The Lovingly Obedient Wife

1. Let him provide and protect.

It is in a man’s nature to come to a woman’s rescue when they are in need. Don’t feel bad about being weak or in need of his protection, just accept it and thank him for it.

2. Always look beautiful for him.

Men admire beauty! If you want your man to appreciate, love and admire you, you must look your best. Wear form-fitting clothes, keep yourself in shape and take care of your skin!

3. Listen, but don’t answer.

Sometimes, when he’s upset or stressed about something, the most operative solution is to just listen. You will often internally disagree with him, but the last thing he needs is to hear it. If he’s frustrated about a thing from work, he needs to vent, to be understood. He doesn’t need to end up in another debate.

4. Attend to his wishes.

Sure, you may have a thousand other chores to do, and it can be a bit stressful if he asks you to do additional things. Maybe bake his favorite cake, or clean the bathroom. Just calmly say «Alright honey, I’ll get it done.» Even if you aren’t able to do it right away, he’ll appreciate your efforts.

5. Know when to ask him something/deliver bad news.

I married my husband because I admire him greatly, because he is an awesome man and he would never intentionally hurt me. I am safe in his decisions.

Weekly:

Wrote out grocery list

As Needed:

Food prep: grind coffee beans (1 mason jar)

Refilled bird bath & feeders

Refreshed bath towels; couch pillows & blanket in dryer

Daily:

Cleaned out litter box & vacuumed litter off floor

Descaled tea kettle

Made bed & refreshed blanket in dryer

Made meals & ice

Opened driveway gate

Pet the cats & put food out

Prepped coffeemaker & tea kettle for the morning

Refilled Berkey water filter

Set-up morning dishes & vitamins

Vacuumed entire house

Washed dishes & wiped counters/stovetop

Downtime:

Social media, online puzzles, research & writing, Wii sports, watched movies, exercise (400 swings, 100 squats, 100 push-ups)

Relaxed with my husband: enjoyed our weekly burger outing to Frugals, watched preview for ’90 Day Fiance Tell All’