The Stolen Journals of the Emo Worm God

Folk, I know we are all here for kink stuff, but just to step out of it for a moment. Ontario is burning and people are losing everything. I know we are all whole humans beyond the kink who are capable of imagining what it is to lose your home, all your belongings, memories and sense of security in a matter of moments. If you have the funds available and the interest to donate them - here is a website with some options.

Much love from your curvy Canadian feeder

I've left this one for a while because I've gone back and forth on whether I want to engage in another feedist relationship. Ever.

But if Hinge has taught me anything it's that my trust in men has been ruined across the board, not just here...and if it is comprehensively damaged, I will need to work toward repair no matter who I choose to share my life.

It's been months since he decided we were finished and a month since he deigned to tell me, so perhaps it is time to start thinking about what comes next.

In lieu of an application (I can't) here are some basic preferences:

I'm mostly looking for male or masc partners, but I'm not ruling anything out. Attraction can be so individualized. 30+ only, I am too grown for most of you.

I am seeking a wholly monogamous connection at this time. The possibility of opening a relationship is a long way in the future for me.

I need a connection outside of feedism - we have to have more in common than food and fucking.

I require consistent communication - not constant, but predictable and in a way that demonstrates caring for me as a human, not just a provider of kink and currency.

I am only interested in ultimately in-person relationships. That limits me to New Englanders or someone willing to make a very real plan for relocation if we become seriously involved. (I cannot move at this time, though it will be an option in the future.)

Locals should be aware that I prefer one date night per week, minimum. I feel disconnected quickly when we do not see each other in a meaningful capacity (without good reason.)

I do not have a size requirement or a goal requirement, so asking is pointless. I want to care about a person and I want any gains to be the result of that depth of care.

I'm shallow and spoiled, so I'll need to like your face.

I am not open to mutual gain relationships. Only one person ever had that option, and he ruined it for all of you.

I want to be loved and cherished as a person before I am ever your feeder. In fact, I suspect that being referred to solely as your feeder will be a deal breaker for me.

If this sounds like you, my inbox is open (I think? I'll check.)