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I do really love it when women write graphic and fucked up things. I feel like so often people react to fucked up fiction with “of course a disgusting man would write this 🙄” and it often carries an unspoken (honestly sometimes spoken) message of “a woman’s PURE and DELICATE and FEMININE mind could NEVER think of something this VILE”. Thank you women in fucked up fiction 🫡

i actually completely disagree with this because i think it’s simplistic. When people say “ofc a man wrote this.” it’s mostly regarding how they sexualize women. because, for example, i do not think a man could have ever written the interview with the vampire series which is incredibly fucked up. or another “wuthering heights”, very fucked up, and a man could not pull it off.

I am writing this <3

being queerbaited is more fun than being given a couple right away but thinking you WERE being queerbaited and now you’re not is more fun than both of these. actually not being queerbaited anymore is potentially the most fun of all but it’s never happened before so we don’t know. we simply don’t have the data yet

The only thing that has ever improved my mental health in any measurable capacity is making more friends. That's literally it

The way isolation plays on your psyche, and the way that a solid support system can improve your life is insane. One of the worst things that we did as a society is removing most avenues to find this kind of thing, and the over reliance on the idea of getting better on your own