therosenrot

You likely both count yourselves lucky you found each other.

If you chose him, he is probably a loving, good, strong, proud, hardworking man.

Likewise, if he chose you, you are probably a loving, good, strong, proud, hardworking woman.

It is pretty common for long term relationships to grow too comfortable, maybe even a little stale. It is still loving, wonderful, and comforting just a little too well known.

Your explorations, in enforced chastity, are opening a door to a beautiful journey that could transform your relationship from great to spectacular!

Inspire each other to be the best versions of themselves - everyone can improve; enjoy the excitement of remaking each other; savor the mystery of exploring and pushing new boundaries; the thrill of rediscovering each other; seeing each other in a new light with the help and support of their love.

Empower each other to liberate their sexuality, explore new horizons, experiment with new dynamics, and potentially enjoy the freedom of living and accepting a relationship of inequality: focused on her empowerment, her leadership, and her pleasure.

It has amazed me how enriching, fulfilling, and playful a D/s FLR becomes. I can only suggest that you give it a shot: to lovingly, caringly, and playfully give it a trial run and assess the results. Worst case, you pack it in and chalk it up to an attempt to spice things up. Best case, you renew your relationship and share a wonderful journey together!

my mistress spank me hard because i am naughty boy

He wants YOU to lovingly use him, lovingly abuse him, objectify him, humiliate him, manipulate him, deny him, and to reap the benefits and rewards of enslaving him to you. He wants and needs YOU to love your life, your power, his submission, and to love him.

With your loving dominance, his submission will subtly change from a gift he offers you to a demand of yours that he must fulfill. Dispell his notion that he is offering his submission to you, and make sure he understands that you are TAKING his submission and him. There is a subtle, but very powerful difference. It takes time, effort, and trust to reach your goal of his absolute surrender to you and your authority.