the thirty project

i know i've said this before but i'm going to say it again because the more i work with geriatric women the stronger i feel about the fact that the only anti-aging that women in their 20s/30s should be obsessed with is building strong bones and muscle mass. that's like the most important thing you can you can do right now to lay a good foundation for healthy aging. you can botox the shit out of your face but that's not going to do anything to save you from dying prematurely from a fatal hip fracture that you can't bounce back from because you didn't do anything to prevent yourself from becoming frail and breakable. like i know that sounds harsh but that is reality for a lot of older women and i don't want that to be you.

Also, strengthen your back (especially your lower back) and your knees to prevent chronic pain from muscle weakness in those areas, and regularly practice getting up off the floor from a lying position.

Someone told me once that the biggest predictor for healthy aging (absent other internal factors, like cancer or heart disease) was the ability to get up without using your hands. Ever since I've practiced to the point that I can get from full prone on the floor to standing without having to push myself up off the floor, and I make sure to do it several times a day. It's amazing how much more confident I feel about my body and what I can do with it when I have that baseline to fall back on.

I am begging you guys to build your muscle strength at 20. That is an investment you absolutely cannot put off. You'll pay for it dearly in your old age otherwise.

oh god im responsible for me

worrying is like worshipping the problem

and brother i’m on my knees

I loooove when there’s a mysterious mist settling over a location

pulling my tamagotchi out of my pocket in the same way a distinguished old man would check his pocket watch

I’m actually kinda fun once you get to know me (takes 3 to 4 years).