free spirit

Never allow loneliness to drive you into the arms of someone you know you don’t belong with.

We should find peace in exactly who we are, even if others don’t find their peace about us. Including the finding of peace about our mistakes. That is very important, because us human beings are not only made of good things, we all have hurt others at times. But we need to forgive ourselves, knowing that the universe has also forgiven us. Don’t let people clobber you over your head over and over again for your mistakes, and please don’t do it to yourself either.

Stop apologizing. You don’t have to say sorry for how you laugh, how you dress, how you make your hair, how you do your makeup, how you speak. You don’t have to be sorry for being yourself. Do it fearlessly. It’s time to accept: this is you, and you gotta spend the rest of your life with you. So start loving your sarcasm, your awkwardness, your weirdness, your peculiar habits, your unique sense of humor, your voice, your talents, your everything. It will make your life so much easier to simply be yourself.

It’s important to make sure that we’re talking with each other in a way that heals, not in a way that wounds.