SALLY !!!!!!

hi everyone, its puppet! you may know it from getting terminated constantly and having to remake its dono posts a lot. sadly it has to aaagain.

so, puppets a homeless and disabled trans woman, and it cant work, has been couch crashing, and has been living purely off donations from tumblr as they keep terminating it. and now on top of that, it is living with its girlfriend, @phantomqueen10001001! while this has been great for both of us,, puppet already only has enough money for food for the next 1-2 weeks, and we both really need to eat. and so we would really appreciate if anyone could help!

puppet has a paypal here, and cassie has one here.

also, in august we are going to lose our current crash spot, and we need to look for another, but we're very disconnected in the city.. if anyone here knows anyone in seattle who needs a roommate or who could give us a place to stay for a while,,

we'd really really appreciate any help.

If it helps inventivise girls who can to help provide housing, I can even provide some money as rent if needed

My gf's household received an eviction warning for 2,200$ and they need help to cover it! Please give her whatever you can so she doesn't get evicted, it would really mean the world to me. If you can't donate, at least please reblog okay?

Her ko-fi

And the thing is they always seem kind of annoyed if not offended by people implying they might be trans? Like "why can't I just be a feminine man".

And I'm not sure how to deal with this like... On one hand it ties into transmisogynist talking points to go "it's ok to be a feminine man", on the other hand, not doing that is directly contradicting their express wishes for how you talk about it.

I guess the solution is to just not talk about or to these people about their gender, except personally if they're my friend. But I was interested to hear if you have any two cents to add to this.

(Also sorry if this comes off as a gotcha. I'm trans fem myself, I just genuinely don't know this stuff.)

i think for a lot of transfems (myself included), playing with aesthetic femininity (especially online) is nothing compared to admitting there's something not male about you. The first is treading knee high water, it's mildly risky but not that scary, the second feels like jumping from a cliff into unknowably deep waters. It's the femboy problem of people openly liking transfemininity so long as the person performing it doesn't admit their womanhood. It's the way that seeing that stuff around you constantly affects your own ability to perceive yourself. This is even worse if you have any popularity at all, even worse if you have so called allies constantly calling you "really progressive for a cis man".

"hey....are you a therian?" "yeah!" "what kind of animal?" "eh, some kinda dog" "😲😀 im like a wolf coyote hybrid" "that's fuckin awesome"

tags from @k1ntsug1-r0b0t-g1rl