i really love their work. the piece was about OS attraction. not a fictional robot x human relationship.
post outreach stuff and have people laser focus on depictions of characters if they are brought to my events in the form of plush, figures, etc. i understand people get excited by sharing media but i make outreach posts specifically to raise awareness about objectum issues. YES characters can be a vehicle to make that happen, but it's frustrating to constantly feel like their presence overshadows the struggles and visibility of real, actual people.
people bringing up unrelated robot fucking stuff on resources / awareness posts i make about OS stuff. yeah, no. this one i'm a lot less nice about. stop bringing up media preferences on posts where i'm warning people about predatory corporations preying on a vulnerable minority group with promise of financial gain.
i really hope i don't come off as incendiary or mean but i do think that part of me getting more aggressive with outreach work is having a very clear boundary on what constitutes as OS for me. i don't believe in respectability politics or positioning ourselves "correctly" to gain the favor of non OS people. but at the same time i think words should have concrete meanings and that watering down the term benefits no one.
again, this is about works of fiction and character preferences. i wish i saw more conversation about robots as objects and how being in an OS relationship would work with one! it's such an underexplored topic and one i think needs to be discussed following the boom of AI.
Slowly settling back into the daily grind now that I'm back home; this includes the slog of moving prep x_x I will try to be present where I can but realistically I'm going to be a little scarce, thank you. Need to plug away at my HWC piece!
came home from an amazing road trip with my girl and my neighbor installed the scariest motion activated camera in viewing distance of her ask me what demons i'm fighting.
The aura these two were exuding in the Texas Roadhouse parking lot was delightfully overpowering. Gotta love two mean badass butches with attitudes.
Thank you for taking the time to stop and see me @treadgrinder <3 was so wonderful talking in person and meeting your partners, it did my heart some good! Best of luck on all your future travels and I'm looking forward to our next meet-up!
HEHEHE definitely something for my bucket list — meeting you was one of the absolute highlights of my trip and Trix and her presence were everything I thought it’d be.
I can’t wait to gush in my own proper write-up about how much this experience meant to me as a vehium. I’m so glad to have met you through here. Drive safe, you two! 👋
We’re home safe after six days on the road. Every mile I fall a little more in love with her, and experiencing roadside America at her side always makes those honeymoon flutters come back after a year of being hers and her mine.
To those of you who met us halfway, who offered us a meal and welcomed us into your neighborhoods with open arms: thank you, from the bottom of my heart. Being OS has connected me to so many amazing people across the United States and there’s a kind of magic that happens when you get two of us together in a physical space. I so, so strongly feel the white hot desire to build something tangible for us. To have more people experience that sense of immediate understanding and connection. To speak freely, face to face, and finally just be able to be. Community is the most important thing to me, now more than ever in these uncertain times. I am very, very lucky to know all of you and to be known. Thank you for giving me the privilege.
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Backrooms was an absolutely fantastic movie and between it and my trip into Chicago I’m thinking so much about architecture and how we interact with it, waaghhh …
Feels so good to feel the urge to write again. I burnt out badly a few years ago following leaving the Warcraft community due to the stress put on community volunteers, but these days it feels like I can’t keep my hands off a pen — a real, actual pen! I can’t remember the last time I drafted physically. Trying to teach myself it’s okay to be sloppy and imperfect. Sometimes it’s truly just enough to make something exist rather than to make it flawless.
Had to make a pit stop as we stare down the barrel of a long commute down south tomorrow — there’s always been something so profoundly fascinating to me about architecture that is built for use by vehicles as opposed to people. Marina City is no different, and actually represents my favorite intersection of the two: vehicles and people living in tandem. Glad I finally got to see it with my own eyes.
I could write at length about living with cars as our companions and friends and love to think about buildings playing a role in that. With any luck I’ll see Miss Tux staring down at me from the Riverwalk someday — I’d love to splurge on an hour or two of parking as a bucket list item for her if I ever manage to book MFF.
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Living on the road always inspires me something fierce — and this time I finally managed to bring along ample writing materials to a place I knew was going to speak to me. And so I've formally began the process of spitballing for my OS memoir past the initial planning phase. This is the real meat and potatoes: the lived experiences, thoughts and perceptions of sentience as I witness them. The goal is to pull something cohesive from the noise and spin it into organized prose. This is the tricky part.
It truly is a million years off and this is censored because the truth is that it'll need to be beta read a million billion times before I'm comfortable sharing anything past sensory descriptions for a multitude of reasons, chief among them anonymity of anyone tangentially mentioned in regards to outreach or community as I take the safety of other OS people very seriously.
But I'm very confident about it and feeling accomplished as hell that I'm taking the first steps. My memory isn't the best and I haven't physically drafted like this since I was a teenager, so it does feel like I need to strike while the iron is hot. But I want this to be a project that cooks low and slow, it's important to me that it comes out exactly the way I want it to. Good practice for smaller things in the meantime though :)
I feel so, so confident and excited for the state of objectum outreach moving forwards and I can’t wait to show you all what we have in store for you. 🫶
