if only my life / was in three quarter time.

(psst, rory monday mug available here!) 

3223ex P900 Barn Owl by jjjj56cp zoom in for great feather details around his face  http://flic.kr/p/CaZtk4

Gillian Anderson by Nick Haddow, 2015

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Flowers on flowers on flowers on flowers! Decorating for the Blogilates Holiday party tomorrow night! I can’t wait to show you this flower wall in its full glory! 🌸🌸🌸

Words cannot describe my panic.

Amy is the woooooooooooooooorst.

“Imagine you’re at a party. A guy offers you a drink. You say no. He says ‘Come on, one drink!’ You say ‘no thanks.’ Later, he brings you a soda. ‘I know you said you didn’t want a drink, but I was getting one for myself and you looked thirsty.’ For you to refuse at this point makes you the asshole. He’s just being nice, right? Predators use the social contract and our own good hearts and fear of being rude against us. If you drink the drink, you’re teaching him that it just takes a little persistence on his part to overcome your ‘no.’ If you say ‘Really, I appreciate it, but no thanks’ and put the drink down and walk away from it, you’re the one who looks rude in that moment. But the fact is, you didn’t ask for the drink and you don’t want the drink and you don’t have to drink it just to make some guy feel validated.” —The Art of “No” (Jennifer P.)

…Come here.

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The older I get, the more sensitive I’ve become. I don’t know why. I think it’s that age where death is more around you… I appreciate things more. I mean, I’ve always been very grateful, but I feel far more grounded than I did 10 years ago. — Kirsten Dunst for The Edit

One Day in Wangwu Moutain_02 by XL Wei